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Subject: LEONA - Re: Eleonora, re: manipulation, etc. PS Author: Caitlyn [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 19:49:41 02/15/26 Sun In reply to: Eleonora 's message, "Re: Eleonora, re: manipulation, etc. PS" on 13:34:18 02/10/26 Tue Hi! I do think of those years as lost, at least to us and what could have been. I imagined us as being real-life Gilmore Girls, but when mom remarried that went away. It’s not like we didn’t remain close, and that bond was still there, but my adolescent brain couldn’t help thinking that it wasn’t my mom and me, but my mom and three stepchildren. And of course my stepbrother and stepsister had their “real” dad and a stepmom, while I had a stepmom and a stepdad. So I reacted badly. It’s good that you can recognize what was happening with your mom. It’s easier to do that as we get older and have some years between now and those experiences, isn’t it? I don’t think attempting manipulation is a crime, lol, at least not in these circumstances! Manipulation with my stepsister was things like promising I wouldn’t do it again, or telling her I’d do some of her jobs around the house, or even one time threatening to tell our parents about things SHE did. None of it worked, of course. I think that last one was a time when she said something about making it harder on myself. I also remember a time when I was in the corner and she told me to quit squirming and stand still, and I said something like “is this still enough for you”, apparently in a sarcastic tone. That resulted in a lecture as she was walking me across the room for another spanking. It’s surprising that nothing similar occurred with your mom. Maybe you were just better behaved when spanking was imminent? Lol Take care! Caity [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: LEONA - Re: Eleonora, re: manipulation, etc. PS Author: Eleonora [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:22:40 02/18/26 Wed Hi! Strange, how we can be talking and listening, and still don’t get fundamental things! I’ve thought of you, your mom, your stepdad and stepsiblings as THE family of your uppringning, probably because it’s what I’ve heard most about. Yet, I could have known that the time you lived with all of them was just part of it. Your remark about Gilmore girls really brought that home to me! Sorry for not thinking! It did not come as a lightning out of clear sky, though, I hope? What did your mom do to prepare you that they were going to be family? How was the first introductions like? When you accepted your stepsister as taking care of discipline at her discretion, did you think a lot about it, pro and con? Or did you think it wouldn’t be so significant? Did you see the possibility of that amount of bullying? I do think it’s admirable that you have been able to resume normal relations! No, I don’t think that difference was because I was more well-behaved, at least not as a conscious strategy. Remember that you asked me about being pulled by the ear, and I explained that my feet froze to the ground? I think that feeling lingered on. A sense of shock, with my tounge paralyzed, too, and that more or less lasted through all of my spankings. All my best! Leona