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Subject: Re: Feelings about spanking

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Bryson
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Date Posted: 06:04:00 12/04/24 Wed
In reply to: Cynthia 's message, "Re: Feelings about spanking" on 18:17:27 08/21/24 Wed

Hi Cynthia.

I didn’t realize that you spank. May I ask how?

>I have mixed opinions. I generally think my parents
>did the best they knew how within the times and
>culture we lived.
>
>I don't think spanking really has a place in modern
>parenting. I also don't think it's right to
>retroactively apply today's standards to the 70s and
>80s of my youth.
>
>My parents have never apologized for a childhood of
>generally resorting first to corporal punishment
>(though I bet I got a lot of warnings in retrospect).
>But I suspect they probably would have done things
>different looking back. My little sister (10 years
>younger) got way fewer spankings than my brother and I
>did. They also have never criticized my parenting
>style.
>
>>I have a personal question, I understand if nobody
>>answers.
>>
>>As an adult, how do you feel about your childhood
>>spankings? I ask because my feelings change basically
>>every day, wondering if anyone is in a similar boat.

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>Hi Cynthia. > >I didn’t realize that you spank. May I ask how? > >>I have mixed opinions. I generally think my parents >>did the best they knew how within the times and >>culture we lived. >> >>I don't think spanking really has a place in modern >>parenting. I also don't think it's right to >>retroactively apply today's standards to the 70s and >>80s of my youth. >> >>My parents have never apologized for a childhood of >>generally resorting first to corporal punishment >>(though I bet I got a lot of warnings in retrospect). >>But I suspect they probably would have done things >>different looking back. My little sister (10 years >>younger) got way fewer spankings than my brother and I >>did. They also have never criticized my parenting >>style. >> >>>I have a personal question, I understand if nobody >>>answers. >>> >>>As an adult, how do you feel about your childhood >>>spankings? I ask because my feelings change basically >>>every day, wondering if anyone is in a similar boat.

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