Re: Cooperation -- Christian Family Discipline

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Subject: Re: Cooperation

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Emily

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Date Posted: 19:40:39 11/05/23 Sun
In reply to: Jasmine 's message, "Re: Cooperation" on 13:49:03 10/18/23 Wed

>With my 9 year old son Luke, I have discovered that
>when he truly acknowledges guilt for an action that
>warrants a spanking (perhaps half the time), he is
>fully cooperative and pulls his pants down without
>being asked. Other times, he'll hesitate and ask if
>he really has to be spanked, etc. and there is a delay
>before he acquiesces and drops his pants when told to
>do so. Punishment is the same under both
>circumstances, twenty smacks with a hairbrush on the
>bare buttocks, but the times he has issues accepting
>guilt, the affair takes more time.

That's hard when they are not ready to accept what they did wrong. No child wants the consequence but learning to accept their responsibility I think is important. Do you just spank anyway or do you continue to talk with him untill it seems he has accepted his guilt?

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