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Subject: Re: Birthday Spanking Traditions


Author:
Mork and Mindy
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Date Posted: 10:44:59 06/28/25 Sat
In reply to: Belle to Mork and Mindy 's message, "Re: Birthday Spanking Traditions" on 10:25:30 06/28/25 Sat

Strange lettering --- I guess the answer is, at least for the two of us, "it's all Greek to me!" lol

Thank you for the information about your mother rotating who spanked her. I'm sure it must have been satisfying to smack her bottom with a hairbrush when it was your turn.

Was the hairbrush the standard instrument of punishment in your home? It was my mother's although she had a strap for when she felt the occasion warranted it.

When your mother was punished, spanked. was that by your dad in private? Would you be aware? Perhaps told your mother was about to be spanked and you should stay downstairs, or something like that?

I'm sorry, I'm sure you've said on other threads I've not read, or remembered, but was your mother or your father, the main spanker of you three girls?

Mindy

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Author:
Belle to Mork and Mindy
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Date Posted: 11:12:34 06/28/25 Sat

No worries about all the questions!

Mom favored the brush after she used her hand. So using it on her for her birthday gave me some sense of justice. She also used a paddle for more severe spankings.

Dad would spank her in private sometimes. Which we would hear his belt laying into her bottom. And of course, her cries. Other times, she would be spanked in the family room like us kids were. Those were more often group punishments. When a couple of us earned a spanking on the same day.

I would say mom and dad were both equal spankers. I know I didn’t want dad to spank as he used the belt which hurt so badly! Even now in my 40s, I hate the belt.

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Author:
Mork and Mindy
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Date Posted: 08:15:32 06/29/25 Sun

Hi Belle, thank you for your post.

I've been interested in the dynamic of families where mothers are spanked and kids are aware of it since I started to pen-pal with a spanked mother a number of years ago. When she was to be punished it was usually after the evening meal and while she and the kids were doing up the dishes it fell to her to tell them, "after we're finished mommy has to go and see daddy for a spanking so I want you not answer the door, or the phone." It was understood sometimes mommy had to be spanked just as they were. I find it intriguing how normal for them what seemed to me quite bizarre was. Not so much that she was spanked, but how she'd discuss it with her kids, answer their questions.

Mindy

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Author:
Franert (To Belle)
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Date Posted: 08:22:04 07/03/25 Thu

Belle, your interesting comments on Birthday Spankings have raised some questions:

Was the Birthday Spanking part of a traditional birthday celebration with cake, presents, singing Happy Birthday, etc? If so, was the Birthday Girl naked the whole time or just for the spanking?

Did the Birthday Girl ever select the paddle or belt as the implement?

Did the Birthday Girl ever select a parent to be the spanker or always a sibling?

Were there ever any extended family or friends that witnessed it?

Does this practice still happen in your family? Or how old were you when it stopped?

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Belle to Franert
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Date Posted: 05:40:52 07/04/25 Fri

Was the Birthday Spanking part of a traditional birthday celebration with cake, presents, singing Happy Birthday, etc? If so, was the Birthday Girl naked the whole time or just for the spanking?

It was after cake and opening presents and such. No, the birthday girl wasn’t naked the whole time. Just for the spanking, if the chose to be naked for the birthday spanking.

Did the Birthday Girl ever select the paddle or belt as the implement?

Oh yes, especially if they picked a sibling as the spanker. They didn’t spank as hard so it was not as painful.

Did the Birthday Girl ever select a parent to be the spanker or always a sibling?
It did happen that the birthday girl picked a parent. Usually, when the birthday girl thought a sibling was angry with them.

Were there ever any extended family or friends that witnessed it?

No extended family witnessed. Nor did any friends.

Does this practice still happen in your family? Or how old were you when it stopped?

My hubby and I did not continue this tradition. I was 17 when it last took place with me.

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Franert (To Belle)
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Date Posted: 10:22:08 07/04/25 Fri

Thank you so much for your quick and detailed reply!

I have to say that your posts on this forum are the best ones!

On one of your posts, you mentioned Maintenance Spankings. If you get a slow day, could you please make a detailed post about them?

