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Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride

Author:
Nick, too

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Date Posted: 00:56:17 11/22/25 Sat
In reply to: Douglas 's message, "Crying and loss of ego and pride" on 14:37:45 11/21/25 Fri

My experience is a bit differeent. My pride is that I don't cry during spankings (whtther with a belt or with an old electric cord) and I completely obey my Mistress -- I make no attempt to cover my butt with my hands or move it aside or yell anything like "Stop! It hurts!" I don't get up from my knees-and-elbows position, either. When my first Mistress started teaching me with the belt about ten years go, the pain threshold for my butt was much lower and I ofeten turned it aside subconsciously. She usually stopped the belting and ordered me to turn it back. It was such a big shame for me! And I was so proud -- even happy! -- when I learnt to avoid turning it aside.

As for your feeling of safeness... When my Mistress tells me that the spanking is over and she allowes me to get up, I rise to my knees, thanks her and kiss het hands and knees. Do I feel safeness? Surely! Safeness and gratitude. She does her best to teach me obedience and I'm grateful for it.

As for you question whether you should move out, I don't suppose so. You are now in the best (for you) place in the world and your mother keeps teaching you. It won't last forever, so don't miss the opportunity to remain with your strict and loving mother as long as you can. And don't forget to thank her for every spanking. Or you do it already?

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Author: Shane [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 04:58:26 11/22/25 Sat The feeling of safety you describe is fairly common. So common, in fact, that many folks seek to recreate it with romantic partners.

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Douglas
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Date Posted: 06:26:22 11/22/25 Sat

Funny that you bring that up because I was just thinking of potential romantic partners. I don't date right now. For one thing my mom makes me study and I'm not allowed to go out at night (unless I'm with her). But I was thinking about the future when I do eventually work and live on my own.

The way I was raised seems pretty extreme compared to anyone I know. My mom is super strict and I guess you could say domineering. I don't on the surface find any of it sexual or a turn on. Yet I think this upbringing really had an influence on the women I'm attracted to. I'm attracted to girl boss types. I don't know if I will feel the need to get spanked, a side of me says hell no but I also have a gut feeling that I will. Should be interesting to see how this works out.