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Subject: Re: William ... Re: Strapping Last Night Author: Mork and Mindy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 11:30:26 05/08/25 Thu In reply to: William to Mindy 's message, "Re: William ... Re: Strapping Last Night" on 10:16:57 05/08/25 Thu Thank you for telling me about Ann's second strap appointment. How recent was it? Do you have any gut feel that she may be headed for a third encounter in the not too distant future? When I've been spanked by Mork I think we're both aware before of tensions in the air that will likely be cleared up with me bellowing at the top of my lungs and tears streaming down my face. Never keen when the time comes, but good to clear the air and get our marriage back to harmony. You say you have disciplined Jan more than once for the same sort of thing. In the four years you've had the strap, how often has Jan had it? Do you expect to keep using it with her, if needed, as long as she lives at home? How does Mork discipline me? There is no one answer to that as it can and does vary. However, I can give you an idea of how a discipline that ended with the strap might go. It would always start by the two of us having a conversation about the issue at hand and if discipline was necessary. We'd both agree it was and to start with I'd take an enema. I'd likely give it to myself in our bathroom, standing at the vanity, legs some apart, facing the sink. Mork would watch, generally silently, from the bedroom, as I prepared the enema, lubricated the nozzle, reached back as I bent and squatted a bit to insert the nozzle. Then, with the red hose dangling down from the black nozzle implanted in my bottom and swooping up to the bag I was holding, I'd then open the clamp, lift the bag, and let the warm soapy water fill me up. I'd get rid of the enema in private and then come out to meet Mork to be spanked. Chances are I'd have been either nude, or nude from the waist down for the enema and when Mork and I went across the hall to the den for the spanking he'd likely leave me that way. He'd sit in what we call the spanking chair, I'd stand on his right side, and after some discussion of what had brought us to that point and what would happen next, I'd go over his knee, bare bottom up. Before long I'd get the first spank on my bottom with his hand. Then another, then another and before long I'd be whimpering, "Oh god Mork, that hurts!" and he might say, "I know it does, dear. It has to hurt to work and it's going to hurt a lot more before we're finished." Soon I'd be crying, then bawling and saying "enough, enough!" Mork's reply would be he was going to use the hairbrush or paddle and when the first of those landed I'd yell like a hot poker had branded me! After the spanking, I'd be helped up onto his lap for a cuddle and he'd say I'd done well but he still had to give me the strap. When I'd had a bit of a break he'd have me bend over the arm of the den couch, or the back of his TV chair while he went to fetch the strap. Or, he might take me back to the bedroom to lie face down on the bed, over a pillow, for the strap. If you have any further questions I'll do my best to answer. Mindy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: William ... Re: Strapping Last Night Author: William to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:40:45 05/08/25 Thu Dear Mindy, The latest for Ann was back over summer. No Ann hasn't given me any reason to suspect that we are headed for another disciplinary session any time soon. For Jan, from about 12 to 14 maybe early 15 she developed a real attitude. I'm not sure what it is with teen girls at that age but she all of a sudden developed a not so great attitude. It took a few sessions with the strap to bring that to a halt. Truth be told she probably deserved more than she got but as I mentioned, it's hard. Not pleasant at all. Yes Jan already knows that in this house, age means nothing, look at Ann. Behavior determines whether spankings occur or not. Do you always start out with an enema? I will admit something here. I like the face down position because you can really see those buttocks ripple under the impact of the strap. Being bent over tends to tighten up the buttocks somewht. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: William ... Re: Strapping Last Night Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:22:57 05/08/25 Thu No, we don't always start with an enema, but often we do. I did the same with the rest of the family. If you like the face down position to watch Ann's buttocks ripple with the strap I guarantee you'd like seeing her face down on the table, a rubber tube up her bottom and her wiggling, gasping and begging you to stop as you stand there holding the bag, raising and lowering it in sympathy with her tears and moaning. The bottom wiggling that comes with an enema being injected firmly but lovingly along with the verbal entreaties to stop, "that's enough .. oh, please, ... enough!" is a sight to behold. Just as you will show the strap to the recipient before you start, I like to show them the nozzle, covered in Vaseline, and as they stare in some considerable distress at the sight I invite them to think about where it is going and what it will do to them once in place and the clamp open! We have found the enema to be like corner time. It prolongs, makes more significant, the discipline and the recipient knows as uncomfortable and embarrassing as it may be the spanking to follow will be worse. I've often used an enema like this when behavior is ramping up towards a spanking as a wake up call. This time warm suds. Next time a burning bottom. By the way, the enemas I give with spankings are not really any difference in composition or volume to what I'd give for some health reason. Has Ann ever used enemas herself, or with anyone? Before you got the strap, how did you spank? Does anyone, aside from you and Ann, know you have and use a strap? Any idea why the strap hurts more if it has been freshly oiled? I admit I'm in awe that following strapping Ann the two of you are able, as they say, to enjoy marital relations. I can with some relief, release, usually do so after a good spanking but if I get the strap it is usually the next day before I'm ready for such. Hope that's not too much information. Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: William ... Re: Strapping Last Night Author: William to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:00:18 05/08/25 Thu Dear Mindy, As far as I know, no enemas for Ann. Ann has only been disciplined with the strap. Jan was spanked by hand up to 11. No, knowledge of the strap is strictly within the family, Nathan knows of course. Yes, if the strap has just been oiled it will be slightly moist. Probably the same effect as spanking a wet bottom. That really burns. We enjoyed after the first, not after the second. No Mindy, not to much at all. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: William ... Re: Strapping Last Night Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:38:02 05/08/25 Thu Glad to know it wasn't too much information :-) The hand spankings for Jan, were they bare? OTK? On the table? Was Ann always present to show unity? Why did you and Ann decide more than a hand spanking was needed? Her initiative? Yours? When, how, did you tell Jan about the strap upgrade? First show it to her? I should remember ... but, who is Nathan and why "of course." Mindy You enjoyed after the first, not after the second. Was that because the second was a tougher experience for Ann? Thank you for your take on oiling the strap. How often do you oil it? Do you make a practice of oiling it prior to using it? For example, before Ann was strapped did you take a couple of minutes to oil it first? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: William ... Re: Strapping Last Night Author: William to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:59:04 05/08/25 Thu Hello Mindy, Yes the hand spankings were with Jan across my lap. Nude. Yes Ann was present to show united front. At about age 11 I could just sense that hand spankings were starting to lose their effect. Jan was becoming more concerned about undressing than the spanking itself. So both mom and I felt it was time to step it up. Jan was 11, almost 12 when I ordered the strap. When it arrived we had a family meeting. Jan was informed that from then on her spankings would be in my study with the strap. She would be laying face down on my antique table. Nathan is Jan's uncle who was watching her spanking. The second was a longer harder spanking. I hugged and kissed Ann when finished but she wanted to be alone for a while. The strap is oiled once a week. I don't specifically oil it right before use but that has happened. I do notice an effect. I can't recall if I oiled the strap right before Ann's last or not. Possible. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: William ... Re: Strapping Last Night Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:42:24 05/09/25 Fri Hi William, thanks for your reply. I find the dynamic, if that's the right word, of how you, your family, deals with discipline interesting and I appreciate you sharing. Thank you. Jan's hand spankings, were they also given in your study? Would you say most of Jan's spankings have been initiated by Ann, knowing of an issue, asking you to spank/strap her? When you had your family meeting and showed Jan the strap, how did she react? I can imagine her putting on bravado and tossing it off as 'who cares' and I can see her shake and break down in tears at the sight of it. How long after it arrived did you have to give it to her? Nathan watching you strap Jan rings a bell -- a great gong. He was in the house and came to the door of your study to watch I think. Was it just the once? If he was in the house when you had to strap Jan in the future, would he be invited to again watch? Show family solidarity? I suspect you said above but having a senior moment. When was Ann's second spanking? Recently? I remember you said Jan wasn't aware you spanked her mom. Is Nathan aware? Interesting about oiling the strap. Perhaps we should do ours. As a spanked wife I feel very fortunate to be loved and to settle issues with Mork quickly. I have talked with other spanked wives where spankings are always mutual consent, and they feel the same way. I hope Ann does as well. Was she spanked at home right up until you were married? I was. Again, thanks for sharing, William. Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: William ... Re: Strapping Last Night Author: William to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:38:22 05/09/25 Fri Hello Mindy, Jan's early spankings took place either in her room or sometimes in the bathroom. Always over my lap with hand at that age. Some initiated by her mother, some I was there and overheard Jan acting out. No, Jan did not just shrug her shoulders and put on a so what attitude. She did not completely break down but she knew the seriousness of this new implement being introduced. Hard to recall for certain. It was a couple weeks for a school related offense if I remember correctly. Nathan was not invited to watch. Ann specifically asked him to stay downstairs. I haven't directly interacted with him on this. From what I understand, he heard the sound of the strap being applied, it can be quire loud. He obviously heard Jan. He came upstairs. He found the door not closed all the way and came down the hall and peered in. Jan saw him looking in and screamed he's watching. From now on if Jan is due a spanking it will be done with just us in the house. Ann's second was back over summer. I don't believe Nathan knows about Ann unless she said something. Yes Ann and Nathan got the belt strap in their rooms growing up. Yours is rubber so I'm not sure you need to oil it. Neetsfoot oil preserves the leather and keeps it from cracking. I'm not sure what age Ann was at when her spankings ended. I'll have to ask her. She was already moved out and living with friends when we met. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: William ... Re: Strapping Last Night Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:14:27 05/09/25 Fri Hello William, it's Mork, Mindy's other half. She's out for a bit, I just logged on, saw your reply to her, and thought I'd say hello. In an earlier post you mentioned seeing a bottom bounce and wiggle and ripple as it gets the strap. I can identify with that. Small compensation though for the difficulty of giving the strap to someone who is crying out and begging you to stop with each stroke. Yet you know you're cheating them if it isn't sufficient to leave a long lingering memory. I see Mindy told you something about enemas here. Like watching a bottom ripple I do enjoy watching Mindy give herself an enema. Standing naked, the bag clutched to her breasts as it slowly empties, and listening to her moan and whimper and say quietly to herself, oh my god, so full, so full, please, enough ... no more ... oh ... too much ... I'm sorry, I'm so sorry ... aaaarrrgh ... I won't do it again. I promise ... oh, pleeease." I'd encourage you to think about giving Ann an enema up on the table. It doesn't have to be a large one. A quart or so with some Ivory soap mixed into it to give it more impact, should be plenty. If I were you I'd be using it when a correction, redirection was needed but Ann didn't require the strap. I can assure you the after make up, you know what I mean, will be awesome for you both. As you may know an enema experience can be quite erotic for women especially and some, to distract themselves from the discomfort of filling will divert themselves with a rub. Think about it. What Nathan did was wrong, but I totally understand his coming closer to listen and don't much fault him for looking if the door was ajar. I'd not have been able to resist and likely you wouldn't have either. By the way, the strap we tend to use is leather. Our rubber one doesn't see as much use. It is more dense so hurts more. We generally feel the leather, applied longer, more often, gives the best results. I'll let Mindy know you wrote when she gets back. Happy May 9 William! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: William ... Re: Strapping Last Night Author: William to Mork [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:24:56 05/09/25 Fri Dear Mork, Nice to hear from you. Well, both Jan and Ann's buttocks ripple when the strap makes contact. That tells me that I delivered a nice solid lick. All the moaning, pleading, promising you just mentioned are all things I hear as the strap is impacting their bare buttocks, both Jan and Ann. Ann being older ripples more than Jan but both exhibit the same response. No, I can't hole Nathan completely responsible. That's why I haven't approached him on this. Myself and Ann have to take the lion's share of the blame on this. I'ts always just us three in the house so the door has never been an issue. I agree, given the chance to witness a strap being applied to a nude teenage girl, yeah, I would investigate. We have found that our leather strap delivers a very adequate punishment. Both Ann and Jan would vouch for that. Happy May 9th to you as well and have a grest weekend. William [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: William ... Re: Strapping Last Night Author: William to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:09:40 05/09/25 Fri Hello Mindy, Your husband seems very nice. I like him. I like you as well. It's refershing that you are both on here posting. I must be honest, Ann probably would not appreciate my discussing her discipline with the strap on an open forum like this. I'm a bit surprised at Jan. She is normally quite shy and reserved. I believe her motivation was to see if there were other teens her age being raised in a manner similar to her. When Jan is going to be punished. There is a discussion on the den usually involving all three of us. As Jan ages it becomes easier to engage in the "lecture/ scolding" phase of the process. Jan already knows full well what she did, say, texting on her phone in class. She knows this is against the rules. So, I might ask her why she chose to break that rule. I usually get a typical teenage girl answer. Once this part is over Jan is sent up to my study to undress and prepare. The punishment is usually done shortly before bed. Jan is good at accepting responsibility when punishment is due. I recall once we were getting ready for a strapping. Jan requested to be able to take her shower before. It was granted. She had committed a school offense, serious here. I was in my room getting