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Subject: Re: Dealing with creepy people


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Melissa for JW Sonya
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Date Posted: 09:49:50 03/14/25 Fri
In reply to: Sonya 's message, "Re: Dealing with creepy people" on 23:36:19 03/13/25 Thu

>The Southern town I grew up and still live in, wasn't
>all that small but there was a lot of the small town
>redneck mentality even in the 80's and 90's. So the
>whole "boys will be boys" thing was still going on. I
>won't say all the teachers were like that and to my
>surprise, the Principal wasn't like that. When we were
>taken to the office, he sat us down and had a long
>talk with us both. He told me he didn't blame me for
>fighting him but that fighting wasn't allowed at
>school so we were both going to get paddled. I went
>first. he made me put my hands on the desk and gave me
>three licks. Then when it was the boy's turn. Even
>though he was a little bigger and a little older he
>put up more of a fuss than I did. He was given five
>licks. After we were paddled, we were each given a
>note to take home and sent to our respective classes.
>I was pretty upset thinking about the spanking I was
>going to get at home for fighting at school again. I
>stopped on the way home and read the note. It
>explained that I got paddled at school for fighting
>and the Principal wanted to see my parents the next
>day after school for a conference. I got even more
>scared when I read the note thinking I was really
>gonna get it good at home. When I got in I went
>straight to Momma and told her what happened and then
>handed her the note. I expected her to be really upset
>but she wasn't. I told her what the boy did to me and
>she told me she didn't blame me and that She and Daddy
>would be there tomorrow. I was in my room when Daddy
>got home and he came in to talk to me. He sat on the
>bed and asked "How ya doin' Slugger?" We talked for a
>while and he hugged me and told me to get ready for
>dinner. The next day I had to report to the office
>after school and so did the other boy. He was sporting
>a really nice black eye from the previous day and
>seemed to be a little scared of me. The Secretary
>escorted us to the Conference room where the Principal
>and our Parents were sitting. He sat with his folks
>and I sat with mine. The Principal asked me to explain
>what happened and I told him. Then he asked the boy,
>who after some stammering admitted what he did. The
>Principal explained that I got three licks and he got
>five and the boy's Daddy spoke up saying it was unfair
>and then tried to excuse what he did saying "boys will
>be boys". Momma stood up and read him the Riot Act.
>Talking me about having a bruise on my chest from him
>grabbing and then said, "How'd you like it if some guy
>came up and did that to your wife? Would you excuse it
>saying "Men will be men?" The Principal got her to sit
>back down and said to the man. "Mrs. G...... is right.
>How would you feel if someone did that to your wife?
>Would you just shrug it off?" He shook his head no and
>then just stared at the table. Then he explained that
>what he did to me by law, could be considered sexual
>assault and my parents wanted to press charges, they
>were well within their rights. Then he asked Daddy and
>Momma if they wanted him to call the Sheriff. When he
>asked that, the boy started crying. Momma and Daddy
>looked at each other and then Daddy said, "No sir, I
>think the boy has learned his lesson." His folks were
>pretty shaken up by what the Principal said, and they
>apologized to me and my parents. The Principal told
>the kid, "Young man, from what I've been hearing, I
>know this isn't the first time you've done something
>like this, but it better be the last. If I hear of you
>doing it again, I won't paddle you. I'll call the
>Police. Do you understand?" He shook his head and said
>"Yes sir." Then he told us, "Ok as far as I'm
>concerned, this matter is settled." Then he told the
>boy. "I'm gonna be keeping my eye on you." After
>that, he thanked us all for coming in. As far as I
>know, the kid didn't mess with anybody else the rest
>of the year. That summer, his Daddy got a job upstate
>and they ended up moving.
I live in the south too same area the reason they did not believe me and the other girls was family was important to them the only person I confided in about my older cousin was a friend who was a boy in jr high school he became my boyfriend and latter husband we had two boys our oldest and three girls we taught the boys to protect thier sisters and all girls . Growing up he did what he could to protect me molestation still goes on and boys are victims too the Catholic Church priest molesting boys scandal and Jerry Sandusky at Pren State molesting boys in the locker room . Some parents even now do not want to belive thier sons and daughters and schools do not do all they can do about bullying either what happened to Sonya the school should have done something but failed

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