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Subject: Re: New to Spanking

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Cliff

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Date Posted: 07:24:08 12/03/24 Tue
In reply to: James 's message, "New to Spanking" on 09:51:07 12/02/24 Mon

Usually, the slower you go and the more of a warm-up you give, the more they can take. My advise is to spank slow and steady until you feel like she is close to her limit, then stop and massage. Once she is relaxed, start slow and easy again. See how long you can both keep this up.

Then when you are ready to end the session, ask her to trust you will stop spanking her before she absolutely has to use a safe word. Then give her a final volley of spanks that pushes her close to having to give in to the sting, but stop before she does.

Over time, her tolerance should build. I happen to enjoy spanking a girl with a mild tolerance more than one who can just lay still and take it. Feel good about having a girl that both enjoys and reacts to being spanked.

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[> Subject: Re: New to Spanking
Author: Anna [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 14:39:16 12/03/24 Tue I spank my teens with a Jokari Paddle. It does leave marks and sometimes beside a dark crimson bottom there will appear with orange and purple spots. that tells me that it was a good firm paddling. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]