ready. Jan emerged from the bathroom fully nude, her hair was still damp. She stepped over to the table and got into position. Ann appeared and we got started. I began to administer the strap. My how that strap burned Jan's tender buttocks. She was still damp from the shower and I had oiled the strap earlier. I felt terrible but I went ahead with the punishment and layed that strap to Jan. Poor girl was screaming as I applied the strap. I could see Ann even had tears in her eyes as she watched that strap. Needless to say Mindy, never again has Jan showered before. After, yes, never before. I didn't realize that it would be that bad. Once we started I decided to carry out the punishment. Yes the intensity of the spanking has increased as Jan has grown older. We both feel that it was a great investment. I may end up purchasing another just to have a backup in place. Yes, Jan and Nathan are quite close. Jan isn't naive. She also realizes that her uncle is a guy with a pulse and that when he did get upstairs the door was ajar giving him an opportunity I'm pretty sure he didn't expect. Was she embarrassed? OMG yes Mindy,her mother and I also felt terrible and I was initially very upset. But then like I said, we have to take the large part of the blame. I told Mork had I been in Nathan's shoes, I would have done the same thing. I will have to talk to Ann on that comparison. Great question. I lay that leather to Ann pretty well Mindy. Yes I do feel that the strap really made an impression on Ann and lead to the lengthy interval between her last. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: William ... Re: Strapping Last Night Author: Mindy to William [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:30:53 05/10/25 Sat Good morning! Thank you for your kind words. I agree, Mork is a nice guy. I can be a bit more harsh in my judgements of others but he hasn't got a harsh bone in his body. To return the compliment we both find you to be wonderfully articulate, interesting and obviously a great husband. Ann is lucky to have you! While Ann might not been keen on your discussing her discipline, strap experiences now and belt growing up this is a very anonymous place and by doing so I think we all gain greater insight into the disciplinary process as to what works, and what doesn't. Not just how handled but also, importantly, how we cope with giving and receiving to gain maximum benefit. So, I think you can take comfort knowing while she might squirm a bit, being anonymous she has no need to and knowing it might benefit the whole family as you gain knowledge and understanding. You said, "Once this part is over Jan is sent up to my study to undress and prepare. The punishment is usually done shortly before bed." The second sentence suggests that if you had a call from school you'd discuss it with Jan when she got home, and if a spanking was decided on you'd have supper/dinner first and then, shortly before her bedtime you'd tell her to go to your study and get ready, then strap her. The first sentence suggests that it would happen more right away, before supper/dinner. Is there a usual? In my home it could work either way although I generally liked to do it at bed time. I thought a time for the recipient to think about it was a good thing. When you strapped Ann did you do so right after the decision was made, or was there a wait for a convenient time to do it? I was surprised that you might buy another strap. Would you buy the same one again, or are you thinking you might get a different sort? Would it be primarily for Ann? I'd like to know more about Nathan, if you will. Respecting, of course, your anonymity. Does he live close to you? How does he compare in age with Ann? Is he married, children? Line of work? Is he at your home often? I'd asked you, "I do hope you'll ask Jan when the last time she was spanked. If you don't mind asking her it would be interesting to know how she feels her last home spanking compares with the two you've given her." You replied, "I will have to talk to Ann on that comparison. Great question." I'll be interested to hear what you learn. Again, if you have any questions of myself, or Mork, do ask. Best for a wonderful weekend at the William/Ann home! Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: William ... Re: Strapping Last Night Author: William to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:47:59 05/10/25 Sat Dear Mindy, I just read your post. Unfortunately, I have something else I thought I would post about. I'm quite dissapointed in Jan. I should be giving her the strap as we speak. As you know, Jan was banned from Voy and disciplined because of her allowing her school work to slip. She is back on track now and you also know she hasn't been here since instructed not to. I also let her know that I would be checking up from time to time. Well, just a little while ago I was checking up and my poking around led me to another Voy forum Let's Talk Spanking or something like that. Guess who I found there right after banning her from posting. Yes, Jan. I am upset with her and I never discipline when I'm upset. So, I thought I would try an experiment. If I inform Ann she will demand the strap for Jan. Heres what I intend to do. I will simply ask Jan if she has posted on any forum since being banned. This will be a chance for her to be honest and confess. If she does, I will spare her a spanking. I will scold her and make sure she knows I'm dissapointed but she will not be punished. However, if Jan fibs to me, well, you don't want to know, it will not be pretty. So, about a second strap. Yes, it will be the same, a backup. Nathan does live close and we are close to him. He visits often. He lives alone. He is also close to Jan although things were a bit rocky for a while. Nathan is almost a year older than Ann. Nathan is an engineer. Most of Jan's spankings are before bed but I have also disciplined her in the afternoon after she arrives home. SOmetimes when we all know that I will be giving a strapping, Jan will request getting it over with. I typically want her to stress a little, think about what she has done and what's coming. Sometimes I just want to get it done and over. Ok, I have adaughter that I need to talk to. I will keep you posted. