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Subject: Re: My long streak without a spanking is over

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Denice to Debbie
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Date Posted: 20:10:26 04/30/25 Wed
In reply to: Debbie 's message, "Re: My long streak without a spanking is over" on 18:11:58 04/30/25 Wed

Debbie, I missed this reply from you completely when I checked messages earlier. I thought all replies would end up pretty much at the bottom of the posts--so I apologize for not answering you earlier.

First, you did exactly what I asked you to do--and I really appreciate that. You didn't give a quick "snap" answer. You took your time and clearly gave my thoughts very careful consideration. That is in keeping with all of the excellent posts from you--with your prior correspondence with Laura for example that I read most of--and as always your comments are reasonable, very intelligent and always even-tempered. You are a delight to read on this subject, and I would guess on any subject.

As for your decision on that one suggestion of mine ("As for regular once or twice a month spankings, I'm afraid I'm going to have to disappoint you. I can't see myself asking for that.")--yes, yes, yes, LOL, you did disappoint me a little, but not because I was frothing at the bit for you to get more spankings! Although, reading your reports on getting spanked more often would unquestionably have been very interesting!

Without in any way trying to get you to change your decision on that point--I think you are rock solid on how you feel about that--but just to let you see a bit more fully how my mind was working, I'll just add these further comments.

In making that suggestion I was thinking that from every indication I could see in your reports, it seemed to me that your mother was very comfortable with the prospect of spanking you whenever a spanking was determined to be needed. It did not appear to me that she found the task distasteful in any way, and to me at least I seemed to see indications that she might actually quite like the task (again when the terms you two had agreed on meant one was needed).

I found nothing wrong whatsoever in your mother feeling that way, and in fact I have long suspected that most (not all) parents who use spanking as a discipline tool, in fact find giving spankings to be a rather pleasant duty if they are entirely honest with themselves.

Another factor I kept thinking about was about your perspective: I felt you, me, anyone who reads the posts on a site like this with any regularity clearly has some general interest in, fascination with, the subject of spanking, either as a giver or receiver. And, in my opinion, most who read here--being frank, and myself included of course--find the subject somewhat sexually stimulating, exciting, provocative, and one that at least kicks up some very entertaining mental images that we enjoy seeing and that are triggered by the posts we read.

Thus, if someone who reads regularly on a site like this also reports that they do at present get spanked--even if only occasionally (as in your case)--and if they are not raging about the unfairness of that situation, or of the horrible feelings they have about being spanked, then the chances are that in some way, at some level, a certain amount of sexual or other pleasure or gratification--even if only a small amount--might very well be found or "read into" their unresisting acceptance of the spankings they receive. That, rightly or wrongly, seemed to me to be very close to, or on point with, your own case. Only you know for sure, but the idea that you might find some small amount of pleasure from being spanked would hardly shock anyone of reasonable intelligence.

In my thoughts, what was stirring around in my head when I made that suggestion to you (like maybe you could work out something where you got spanked once a month, or maybe twice), was the thought that at your present age of 15 you have at best probably only another two or three years of "spankable" (by a parent) years left.

So I made that suggestion really with both of you in mind. It was made primarily for the benefit of your mother, but also with the possibility in mind that in deep, at some level, you really might want and enjoy--or get some small satisfaction from--getting a few more spankings at this time than you have been getting since your conduct, let's face it, is generally excellent.

So those two factors were rolling around in my mind when I made that suggestion--some reward for your mother for the outstanding way she has handled your situation and your needs, and also as possibly providing some small reward for you--one might say, more spankings at this time MIGHT give you some small frissons (some brief moments of emotional excitement, some small "thrills") of pleasure that will soon enough be beyond your reach.

I add these comments now just so you will realize I had given some real thought to your situation when I made that unusual recommendation, and it was not a case of just, "Oh, wouldn't it be great if Debbie got more spankings!"

