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Subject: Strategies for those spanked, and for spankers Author: Grumpy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 17:53:41 04/11/25 Fri Time to ask this once again. Some years ago, young guys I knew were talking about how they dealt with spankings, with one of them saying he tried to cry as soon as he was placed over a knee. Aside from that tactic, what did you try to make the spanking less severe, long or hard. Some things I can think of might be diving over a lap before being bared, move in closer, towards the top of the spanker’s thighs to cut down on the arc of his/her swing, or move side to side to create a moving target. What did you try and you might suggest? For those who spank, what do you do if confronted by some tactics, especially by older kids? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Strategies for those spanked, and for spankers Author: JenniAnn [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:57:33 04/15/25 Tue I have no idea whether I am right but sometimes I wonder whether kicking and howling while over the knees is an involuntary tactic of coping with the spanking. I screamed as loud as I could and kicked like crazy when the stinging got too bad and I wonder if this can be an instinct that makes you trying to ease the pain/agony/humilation. Other thoughts? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Strategies for those spanked, and for spankers Author: Louise Vancisic Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:22:01 04/22/25 Tue It's not truly voluntary. When I was girl I was allowed and expected to cry but I was also required to show self control about screaming and kicking. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Strategies for those spanked, and for spankers Author: Cerra [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:11:12 04/16/25 Wed Begging. Pitiful desperate pleading "stop" "no more" "that's enough" Abject apologies "I'm sorry!" "I'll never do it again!" Devolving into bawling "ohmygoditstingstoomuch" gasping "pleasepleasePULEEZE" and finally babyish babbling. And yes, it's just instinctual to kick and screech like mad for a hard bare bottom spanking. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Strategies for those spanked, and for spankers Author: Stelter [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:11:18 04/21/25 Mon Dear Cerra, And because an experienced disciplinarian naturally knows the strategies of his brats, he won't care about the theater they put on over his lap or the back of the arm-chair. Only the state of the backside will tell you whether the message has been received. A decisive reason to always administer the spanking on the bare bottom. Incidentally, it is a pretty sure sign when the body loses tension and no longer resists with all its strength. Then the child gradually begins to accept the punishment. So be careful with the big show - it could also lead to a few more strokes. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Strategies for those spanked, and for spankers Author: Louise Vancisic Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:17:58 05/03/25 Sat I used all of those. The only one that seemed to help was my repeated promises to be a good girl. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Strategies for those spanked, and for spankers Author: Ivy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:49:42 04/21/25 Mon When spanking restarted at age 13, I was full of screaming, protestations and promises. I was later informed by some kids also subject to the indignity of spanking (as well as by my grandmother), that this type of bratty over-the-top behavior was what led to spankings at my at my age. I tried to quietly and seriously take the discipline and punishment to the best possible. I believe was a good strategy in avoiding further spanking. Ivy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Strategies for those spanked, and for spankers Author: Alfred22 (for Ivy) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:33:21 04/22/25 Tue The goal ought to be to minimize behavior that earns spankings rather than what kids often wish for when constructing spanking strategies -- namely ways to avoid or lower the pain of getting even earned spankings. Or keeping the pain level down at least as far as that is possible. Probably the real truth is that cooperation and getting through it without making a big resistance or scene is also the best way to make it educational and unlikely to be repeated. How did your spanked friends help with that? Did this forum play any role? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]