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Subject: Re: Strategies for those spanked, and for spankers

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Ivy

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Date Posted: 15:49:42 04/21/25 Mon
In reply to: Grumpy 's message, "Strategies for those spanked, and for spankers" on 17:53:41 04/11/25 Fri

When spanking restarted at age 13, I was full of screaming, protestations and promises. I was later informed by some kids also subject to the indignity of spanking (as well as by my grandmother), that this type of bratty over-the-top behavior was what led to spankings at my at my age. I tried to quietly and seriously take the discipline and punishment to the best possible. I believe was a good strategy in avoiding further spanking.

Ivy

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Alfred22 (for Ivy)
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Date Posted: 21:33:21 04/22/25 Tue

The goal ought to be to minimize behavior that earns spankings rather than what kids often wish for when constructing spanking strategies -- namely ways to avoid or lower the pain of getting even earned spankings. Or keeping the pain level down at least as far as that is possible.

Probably the real truth is that cooperation and getting through it without making a big resistance or scene is also the best way to make it educational and unlikely to be repeated. How did your spanked friends help with that? Did this forum play any role?

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