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Subject: Re: Cuteness an escape from spankings, or a cause of them


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Lucas (to Mr Alan, Jerry, Kim, Alf)
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Date Posted: 15:16:48 04/25/26 Sat
In reply to: Jerry (to Mr. Alan) 's message, "Re: Age for most spankings" on 21:53:21 04/07/26 Tue

> I never kept a log.

Unlike Kim, I think! :D

But unfortunately, Kim's years of getting spanked were relatively few compared to the rest of us. Even tho the spankings he did get were pretty intense.

> What I do remember is that around 10
> was my max frequency. I got the strap bare somewhere
> around 3 times a month on average

That's a quite impressive frequency plus severity combination for a ten year old. I wonder if some parents of ten year olds who read here end up being inspired to try similar levels of attitude adjustment.

> By the time I was 12 that had gone down
> to 2 or less, but they were for more serious
> misbehaviors and thus more severe.

I think my spankings started out quite frequent when I was 11 or 12 cos they were teaching me to learn my place. But then a year or two later the spankings actually got more frequent cos the number of things I could be spanked for kept growing. Plus my Mum went from disapproving of spankings, to thinking that regular spankings are good for me. And enthusiastically spanking me herself as well as just letting my stepdad do it.

I don't think my misbehaviours were actually worse when I was 14 than when I was 12. (Maybe Alf remembers this differently?) But my parents seem to think that each year I get older, spankings need to be upgraded. Lots more swats, much scarier implements, and add-ons like warm up spankings and mouth soapings.

I'm pretty sure my parents think that the more someone is spanked, the more they get used to it, so the more they can take, so they need bigger spankings. So it increases exponentially.

> I've never been able to "withhold tears" to
> demonstrate defiance or for any other reason. I don't
> even try not to scream and cry when I'm getting it. I
> rather suspect that if I did the spanking would just
> continue until I did cry.

I did once try not to cry from a spanking. I think I might even have told my stepdad "I'm not going to cry" before he started. Anyway I didn't last very long at all. And I think the only result is that the spanking ended up being a much bigger one.

Once I start crying then proper bawling (and howling) starts pretty soon afterwards. And the begging and desperate apologising too (the most embarrassing part). It's like a barrier being broken, all the self control goes away. Sometimes the yelping after each whack starts at the same time as the crying tho.

> As for my blue eyes and baby face getting me some sort
> of a pass - HAH! More likely that my cute little
> bare buttocks encouraged, not discouraged, the
> spanking.

Unfortunately that's definitely the case for me. I've been told in no uncertain terms that my "cute" bare buttocks are "just asking" to be turned cherry red.

Contrition and tears didn't help me either. Plenty of times my bawling and howling and begging as my butt got blistered, just led to extra additional rounds of swats cos my parents wanted to see how much louder the yelps could get. (This also led them to the spanking technique of alternating swats with questions and then giving extra swats for each answer.)

I was regularly assured that getting a year older hadn't made me any less "cute" and "spankable". But my Mum did also use the hairbrush on my bottom to turn me back into "her little boy" again if I showed any signs of thinking I wasn't a little kid any more. I guess that's similar to what Mr Alan said about teenage ideas of independence resulting in more spankings. But in my case I think they wanted to spank the ideas out of me before they even happened, not wait for me to actually get into any testosterone fuelled mischief.

My stepbro claims I was "even more spankable" at age 14 than at age 12.

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