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Subject: Strategies for those spanked, and for spankers Author: Grumpy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 17:53:41 04/11/25 Fri Time to ask this once again. Some years ago, young guys I knew were talking about how they dealt with spankings, with one of them saying he tried to cry as soon as he was placed over a knee. Aside from that tactic, what did you try to make the spanking less severe, long or hard. Some things I can think of might be diving over a lap before being bared, move in closer, towards the top of the spanker’s thighs to cut down on the arc of his/her swing, or move side to side to create a moving target. What did you try and you might suggest? For those who spank, what do you do if confronted by some tactics, especially by older kids? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Strategies for those spanked, and for spankers Author: JenniAnn [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:57:33 04/15/25 Tue I have no idea whether I am right but sometimes I wonder whether kicking and howling while over the knees is an involuntary tactic of coping with the spanking. I screamed as loud as I could and kicked like crazy when the stinging got too bad and I wonder if this can be an instinct that makes you trying to ease the pain/agony/humilation. Other thoughts? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Strategies for those spanked, and for spankers Author: Jan R [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:00:15 04/15/25 Tue After just a few licks the burn of the strap becomes intense. Sometimes I will turn my head and look up at dad with pleading eyes hoping he will take some pity and ease up or stop. Does that ever work? No, but maybe it's just my way of trying to cope with it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Jan R Re: Strategies for those spanked, and for spankers Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:57:20 04/20/25 Sun If you're lying on the table face down and turn your head to look up at your dad who is using his strap on you do you see him raising the strap and then bringing it down? Is that worse than being face down and not knowing when he'll next give it to you? Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan R Re: Strategies for those spanked, and for spankers Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:34:34 04/20/25 Sun Dear Mindy, Yes. Dad isn't looking at my face so my pleading look goes unnoticed and I do see him raising his arm and bringing the strap down. I turn my head back and just look forward. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan R Re: Strategies for those spanked, and for spankers Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:15:34 04/20/25 Sun Thanks for the reply, Jan R When he lifts the strap up, raises his arm, how high off your bottom does he lift it? I would sometimes feel I needed to bring it up over my shoulder but mostly just so my arm was straight out and then, with a flick of my wrist, flip the end of the strap back so it wasn't dangling down when I started to bring it down. Does your dad pause for a bit between each spank? As he's giving you the strap, does he ever say anything to you, or to your mother? Does your mother ever say anything? I'd sometimes respond to pleads to stop saying, "I'm sorry you need this and I have to strap you and strap you hard. You know that!" Or, I might say, "That's a good boy. Take it like a good boy. Just a few more. Now hold on." I saw another reply, above, about your dad oiling the strap. Does he ever oil it right before a spanking, knowing he's going to be spanking you shortly? Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan R Re: Strategies for those spanked, and for spankers Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:02:10 04/20/25 Sun Dear Mindy, He lifts his hand up over his head. He holds the end of the strap with his left hand as he raises it up. Then he brings it down hard with his right hand to land across my buttocks. Yes he pauses. He waits a couple seconds before the next lick. Dad doesn't talk when he is spanking me. Mom has said stuff like I sure hope you learn from this Jan. I'm usually bawling hard by then. My parents big saying is "Jan you have noone to blame for this but yourself." Mine have never said anything like take it like a big girl. Trust me, I don't. Mom just kinda watches that strap landing. Yes, I have been spanked right after or shortly after dad oiled the strap. He hasn't oiled it on purpose right before I am spanked but I have gotten it right after he oiled it. That's how I know that it's even worse right after it's been oiled. What he will do sometimes is have me standing facing the table with hands on head. I'm fully nude. He then gets the strap out and lays it on the table. He will say something like "Think about why you are being punished and how this is going to feel in a few minutes." Then he leaves me standing there looking at that awful strap thinking about the hellfire I'm about to experience. I have to say this, that is terribly effective. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan R Re: Strategies for those spanked, and for spankers Author: Jan R to Mindy (Continued) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:39:31 04/20/25 Sun Dear Mindy, So, after about 10 -15 minutes mom and dad step back in. I usually turn around to see them come in. Yes, that gives dad a birds eye view of my bare breasts but he has already seen everything anyway. Dad steps over and picks up the strap. "Ok Jan get up onto the table and in position. Lets get this overwith." THe next couple minutes are just hell as dad lays that leather across my bare. I usually get around 15 -20 licks before he feels I've had enough. Then he puts the strap down and it's comfort time. Between my post above and this, that's pretty much the whole process. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan R Re: Strategies for those spanked, and for spankers Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:02:50 04/22/25 Tue Thank you for the account of how your parents punish you when you need it. I say when you need it as obviously your parents believe you need it when it happens. Do you generally agree when they say you're going to get spanked that you actually do need it? As horrible as it will be it's for the best? As a young adult, right up to five years or so older than you, I sure dreaded spankings but knew I'd be the better for it. To say I welcomed the news would be an overstatement for sure, but there was part of me that was very accepting. I know my kids felt the same when older and I spanked. Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan R Re: Strategies for those spanked, and for spankers Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:25:31 04/22/25 Tue Dear Mindy, Like you. I'm sure not thrilled at the announcement but at the same time, yes, I know I've earned it. I also know that dad doesn't relish this part of parenting either. He doesn't look happy when he orders me to report to his study. I'm accepting as well. I know it's gonna happen so lets get on with it, hopefully I learn something and then it's over. I do love the comfort after. That part is nice. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Strategies for those spanked, and for spankers Author: Louise Vancisic Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:22:01 04/22/25 Tue It's not truly voluntary. When I was girl I was allowed and expected to cry but I was also required to show self control about screaming and kicking. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Strategies for those spanked, and for spankers Author: Cerra [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:11:12 04/16/25 Wed Begging. Pitiful desperate pleading "stop" "no more" "that's enough" Abject apologies "I'm sorry!" "I'll never do it again!" Devolving into bawling "ohmygoditstingstoomuch" gasping "pleasepleasePULEEZE" and finally babyish babbling. And yes, it's just instinctual to kick and screech like mad for a hard bare bottom spanking. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Strategies for those spanked, and for spankers Author: Stelter [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:11:18 04/21/25 Mon Dear Cerra, And because an experienced disciplinarian naturally knows the strategies of his brats, he won't care about the theater they put on over his lap or the back of the arm-chair. Only the state of the backside will tell you whether the message has been received. A decisive reason to always administer the spanking on the bare bottom. Incidentally, it is a pretty sure sign when the body loses tension and no longer resists with all its strength. Then the child gradually begins to accept the punishment. So be careful with the big show - it could also lead to a few more strokes. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Strategies for those spanked, and for spankers Author: Ivy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:49:42 04/21/25 Mon When spanking restarted at age 13, I was full of screaming, protestations and promises. I was later informed by some kids also subject to the indignity of spanking (as well as by my grandmother), that this type of bratty over-the-top behavior was what led to spankings at my at my age. I tried to quietly and seriously take the discipline and punishment to the best possible. I believe was a good strategy in avoiding further spanking. Ivy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Strategies for those spanked, and for spankers Author: Alfred22 (for Ivy) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:33:21 04/22/25 Tue The goal ought to be to minimize behavior that earns spankings rather than what kids often wish for when constructing spanking strategies -- namely ways to avoid or lower the pain of getting even earned spankings. Or keeping the pain level down at least as far as that is possible. Probably the real truth is that cooperation and getting through it without making a big resistance or scene is also the best way to make it educational and unlikely to be repeated. How did your spanked friends help with that? Did this forum play any role? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]