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Subject: Looking for Guidance Author: Lizzy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 06:06:49 05/10/25 Sat Hi all I don't know if this is even the right place for my post but ill try anyway.. I'm a 14 year old girl in a situation that's totally new to me. So to give some background my dad died about 18 months age and since then I admit iv gone off the rails a bit. My mom was raised in a fundamentalist Christian community where corporal punishment was normal though my dad wouldn't hear of me being punished like that. Mom has been threatening for a while to move us back to the community where she was and to put me under the control of her brother who is some sort of minister in that community she says he will put manners on me and teach me obedience. they practice CDD Christian Domestic Discipline.im not sure what that is but seem to just be about Husbands using discipline on their wives I cant find anything on how it applies to kids.. she also says they do First time obedience, again I can only guess and mom wont elaborate on what it will all mean to me. Just recently something happened which has pushed her to make it happen for real and in two weeks time I'm going to be back in that community and I'm kind of scared and curious i guess what its going to mean to me. If any one wants to know the details of what I did to cause the move, or any other detail about me and my situation just ask, in private if you like ..the email I gave is a friend of mine ..I don't have one but will organise something when I get a chance to get into town to a internet café or something till then she he will pass on messages when he can. Please if anyone has any insights or info just questions just ask thanks Lizzy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Looking for Guidance Author: Allison [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:18:56 05/10/25 Sat Typically the moving back means your mom will be either looking for a man to date, or marry, who will not only believe that regular punishment for her is key, but also for you. The fact that your dad never allowed punishment for you, probably has been bothering your mom, now that he is gone and you have admitted that you have not been on the best behavior. My belief is once you both move back, there will be one who your mom will have punish your firmly on a regular basis, to try to get your attitude and issues back in place. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Looking for Guidance Author: Lizzy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:11:11 05/10/25 Sat She says we are moving back to her Brothers place to start with he is a minister in the Community and he will be in control of my discipline. She says he is strict and wont take any of my nonsense. She also said I had better get rid of any notions of modesty when he takes control but she wont say what she means by that. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Looking for Guidance Author: William to Lizzy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:15:25 05/10/25 Sat Dear Lizzy, From what I've read it sound like your mother feels that you need a father figure and possibly some structure and discipline in your life. This community will provide that. When your mother says forget all notions of modesty, she means that when required you will be punished possibly with paddle or strap, likely fully nude and with witnesses present. In short, follow all rules and try and avoid this new embarrassing and painful experience. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]