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Date Posted: 12:02:08 02/17/23 Fri
Author: danastone
Subject: Re: Before and After
In reply to: Whitney-97 's message, "Re: Before and After" on 11:55:38 02/17/23 Fri

But, now you are a better wife and also get treated like a princess all the time. Right??

That is the power of spanking.

I still dread the pain.
But, I know it is for the betterment.
I was not spanked by my parents or ex.
He introduced it.
Once I said no to sex and started running when he decided to spank for that.
Boy, bad idea.

>No spankings during honeymoon and yes I was treated
>like a princess by my hubby. While I was nervous
>agreeing to being disciplined I knew deep down I had
>to improve my behavior and I wanted to be the best
>woman and wife for him. That said having never been
>spanked it was a huge adjustment the first few months
>of marriage as I was needing discipline 2-3 a week.
>
>>I hope you didn't get spanked in your honeymoon.
>>And hope you were treated like a princess.
>>
>>My hus had previous experience with administering
>>discipline.
>>And while we were dating, pretty much in the
>>beginning, I got to see that side of him.
>>Initially I was shocked and secretly decided to break
>>up.
>>But, I found I'm very stressed and often felt
>>purposelessness in life.
>>So, went back to him.
>>
>>>Wow he must have really strong hands. My husband was
>>>spanked by his dad until he was 18 so lots of
>>>experience receiving. Prior to getting married my
>>>husband brought up his expectations for how he wanted
>>>me to behave as his wife, behaviors I had which
>>>concerned him, what he expected me to do as his wife
>>>and the consequences I would receive when he felt I
>>>was not behaving to his standards. My first spanking
>>>was the day after we were married as we were packing
>>>for our honeymoon. I was giving him plenty of
>>>attitude with the stress of getting ready he warned
>me
>>>once and when I didn’t improve he said well no time
>>>Iike the present to get started with your discipline
>>>and he pulled me over his lap on the bed pulled my
>>>shorts and panties down and went to work. While the
>>>plane ride the next day wasn’t comfortable my
>stress
>>>went away and my behavior was great for the
>honeymoon.
>>>
>>>>Yes, no blurring the lines.
>>>>I know what you mean.
>>>>For me, the spanking happens in the living room.
>>>>And there is at least an hour gap before he showers
>>me
>>>>with love.
>>>>Hugs, kisses and more.
>>>>
>>>>No he uses only hands.
>>>>He started working in construction at the age of 10.
>>>>So, by the end of his teenage, his hands were very
>>>>rough. Almost like leather.
>>>>
>>>>To our girls, I spanked with wooden spoon or cane
>and
>>>>he used his hands.
>>>>The girls always cried more from his spankings.
>>>>
>>>>Do you know, if your hus has had previous experience
>>>>with spanking?
>>>>How did he start spanking you?
>>>>
>>>>>Yes, definitely well deserved and very effective in
>>>>>turning my attitude around, felt less stressed and
>>>>>more calm and focused and better attitude after.
>>Yes
>>>>>the anticipation is good as it gives me time to
>>>>>reflect on what I did wrong and why I deserve the
>>>>>spanking and gives him time to calm down so he is
>>not
>>>>>spanking in anger. Yes, he always uses his belt.
>>>>>Have you had anything used besides your husband’s
>>>>>hand?
>>>>>Lots of hugs and kisses and words of love and
>praise
>>>>>for what he feels in doing well at and for allowing
>>>>>him to discipline me when he feels I need it. We
>>try
>>>>>not to blur the lines which is why I am spanked in
>>>his
>>>>>den as opposed to our bedroom lol.
>>>>>
>>>>>>Well deserved spanking.
>>>>>>I like the way he makes you wait and anticipate.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>Does he always use belt?
>>>>>>My hus uses his hand always.
>>>>>>His hands are very very hard and rough.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>And after spanking, how does he love you?
>>>>>>For me, bigger spanking means more love. Haha.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>>Yes, I’ve just feeling off earlier in the week
>>>not
>>>>>>>focused and being very rude to him even on
>>>>>>>Valentine’s. When I earn a spanking he will
>>tell
>>>>>me
>>>>>>>to go to his den and strip to bra and panties and
>>>to
>>>>>>>stand by the desk. He usually waits 5-10 minutes
>>>to
>>>>>>>calm down and plan his lecture. He then enters
>>the
>>>>>>>den sits down and directs me to lay over his lap,
>>>>>>>pulls panties down and gives me a firm sound hand
>>>>>>>spanking as he lectures me for several minutes.
>>>>>After
>>>>>>>lecture I get up and bend over his desk as he
>>pulls
>>>>>>>his belt off and then get belt whipped between
>>>20-40
>>>>>>>times (got full 40 last time). After I have
>>corner
>>>>>>>time to settle and reflect as he writes the
>>>incident
>>>>>>>on my spanking journal and then he comes and
>loves
>>>>me
>>>>>>>up comforts me and praises me for things that I
>am
>>>>>>>doing well.
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>You misbehaved on valentines day?
>>>>>>>>Wow.
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>And how do you get punished.
>>>>>>>>If you don't mind, can you explain the steps?
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>Yes, I’m glad I agreed to my husband’s
>>>>>>>suggestion,
>>>>>>>>>it has improved my behavior and brought us even
>>>>>>>closer
>>>>>>>>>together. Glad you and your daughters are all
>>>>well
>>>>>>>>>behaved. My last spanking was Wednesday
>>>>>>>unfortunately
