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Subject: Re: Plausible punishment spankings


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Gisela (for Alfred)
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Date Posted: 14:25:53 04/19/25 Sat
In reply to: Alfred22 for Gisela 's message, "Re: Plausible punishment spankings" on 09:12:44 04/19/25 Sat

Dear Alfred,
that's quite a colorful bouquet of thoughts, and I'll see which ones I can respond to in a meaningful way.

Giselle, Gisella... Emphasis on the second syllable, that's the roman pronunciation and spelling of my name. I come from the German-speaking part of Switzerland, where it's a little less lyrical: Gisela - or Gisi for short.

I'm very happy that we (my husband and I) agree on the right parenting methods with our four children (three boys, one girl). No one (not even my husband, who sadly passed away four years ago) would claim that spanking a child or a woman is something beautiful or aesthetic. But it is effective when it comes to obedience! And helpful for the atmosphere in a family in general. There are simply reasons why people first think of “The Switch” when they think of punishment and obedience, as you described!

Of course, my grandsons and granddaughters stay over at our house from time to time, especially during school vacations. And of course they know that grandma's cooking spoon feels just as bad on their bottoms as their mom's cooking spoon. And some of them already know that the wooden spoon doesn't have to be the end of the punishment.

I think we will gradually get the many threads of this conversation sorted again. All the best - Gisi aka Gisela

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