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> >“…my parents wanted to see how much louder the >yelps could get.” > >Um, Lucas, you of course realize this was child >abuse….right? > >I mean, I got at least eight or ten spankings a year >until I was 15, so I know the feeling and impact and >the purpose of corporal punishment. But my spankings >were just a response to my having messed up or broken >a rule or been disobedient, nothing more. My dad and I >would go to his den or my bedroom, he’d take off his >belt or grab the hairbrush, I’d drop my pants and >underwear, he’d give me a dozen or so swats and that >would be that. He didn’t intensify the swats during >the spanking to see if I would yell louder. That would >have been sadistic, not corrective. > >You haven’t mentioned getting a spanking in the last >year or so that I can remember, so it’s good >you’ve moved past it. But I’ve privately been >thinking that what you underwent was in a lot cases >needlessly severe. > > >>> I never kept a log. >> >>Unlike Kim, I think! :D >> >>But unfortunately, Kim's years of getting spanked were >>relatively few compared to the rest of us. Even tho >>the spankings he did get were pretty intense. >> >>> What I do remember is that around 10 >>> was my max frequency. I got the strap bare >somewhere >>> around 3 times a month on average >> >>That's a quite impressive frequency plus severity >>combination for a ten year old. I wonder if some >>parents of ten year olds who read here end up being >>inspired to try similar levels of attitude adjustment. >> >>> By the time I was 12 that had gone down >>> to 2 or less, but they were for more serious >>> misbehaviors and thus more severe. >> >>I think my spankings started out quite frequent when I >>was 11 or 12 cos they were teaching me to learn my >>place. But then a year or two later the spankings >>actually got more frequent cos the number of things I >>could be spanked for kept growing. Plus my Mum went >>from disapproving of spankings, to thinking that >>regular spankings are good for me. And >>enthusiastically spanking me herself as well as just >>letting my stepdad do it. >> >>I don't think my misbehaviours were actually worse >>when I was 14 than when I was 12. (Maybe Alf remembers >>this differently?) But my parents seem to think that >>each year I get older, spankings need to be upgraded. >>Lots more swats, much scarier implements, and add-ons >>like warm up spankings and mouth soapings. >> >>I'm pretty sure my parents think that the more someone >>is spanked, the more they get used to it, so the more >>they can take, so they need bigger spankings. So it >>increases exponentially. >> >>> I've never been able to "withhold tears" to >>> demonstrate defiance or for any other reason. I >>don't >>> even try not to scream and cry when I'm getting it. >>I >>> rather suspect that if I did the spanking would just >>> continue until I did cry. >> >>I did once try not to cry from a spanking. I think I >>might even have told my stepdad "I'm not going to cry" >>before he started. Anyway I didn't last very long at >>all. And I think the only result is that the spanking >>ended up being a much bigger one. >> >>Once I start crying then proper bawling (and howling) >>starts pretty soon afterwards. And the begging and >>desperate apologising too (the most embarrassing >>part). It's like a barrier being broken, all the self >>control goes away. Sometimes the yelping after each >>whack starts at the same time as the crying tho. >> >>> As for my blue eyes and baby face getting me some >>sort >>> of a pass - HAH! More likely that my cute little >>> bare buttocks encouraged, not discouraged, the >>> spanking. >> >>Unfortunately that's definitely the case for me. I've >>been told in no uncertain terms that my "cute" bare >>buttocks are "just asking" to be turned cherry red. >> >>Contrition and tears didn't help me either. Plenty of >>times my bawling and howling and begging as my butt >>got blistered, just led to extra additional rounds of >>swats cos my parents wanted to see how much louder the >>yelps could get. (This also led them to the spanking >>technique of alternating swats with questions and then >>giving extra swats for each answer.) >> >>I was regularly assured that getting a year older >>hadn't made me any less "cute" and "spankable". But my >>Mum did also use the hairbrush on my bottom to turn me >>back into "her little boy" again if I showed any signs >>of thinking I wasn't a little kid any more. I guess >>that's similar to what Mr Alan said about teenage >>ideas of independence resulting in more spankings. But >>in my case I think they wanted to spank the ideas out >>of me before they even happened, not wait for me to >>actually get into any testosterone fuelled mischief. >> >>My stepbro claims I was "even more spankable" at age >>14 than at age 12.
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