>>>>>>>>>just was having a rough week being very rude to
>>>my
>>>>>>>>>husband. He really wanted to spank me Tuesday
>>>but
>>>>>>>>>didn’t want to on Valentine’s and when my
>>>>>>>attitude
>>>>>>>>>worsened Wednesday to took swift action.
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>hmm...
>>>>>>>>>>I am happy the current generation also
>believes
>>>>in
>>>>>>>>>>domestic discipline.
>>>>>>>>>>I am 46.
>>>>>>>>>>I am a well behaved wife.
>>>>>>>>>>And my two girls also are well behaved young
>>>>>>adults.
>>>>>>>>>>I hope their partners also continue the
>>>>tradition.
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>Whitney, when was the last time you were
>>>>>>>disciplined?
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>I am 25 and still spanked. We were married
>>>last
>>>>>>>>year
>>>>>>>>>>>so still learning to behave and needing
>>regular
>>>>>>>>>>>discipline. I feel I am much better behaved
>>>now
>>>>>>>>>>>compared to last year but still a ways to go
>>to
>>>>>be
>>>>>>>>>>>where my husband and I want me to be if that
>>>>>makes
>>>>>>>>>>>sense. How about you?
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>How old are you?
>>>>>>>>>>>>Are you still spanked?
>>>>>>>>>>>>Are you a better behaved woman now?
>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>Hello, thanks for the response, yes I’ve
>>>>>>>noticed
>>>>>>>>>>>>>it’s dead hear hoping it might pick up a
>>>bit
>>>>>>>but
>>>>>>>>>>>not
>>>>>>>>>>>>>that hopeful.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>I know that experience.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Whitney, I don't think anyone talks in
>this
>>>>>>>forum
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>anymore.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>I am spanked by my hus.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>I know the pain and the love after.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>I know this was on old topic but find it
>>>>>>>>>>>>>interesting.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>I was not spanked growing up, my parents
>>>>>>>>didn’t
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>believe in it and frankly I think it
>>>>resulted
>>>>>>>in
>>>>>>>>>>me
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>being more of a wild child that my
>husband
>>>>>has
>>>>>>>>>had
>>>>>>>>>>>>to
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>tame. Before he proposed to me he fully
>>>>>>>>>explained
>>>>>>>>>>>>>his
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>expectations for me in how I was to
>behave
>>>>as
>>>>>>>>his
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>wife, what my duties would be, and what
>>the
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>consequences would be if I didn’t
>behave
>>>>>>>>>>>>properly.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>I knew that I wanted to improve on some
>>>>>things
>>>>>>>>so
>>>>>>>>>>I
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>consented to the discipline relationship,
>>>>>>>>>figuring
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>spanking wouldn’t be all that bad. Boy
>>>>was
>>>>>>I
>>>>>>>>>>>>wrong
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>the first spanking was a complete shock
>in
>>>>>>>terms
>>>>>>>>>>of
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>the level of pain and intensity. It was
>>>the
>>>>>>>day
>>>>>>>>>>>>>after
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>our wedding and day before we were
>leaving
>>>>>for
>>>>>>>>>our
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>honeymoon and I was being really bitchy
>to
>>>>my
>>>>>>>>>>>>husband
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>and he said no time like the present to
>>>work
>>>>>>on
>>>>>>>>>>>your
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>behavior and he promptly took me over his
>>>>lap
>>>>>>>>>>>pulled
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>shorts and panties down and gave me a
>long
>>>>>>hard
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>spanking as he lectured me then I had to
>>>get
>>>>>>up
>>>>>>>>>>and
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>get whipped with his belt bent over our
>>>>bed.
>>>>>>I
>>>>>>>>>>was
>>>>>>>>>>>>a
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>sobbing mess my bottom on fire as he sent
>>>me
>>>>>>to
>>>>>>>>>>the
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>corner to settle down. After 30 minutes
>>he
>>>>>>>came
>>>>>>>>>>>>over
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>and hugged me right and kissed me told me
>>>he
>>>>>>>>>loved
>>>>>>>>>>>>me
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>and encouraged me to behave and enjoy our
>>>>>>>>>>>honeymoon,
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>which we did, although plane ride
>wasn’t
>>>>>>>>>>>>>comfortable
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>with a sore tender bottom.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>For those who are married and
>>>>spanked...were
>>>>>>>>you
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>spanked before you got married, or only
>>>>>>after?
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>If only after, how much of a shock was
>it
>>>>>and
>>>>>>>>>how
>>>>>>>>>>>>>did
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>it happen?
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Beth

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