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Date Posted: 20:22:10 01/21/16 Thu
Author: Rob
Subject: Re: The Immense Value of Discussing Lifelong Memory
In reply to: Susan 's message, "Re: The Immense Value of Discussing Lifelong Memory" on 02:28:07 01/20/16 Wed

I was quiet and sad before a spanking. When I was younger the tears would flow naturally. As I got older I was more stoic about it. I'd make noises, like ooh and ouch and move around a bit after a sharp spank but I didn't cry much. Moving around was always a mistake as the next spank would land in a worse place than had I stayed still, but sometimes I couldn't help it.

Spankings always stung and were definitely unpleasant. The worst part of it (especially when older) was just the fact that everyone knew you'd been spanked and after a spanking I just didn't want to face anyone or see anyone.

During this stretch of time is when some deep thinking took place, and where some personal growth also occurred. I'd just be alone in my room thinking. During that thinking time sometimes I'd break down in tears either out of guilt, or anger at myself for whatever I'd done or not done.

Then I'd usually vow to myself that I'd never do whatever got me into trouble again. A lot of the time I was able to make good on that vow, and as I got older fewer and fewer spankings occurred.

Then I'd eventually make my way out of my room and back to the other people in kind of a sheepish way. Fortunately, my sisters were kind and sensitive about it as we'd all been in the same position.

So I look at spanking with a real mixed view. The spanking itself was not a positive experience and you don't learn anything by the act itself. It's definitely lousy for one's self-esteem although maybe in some cases that's a good thing. Sometimes I needed to be taken down a few pegs and a spanking always did that. I think because it seems drastic and traumatic (to the recipient) it really causes you to look inward at what you're doing, and a lot of that post-spanking reflection time was good for me, in changing my behavior.

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