Author: Debra--Younger but similar problems
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Date Posted: 13:23:13 02/10/26 Tue
In reply to:
Caitlyn
's message, "Eleonora, re: manipulation, etc." on 20:04:50 02/09/26 Mon
Hi, Leona and Caity,
I am younger than you two. I just turned 16 but I have some problems that are similar to yours. I am still spanked by my mother and also by my older step-sister, Trudy, who lives with us and who is 22 and a senior in college. My mother married my step-father when Trudy was 17 and I was 11 and she quickly became my boss at home when my mother was working. My mother was working for my step-father at that time so Trudy replaced the need for day care coverage for me and mom no longer had to hire sitters for me when she and dad were dating and going out together a lot after the work day.
Spankings had always been my mother's chief discipline for me, so it was natural to let my new sister. six years older, spank me when she was caring for me. From the beginning Trudy made no bones about the fact that she loved putting me over her lap and spanking my bare bottom so she spanked me for a lot more little things than my mother did.
For at least two years, when I was 11 and 12, I used to constantly tell my mother what minor things Trudy spanked me for and try to argue she was spanking me unfairly and too often, but my mother just brushed off my complaints and said she knew what a brat I could be and she was glad Trudy was taking such good care of me. Sometimes when I would get really angry at mother for not listening to my complaints about Trudy, I'd just lose it and end up stamping my feet and yelling at Mom, and she'd put an end to that by spanking me again herself, while Trudy looked on approvingly.
The thing is that I just kind of gave up complaining and just resigned myself to Trudy's spankings, so for a while I would get spanked sometimes three or four times a week. And one thing Trudy did that always got mom on her side is she would wait until mom came home and she'd tell her something I did--like if I left my school clothes on a chair or on my bed when I changed, intending to hang them up or put them in the hamper later--she'd make a big deal our of it and she'd tell Mom, "So I went in and here were ALL her nice school clothes thrown everywhere in her room--she was just too lazy to hang them up and take proper care of them, so I decided she needed a good spanking since I've told her time and again what to do with her nice clothes when she takes them off, but I thought I'd ask you mother, don't you agree she needs a really good spanking when she constantly ignores me on things like that?"
And mom, without exception, and before I can say a word, is always, "Of course she needs to be spanked when she does things like that, Trudy. Why don't you get the Lexan right now and give her the spanking she needs and she can sit with a properly hot bottom at supper. Maybe that will encourage her to listen to you when you tell her what she needs to do."
So here I am at 16 and I am still being spanked two or three times a week for things just like that. Nothing serious. No big things. Clothes left on a chair or bed not even for a full afternoon, playing my music too loud in my room ("I've told and told her to keep that music DOWN, but she gave me a splitting headache today before I finally went in and spanked her good!"), some smudges on a typed paper I had finished and was ready to turn in, coming home from school with a ketchup stain on my skirt, kissing a boy goodbye who had come over to study with me in our playroom ("When I saw them, Mom, she was giving him tongue--right on our front porch she had her tongue right in his mouth!"), and so on and so on. She always finds some reason and never misses a chance to spank me and mom has never once taken my side of those situations. And every time I'm spanked by Trudy or by Mom it is hand spanking first and then the Lexan paddle.
It had been small comfort to me that until Trudy went off to college, Mom used to spank her, too, every once in a while. Like when she was in high school, she'd get spanked about once a week--while I was being spanked two or three times a week. Now, with Trudy in college, Mom still does spanks her about only once or twice a month and it is not for any big issues but just to keep her on her best behavior. Still, it does give me enormous satisfaction and pleasure to sit in the living room with dad and watch mom give Trudy her spankings, and they are really good ones I have to admit that end--just like mine--with naked Trudy doing a real war dance for many minutes before she calms down and goes to her father for the comfort he clearly loves to give her. And I do admit Mom is perfectly happy to let me sit and watch Trudy get those spankings, which is I guess some small ray of fairness in my situation.
So far, however, I have never been able to find a way to get mom or my step-father to listen to me and agree that at my age I am spanked too often and too hard by my sister-in-law.
Anyone have any thoughts or suggestions that might help?
Debra
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