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Date Posted: 13:24:35 07/14/21 Wed
Author: Jason
Subject: A difference between us and normies

Well maybe I shouldn't speak for everyone but I think the regulars here will be able to relate to what I say on this post.

At the casino I went to they had a bar (unlike the Indian casino near my house which bans alcohol (and now smoking). The bar was packed with men. They were men's men...very muscular, tatted up, big bushy beards etc. There had to be 20 guys all huddled together enjoying the hell out of the male bonding. I don't think they were gay, they are probably all married (masculine guys like that have no trouble finding spouses) but there was something homoerotic in the way they interacted.

The biggest difference between them and myself (and probably most of you reading this) is it was obvious to me they didn't care that there were no women at the bar. Not only was the sausage fest perfectly fine with them, I think it was their preference.They might have that blue collar attitude "I left the old lady at home, it's me and the boys tonight".

Don't get me wrong. I have plenty of male friends including some strong friendship's that go back a long time. Still having a seat at that bar would be hellish for me.

My impression is when they walked in the door of that casino the last thing on their mind is what women am I going to see that excite me. They weren't thinking of women at all. While I on the other hand was expressly at that casino to watch women. This is how I get my dopamine.

I am not saying I am right and they are wrong. It could easily be argued that those guys are normal and healthy while there is something creepy about a girl watcher like myself. It's mostly in the fetish context but I am always on the lookout for pretty girls anywhere I go, it's what makes my day. I would reject the creepy label though as I think my girl watching is biologically normal for a man. Besides I am never (or rarely) obvious and make no one uncomfortable, in fact I am mostly invisible.

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