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Date Posted: 23:27:04 10/16/22 Sun
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epaster
Subject: Re: Questions for epaster
In reply to: spankedwife 's message, "Questions for epaster" on 13:58:04 10/16/22 Sun

Hi spankedwife,

Thank you for participating. It is hard to get a man to discuss these things, but I see that as part of my role online. The anonymity of forums like this helps.

I find the idea of a grown woman being spanked erotic, but when I am actually disciplining my beloved, I am not aroused. It is more like when I had to spank our daughter, I am doing it for her own good.

I am sometimes disappointed in my wife for behaving in a way that requires correction, but I do not think less of her. I think that I have learned that women easily succumb to temptation which is why God expects husbands to guide and correct them.

When my wife graciously submits to a spanking, I actually think more of her. It is very difficult to submit to correction. I admire that quality.

Yes, I had been taught to never hit a girl and had difficulty overcoming that. I still tend to hesitate to spank even when it is richly deserved.

I got spanked very rarely growing up. I do remember around age 5-6 two different girls my age telling me about being spanked by their fathers. This apparently had an impact on me and I eventually began to fantasize about spanking girls.

The other thing was that although my dad was the head of the family, I observed him giving in to my mother, even when he was right, just to keep peace at home. As a teenager, I knew that was wrong and that he should not allow her that level of control.

As I became a young man, I observed young women behaving badly because they had no one to discipline them. I could tell that their "freedom" was not actually making them happy and that they really needed a man to punish them when they misbehaved.

Along with that I started to understand the truth of Biblical injunctions regarding gender roles in marriage. I determined that my wife would need to accept my role as head of the household and I would need to discipline her when she rebelled against her role as a submissive wife. I knew that all women resist at some point and need to be reminded of their place, whether they understand it or not.

I playfully spanked my wife on her honeymoon. Soon after we returned she started behaving in unsubmissive ways. I agonized over it, but I did put her over my knee and spanked her bare bottom. She hated it, but she instantly became more loving and submissive. I have observed this pattern for 28 years. She rebels against her place by becoming demanding or disrespectful. I call her out on it and give her a spanking. She responds by becoming a more content, submissive and obedient wife.

Over time, I have learned that when I talk to her about an issue, it makes no difference, but when I spank her she starts behaving. She has learned that although she hates being spanked, she loves having a husband who she can count on to put her back on track where she really wants to be.

I hope this answers most of your questions, but feel free to ask more and to respond to my answers. Other husbands and wives are welcome to contribute to this discussion as well.

Epaster

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Re: Questions for epaster -- Ashley-91, 06:49:47 10/18/22 Tue
Re: Questions for epaster -- spankedwife, 18:01:14 10/19/22 Wed
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