Again, I loved your thoughtful reply, and you are indeed one of the very best contributors on any of these forums. Let's hope Laura comes back at some point with some interesting updates. You admirer, Denice

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Re: My long streak without a spanking is over Debbie To Denice 19:50:16 05/01/25 Thu

Re: My long streak without a spanking is over -- Pat, 21:53:08 05/01/25 Thu
Re: My long streak without a spanking is over -- Denice to Debbie, 00:30:14 05/02/25 Fri

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>Debbie, I missed this reply from you completely when I >checked messages earlier. I thought all replies would >end up pretty much at the bottom of the posts--so I >apologize for not answering you earlier. > >First, you did exactly what I asked you to do--and I >really appreciate that. You didn't give a quick "snap" >answer. You took your time and clearly gave my >thoughts very careful consideration. That is in >keeping with all of the excellent posts from you--with >your prior correspondence with Laura for example that >I read most of--and as always your comments are >reasonable, very intelligent and always even-tempered. >You are a delight to read on this subject, and I would >guess on any subject. > >As for your decision on that one suggestion of mine >("As for regular once or twice a month spankings, I'm >afraid I'm going to have to disappoint you. I can't >see myself asking for that.")--yes, yes, yes, LOL, you >did disappoint me a little, but not because I was >frothing at the bit for you to get more spankings! >Although, reading your reports on getting spanked >more often would unquestionably have been very >interesting! > >Without in any way trying to get you to change your >decision on that point--I think you are rock solid on >how you feel about that--but just to let you see a bit >more fully how my mind was working, I'll just add >these further comments. > >In making that suggestion I was thinking that from >every indication I could see in your reports, it >seemed to me that your mother was very comfortable >with the prospect of spanking you whenever a spanking >was determined to be needed. It did not appear to me >that she found the task distasteful in any way, and to >me at least I seemed to see indications that she might >actually quite like the task (again when the terms you >two had agreed on meant one was needed). > >I found nothing wrong whatsoever in your mother >feeling that way, and in fact I have long suspected >that most (not all) parents who use spanking as a >discipline tool, in fact find giving spankings to be a >rather pleasant duty if they are entirely honest with >themselves. > >Another factor I kept thinking about was about your >perspective: I felt you, me, anyone who reads the >posts on a site like this with any regularity clearly >has some general interest in, fascination with, the >subject of spanking, either as a giver or receiver. >And, in my opinion, most who read here--being frank, >and myself included of course--find the subject >somewhat sexually stimulating, exciting, provocative, >and one that at least kicks up some very entertaining >mental images that we enjoy seeing and that are >triggered by the posts we read. > >Thus, if someone who reads regularly on a site like >this also reports that they do at present get >spanked--even if only occasionally (as in your >case)--and if they are not raging about the unfairness >of that situation, or of the horrible feelings they >have about being spanked, then the chances are that in >some way, at some level, a certain amount of sexual or >other pleasure or gratification--even if only a small >amount--might very well be found or "read into" their >unresisting acceptance of the spankings they receive. >That, rightly or wrongly, seemed to me to be very >close to, or on point with, your own case. Only you >know for sure, but the idea that you might find some >small amount of pleasure from being spanked would >hardly shock anyone of reasonable intelligence. > >In my thoughts, what was stirring around in my head >when I made that suggestion to you (like maybe you >could work out something where you got spanked once a >month, or maybe twice), was the thought that at your >present age of 15 you have at best probably only >another two or three years of "spankable" (by a >parent) years left. > >So I made that suggestion really with both of you in >mind. It was made primarily for the benefit of your >mother, but also with the possibility in mind that in >deep, at some level, you really might want and >enjoy--or get some small satisfaction from--getting a >few more spankings at this time than you have been >getting since your conduct, let's face it, is >generally excellent. > >So those two factors were rolling around in my mind >when I made that suggestion--some reward for your >mother for the outstanding way she has handled your >situation and your needs, and also as possibly >providing some small reward for you--one might say, >more spankings at this time MIGHT give you some small >frissons (some brief moments of emotional excitement, >some small "thrills") of pleasure that will soon >enough be beyond your reach. > >I add these comments now just so you will realize I >had given some real thought to your situation when I >made that unusual recommendation, and it was not a >case of just, "Oh, wouldn't it be great if Debbie got >more spankings!" > >Again, I loved your thoughtful reply, and you are >indeed one of the very best contributors on any of >these forums. Let's hope Laura comes back at some >point with some interesting updates. You admirer, >Denice

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