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Date Posted: 08:07:33 11/30/22 Wed
Author: Jennie81
Subject: Maintenance spanking

Hi,

I found your site and would like to meet some other like minded people’s thoughts on how we do maintenance spankings. I hate it because well it hurts but it has certainly improved my behavior and our relationship. My boyfriend started spanking me as soon as we started dating a year ago but it was not DD. After 3 months and his growing frustration with some of my bad habits that he patiently tried to talk to me about he said that he wanted to give DD a try. I enjoy fun good girl spankings but had never had a punishment spanking. I did recognize I needed to improve a lot things for my own benefit but also to keep our relationship alive. So reluctantly I agreed. After a few months maintenance was introduced weekly. 7 months in and I threw a fit on Sunday when he said it was time. At one point I said why should I be good I am getting spanked anyway while having my fit. That turned into a punishment spanking very quickly lol. When it was over he said we will talk about this on date night (Wednesday). Here comes my demise, on the way to dinner he said I thought about what you said and how this can be more fair. I will receive a maintenance spanking Sunday at bedtime regardless but if I am good all week it will be light hand and brush or spoon all otk. However I now have a spreadsheet with 5 categories that we fill out every night at bedtime. Each category has up to 10 points and several task. Example health covers diet exercise sleep. Based on how well I did that day I could be a 0 to a 10. If I mess up so bad that I earn a punishment spanking that category automatically gets a 10. So there is a tally each day and at the end of the week is the additional amount I will receive. These can be any implements he decides ex paddle belt cane. I never get to end of the week with zero because there are always little things not enough to deserve a spanking but could be better that add little points here and there. Well little points add up to big points over a week if you are not careful. I have learned because one part of the day wasn’t good you keep trying as hard as possible because you don’t want more points than you already have coming. My total weekly points have also decreased considerably since we started. Something about knowing each how many have been added is very motivating to do better the next day.

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