As a kid the only Birthday Spankings that I ever saw were the fake ones that my First grade teacher gave to the students on their birthday.

I gave my wife a couple many years ago and she got extremely wet from it, but refused them in later years. I did not force the issue. I do grab or pat her ass on a daily basis and she likes that or I am sure that I would have been told otherwise.

It took many years to get up the nerve to ask her for a Birthday Spanking, but she obliged and continues to do it every year as well as a few times during the year. Always followed by great sex. If no one is around when she asks what I want for my birthday, I tell her all I need is the spanking!

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Belle to Franet
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Date Posted: 10:48:08 07/04/25 Fri

Thank you for your kind words.

Maintenance spankings were once a week. Usually on a weekend. Dad would announce who needed one at dinner, how they were to be dressed, what they would be spanked with. He usually spanked all of us. Mom, older sister, me, younger sister. It was go to room, strip naked, come to family room. He would sit on the couch and take one of us over his knee and us his hand. Our bottoms would be pink or a light red by the end. No tears or anything. Sometimes if one of us felt like we needed more we would ask for a few swats with the brush or paddle. There was no corner time with maintenance spankings but we had to remain naked while everyone was spanked.

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Franert (To Belle)
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Date Posted: 11:02:24 07/04/25 Fri

Thanks for the quick response.

How often did anyone ask for more?

Did they select the implement? and how many swats?

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Belle to Franet
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Date Posted: 13:51:25 07/04/25 Fri

Maybe once a month someone would ask.

Only like 5 swats

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Franert (to Belle)
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Date Posted: 21:37:15 07/04/25 Fri

Thanks again for a quick reply.

Based on your other posts, I would bet that you were the one that most often asked for extra swats.

Do you post on any other forums or websites? I really enjoy your posts and want to see more of them.

I hope that you and your hubby enjoy a lot of fireworks this weekend, both outdoors and indoors,

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Author:
Sara
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Date Posted: 16:03:39 07/04/25 Fri

Wow, wasn't it totally embarrassing to be nude in front of your dad like that? Did it get worse as you got older? Were you allowed to cover while you waited?

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Author:
Belle to Sara
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Date Posted: 05:25:17 07/05/25 Sat

We weren’t allowed to cover up. When I was younger it didn’t bother me. It was the worst around 12-15 or so. After that it strangely enough gave me a sense of body confidence.

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Franert (To Belle)
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Date Posted: 12:44:35 07/05/25 Sat

You have been so good about replying to my questions and I have a big ask, if you are willing to share and can remember.

When you have a slow day, can you give the details of every Birthday Spanking that you received?
(Who gave it,
what implement,
how hard,
what position,
state of undress
and how you felt after)

Also, during a Birthday Spanking, did you ever ask them to spank harder?

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Author:
Belle to Franet
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Date Posted: 05:03:03 07/06/25 Sun

Well, I do not recall every birthday spanking. But here are some.

When I was 10 I was in my underwear and a tank top, my mom gave me the spanking with her hand. I felt loved after. I was otk

When I was 11. I was in just my parties. My older sister used the paddle. I went otk. I felt thrilled after

When was 12. I was in my bra and panties. My dad used his hand otk. I felt loved.

When I was 13 I went full naked. My younger sister spanked me. She used a paddle. I bent over a chair as I could not get otk. This was a rush.

When I was 14 I was just in my bra. I had my mom use a brush on me otk. I felt loved.

When I was 15 I was naked. Older sister spanked me with her hand. I went otk.

When it was 16 I was naked. I had dad spank me with the paddle bending over. This was very exciting.

When I was 17, my last one at home, I was naked and mom spanked me otk with the brush. I cried as i felt so cared for.

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Author:
Franert (To Belle)
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Date Posted: 06:54:25 07/06/25 Sun

Thanks for the quick and detailed reply.

I promise this is the last question on this topic:
Did you ever ask the spanker to spank harder during the Birthday Spanking? Probably one of your sisters.

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Author:
Belle
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Date Posted: 07:48:31 07/06/25 Sun

I never asked

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