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Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride

Author:
Dimmerdork to Nadine

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Date Posted: 15:23:41 11/30/25 Sun
In reply to: Nadine to Dimmerdock 's message, "Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride" on 14:25:54 11/30/25 Sun

Well, that woman is not wrong…that parallels my experience with the Lexan paddle precisely.

Several years ago, I mentored a young lady through her college career. Especially during her freshman year, she became well acquainted with my Lexan paddle…or, as she refers to it, “that horrible, evil, awful THING!” The sting of the Lexan is simply breathtaking, and, because it has so much more flex that a wooden implement, there’s much less marking/bruising. One can literally spank, and spank, and spank, and spank with it, giving far longer spankings than one would dare do with wood.

And believe me, the Lexan paddle does a more that admirable job of quickly reducing a grown woman of voting age to a bawling, sobbing, begging, pleading, contrite, and very sorry little girl…long before her punishment is deemed to be sufficient…

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Author:
Nadine to Dimmerdork and others
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Date Posted: 10:43:02 12/01/25 Mon

Mr. D, you perfectly described how my mother spanks me and Pete with the Lexan when you said, "One can literally spank, and spank, and spank, and spank with it, giving far longer spankings than one would dare do with wood."

The only thing I'd add is after she spanks and spanks and spanks and spanks me like that with the Lexan, and I am a bawling mess right after dinner for example, she lets me go off to the playroom and cry it out there for about an hour or and until I've stopped crying completely and am playing games with Pete or with one of my electronic games that I can play myself. Then there she is in the doorway and she gets me and takes me back to the living room to give me some more of "my spanking" and she spanks me again almost as long with the Lexan so that I literally can not sit on my bottom after that until the next morning. And she does the same with Pete but not as long either time with him as she does with me, but he is still crying and dancing hysterically when she stops.

After she spanks me the second time like that she holds me in her lap and cuddles and kisses me for a while and then I go to bed and my bottom and thighs are red hot and so am I! That is something I can not explain but lying on my bed as my bottom cools down quite a bit finally, I am so wet between my legs that I can't stop my fingers from going down and sliding into my slot and I find myself thinkin of how I looked to Pete and my father as she spanked me and about the very pleased look on her face when she is cuddling me after and the look on dad's face with his pants all swollen up in his lap while he watched the naked dance I did right after, and despite my flaming bottom I have these really terrific orgasms and just flood my quim and my upper legs.

And these orgasms are much longer when she has used the Lexan and given me these longer spankings than they ever were when I was getting spanked with the hairbrush. So that is something else I associate with Lexan spankings that I bet a lot of other girls and boys would say they feel too when they get spanked with the Lexan. Nadine

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Author:
Nadine--picture of Lexan paddle
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Date Posted: 11:37:34 12/01/25 Mon

Hi. This is a picture of the Lexan paddle mom bought to use on us some time ago. Dad wrapped the handle in black tape making a nice thick handle for mom to grip comfortably, and he left the hole uncovered so mom could hang it on a nail on the pantry door in the kitchen where everyone coming in there can see it. This always starts a lot of conversations with friends who visit about the paddle and the spankings she gives us, which mom loves and enjoys, especially if Pete or I are there to blush to our roots as she talks about how long she can spank us with it without marking or bruising our bare bottoms. She loves to tease us doing that especially if it is any of our school friends who have noticed it. Groan! Nadine
Nadine

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Author: Nadine--Whoops forgot to put in the link [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 11:40:00 12/01/25 Mon Here it is. https://mastercontrolstoyshop.com/products/switch-plus-otk-lexan-spanking-paddle

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Dimmerdork to Nadine
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Date Posted: 12:25:41 12/01/25 Mon

That’s smaller than mine…more designed for over-the-knee use. Mine is from
Cane-iac, a bit larger, and works well with the recipient bent over a sofa or chair, or lying over a stack of pillows across a bed.

I’m sorry your paddle is on public display like that…seems a bit over the top to me. My mentees had a special place where their instruments of correction were kept…away from prying eyes - and their inevitable questions, but a place where they’d have to see them, and handle them, each and every day, as a reminder of what happens when poor choices are made, and where they were also reminded of where and how they’d be used…

You see, those implements were kept in their panty drawers, and they were made to remove their outer clothing themselves, were lectured - wearing only proper underthings, if they knew what was good for them, and were them made to fetch the required implement themselves…assume the requisite position…and would then hear themselves ask, in a trembling voice…”Pplease, Ssir…pplease ppull mmy ppanties ddownn…”😭😭😭

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Author: Dimmerdork to Nadine [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 12:40:02 12/01/25 Mon Here’s mine - https://www.cane-iac.com/items/acrylic~lexan-paddles/lexanjr-detail.htm

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EmilyC
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Date Posted: 12:38:02 12/01/25 Mon

Nadine -- I'm finally beginning to get what happens to me after a spanking -- and you described it totally!
I"m a year older than you but I guess ignorant cause I"ve been getting the need to touch after a spanking for months now and I didnt' know why or what it was. And if dad or my uncle decide to take off all my clothes and one of my boy cousins is there, it really makes those feelings strong!
But maybe part of it is the loss of control over my own self. Like having to be naked or panties down in front of them for the lecture and not wanting to be bare or not wanting them to see me and my bare body, but not having any say in it.
And yeah, mom loves to talk to other moms about how she spanks us and how good it is for us. But I don't want them to see me get spanked.

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Douglas
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Date Posted: 11:17:31 12/05/25 Fri

I might be unusual in that I don't get an erection during the spanking, I just think it hurts and that I'm hating it. But then after I cry in bad my feelings often turn to horniness. I have never quite understood why this happens. My guess is that my brain is trying to make something painful into pleasure. I have heard it said there is a fine line between pleasure and pain.

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Jeff
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Date Posted: 13:04:02 12/04/25 Thu

Emily , do you think your mom knows spankings get you excited and that you masturbate after?
As a boy it was impossible to hide my excitement because from 13 - 16 I always had an erection pop out when mom pulled my underpants down. She knew I jerked off after my spanking because she caught me a couple times.
Are you ever spanked in front of your mom’s friends? My mom has two friends, one from out of town who used to see me get spankings pretty much every time she spent the night and her other friend who used to show up when I was in for a spanking.

They both would comment on my stiff penis and tease that I obviously LIKED getting spanked which was not true ! Probably like when you get spanked in front of men/boys and can’t stand them seeing your pussy and boobs but there’s nothing you can do about it.
Any time her one friend spent the night I knew I was going to be spanked (at least once) and I hated that she liked mom to spank me in the diaper position, on my back, legs up for the wooden spoon.
Having the lady watch me exposed made my penis hard and she would smile and comment. In that position my stiff dick would be against my belly and she’d say, “Look at it twitch!”
I had to see her watching me squirm and cry under the spoon and when the sting got bad my penis would slowly deflate, getting smaller and smaller, and she’d laugh “not such a big boy now, eh?”
After my spanking dance mom would make me stand in front of her friend and slowly hand slap my sore buns. Seeing the lady smirking at me would bring back my erection and more comments.
Sometimes mom would send me off saying, “You can go to your room now and play with your TOY."

Like you, I’d masturbate as I felt the humiliation of being exposed and spanked in front of mom’s friends.
Do you ever have to hear comments?