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: William ... Re: Strapping Last Night Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:11:28 05/10/25 Sat I am distressed to hear that Jan posted. Was it just a single thing, like, "I'm sorry I can't reply. I'm banned." or something like that? If so, I'd think it wrong, but speaks well of her too. I hope to hear she fessed up and you, and she, are spared the need to strap. I like your approach but think it should be one you work out with Ann. Be honest, tell her what you've decided and if she demands Jan be strapped say your sorry, you've decided to give her a chance to come clean. Thanks for the background on Nathan. When you say a bit rocky with Jan that was because of what he saw? He was aware before that though that Jan was strapped naked on the table when necessary? He was okay with that? Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: William ... Re: Strapping Last Night Author: William to MIndy (Update) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:17:40 05/10/25 Sat Well, I have spoken to Jan. Boy, if you could have been at this house over that last half hour. First, yes her post on the other forum was along the lines you suggested. Jan did mention in her post that she was banned. She had been asked some questions. She also informed that forum that she would not be back. Now for the drama. I sat down with Ann. I told her what I found. She was getting ready to cakk Jan down. I stopped her. She also demanded the strap for Jan as I thought. I told Ann that I have made a decision on this. I explained my plan. Ann isn't exactly 100 % happy with it but agreed. I went up to Jan's room. Knocked on her door and asked if she was decent. Jan said yes, come in daddy. I did. jan is on her bed, short tee and panties on. It's hot here right now, close to 100. So, I sit down on the bed. I came right out and asked Jan have you posted on any Voy forum since I banned you. Jan instsntly broke into tears crying heavily begging me not to use the strap. You should have heard it. Oh please daddy, I an so sorry, daddy please. I asked her where she posted and she opened up her lap top and showed me. Yep, that's it. Well, I'm now very proud of Jan and she saved herself what would have been a very serious leathering. Ann also came up and sat down. Still not happy and really scolded Jan who was already in tears apologizing. Ann also informed Jan that it it were up to her, she would be nude on the table. Jan started begging again and I shooshed her. I told her I made my decision and she responded as I was hoping she would. I also joined Ann in scolding Jan and made sure she realized we were not happy but also proud that she was honest. I do believe that the second I asked Jan about posting again she realized I had found her post. Again, she did not try and deny so I kept my word. As a warning I will have Jan come with me to my study and I will have her watch as I oil the strap. She will be told that next time I discover something like this honest or not she will be disciplined with a freshly oiled strap. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: William ... Re: Strapping Last Night Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:02:20 05/09/25 Fri Well William, I see you and Mork have been talking. He's a good guy, and you seem to be one too, so I'll leave you two to talk and just respond to your earlier post. When Jan's spankings were initiated by Ann would she ask you, in private, to spank her and why, or would she do so with Jan present? For those hand spankings would you do it right away, or, perhaps like myself, often tell the recipient they'd be getting spanked at bedtime. This would give them time to think about what was coming. What about with the strap? Do you do it right away, or set a time, like bedtime, for it? Thanks for telling me about Jan's reaction to seeing the new strap. It sounds like it wasn't long until she had her first experience of it. Do you give it to her harder, longer, now than you did that first time? The first time did both you and Ann feel the strap was well worth it? Had done what you felt needed to be done? You say you'd not spank Jan unless it was just the three of you at home. Are Jan and Nathan quite close? Did this happening alter their relationship. Perhaps make them closer? I do hope you'll ask Jan when the last time she was spanked. If you don't mind asking her it would be interesting to know how she feels her last home spanking compares with the two you've given her. It appears to be what? 9 or 10 months since you last strapped Ann. Do you feel her two strap experiences have been a major contributor to her not needing the strap for such a long length of time? Thanks, William and if you have any questions to throw my way I'll do my best to answer. Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]