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Date Posted: 14:14:05 10/16/22 Sun
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Ashley-91
Subject: Re: Questions for epaster
In reply to: spankedwife 's message, "Questions for epaster" on 13:58:04 10/16/22 Sun

>First of all, it's so nice to have a HOH on the board
>to facilitate discussion. If you don't mind, I have a
>few questions for you. Truthfully, these are things
>I'd like to know from my Husband but he's a man of few
>words, usually. :)
>
>When you spank your wife, are you aroused by it? Do
>you think lesser of her for needing correction (I
>always fear that's the case with my Husband. He never
>acts like that, certainly, but I feel guilt for
>putting him in a position where whipping is
>necessary)? Was it difficult for you to tap into the
>masculine urge to strike her (after having been taught
>that hitting women is always bad? It took ages for me
>to admit the need to be chastised. I felt like a freak
>for so long)? And any other thoughts would be most
>appreciated. I've read so much from the wife's point
>of view on various blogs but that's only preaching to
>the choir-- it doesn't add to my understanding of both
>roles. There are far fewer Husbands who can eloquently
>describe what it's like for him and what he gets out
>of it. The idea of striking someone is so utterly
>foreign to me (to be fair, the idea of craving a
>whipping is probably equally foreign to you)-- I'd
>like to know more about what that's like. Did you get
>spanked growing up? When did you realize that you
>wanted to be a disciplinarian? What was the journey
>like from desiring that role in theory to actually
>putting it into practice? Does it ever feel like a
>burden? I apologize for so many questions but do
>appreciate anything you can share.
Obviously not a HoH here so very curious to hear e pastor’s thoughts on this. I can say that my husband is typically very aroused. Is your husband too?

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Re: Questions for epaster --

epaster, 23:27:04 10/16/22 Sun

Re: Questions for epaster --

Ashley-91, 06:49:47 10/18/22 Tue

Re: Questions for epaster --

spankedwife, 18:01:14 10/19/22 Wed

Re: Questions for epaster -- epaster, 19:23:34 10/20/22 Thu