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Subject: Re: Spanking With Emphasis On Embarrassment

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Gary Steven to Alex and Colin
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Date Posted: 15:11:46 09/23/25 Tue
In reply to: Alex 's message, "Spanking With Emphasis On Embarrassment" on 11:05:16 09/23/25 Tue

Well Gentlemen, pardon me for breaking in on this conversation but as my name has been brought up by both of you. I do feel I have been openly invited to participate.

First of all, the stories I tell are absolutely true. I had a wonderful relationship with my parents in spite of how strict they could be and have absolutely no reason to make things up or exaggerate them. So much for my disclaimer.

I could talk to my mom about anything and could have a very frank and honest discussion. I was twenty and had just moved back home after living on my own for seven months because basically my room mate bailed on me leaving me to pay all the expenses and I literally going days without eating because I couldn't afford to buy anything to eat. My parents invited me to move back home. I did so on the condition that I would pay at least a small amount of rent and would help with things like the lawn work. I was absolute freedom as an adult to come and go as I please, no curfews or anything like that, But they insisted I let them know how long I would be gone so they wouldn't worry about me. Perfectly reasonable rule. One day she and I were sitting at the kitchen table and we started cutting up, and I started picking on her calling her a "pygmy" because she was five foot nothing. She knew I was teasing and didn't get mad but while we were teasing she pretended to be mad at me and told me, I don't care how big you are, you're not to big to get your pants pulled down go over my knee and your bare ass busted." Now I hadn't had a spanking from her since I was fifteen. Which was bare butt bent over a chair and in front of my then ten year old sister who had also gotten spanked. Also the last time I was spanked bare over her knee, I was eight. So I picked on her knowing she was not serious and said, "Little pygmy, you're too small to put me over your knee." She laughed and said, "I'll go get my blowgun and dart your ass." Then we both had a good laugh. A few minutes later I got serious and I asked, "Mom, how come you always spanked our bare butts when you gave us spankings?" She got serious and she did talk a little about her own upbringing which had included getting spanked bare with a switch at home and paddled bare at school by a couple of teachers and unfortunately some physical abuse from her late father. Once again I asked her why she chose to spank us the way she did. She said, "I had three reasons for spanking you kids on the bare butt."

"1. The embarrassment of being spanked like that lasted longer than the pain." "You will forget the pain in a few hours, but the embarrassment of having your bare butt spanked will last a lot longer." Then she said,

"2. My daddy was an abusive drunk. And times he'd come in and decide to whip me and Ruth he would get a hickory stick or take a strap and beat us black and blue. Usually over our clothes." "But the times he whipped us bare, he didn't whip us as hard." Then she said, "It's really easy to get carried away when you're upset or angry and you may not." "So when I pulled your pants down, I knew I wouldn't have to hit as hard to get my point across." Then she said, "That's always why I tried to make sure I've had a chance to calm down before I spanked you kids, because I wanted to be sure I wasn't just beating on you because I was angry." I can attest to that, she never spanked us when she was yelling. She was usually calm albeit stern when she spanked us. Even in those situations when she spanked us in public. Which would explain her calm attitude after she spanked Karen in the restaurant and people were watching us.

Then she said, "3. I could tell by actually seeing your bare butts when you had been spanked enough." She never gave a set number of licks when she spanked us. When she spanked by hand, her delivery was usually hard and fast. Which, trust me, would get you crying pretty quick. When she used an implement like the paddle, flyswatter, hairbrush, or belt, she was slower and much more deliberate when she spanked, not wanting to hit our legs back or anywhere else. So when she spanked, she judged by the color of our butt and our reaction, that she had spanked us enough. But she judged more by what she saw than what she heard because my sister was a crier. She would start bawling sometimes before the spanking even started.

But anyway, that's what I wanted to share. I basically considered what she had told me that day, when I had kids of my own. Yes, I did spank them when needed, but not as often as I got it. It was bare. But the closest I ever came to a public spanking was a quick trip to a restroom to give a quick spanking with the warning of a real spanking at home. Now I won't discuss the spankings I gave my kids any further because the rules of this forum. But I hope I provided a little insight.

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Re: Spanking With Emphasis On Embarrassment Alex to Gary Steven 13:32:32 09/24/25 Wed

Re: Spanking With Emphasis On Embarrassment -- Gary Steven, 09:13:50 09/25/25 Thu

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>Well Gentlemen, pardon me for breaking in on this >conversation but as my name has been brought up by >both of you. I do feel I have been openly invited to >participate. > >First of all, the stories I tell are absolutely true. >I had a wonderful relationship with my parents in >spite of how strict they could be and have absolutely >no reason to make things up or exaggerate them. So >much for my disclaimer. > >I could talk to my mom about anything and could have a >very frank and honest discussion. I was twenty and had >just moved back home after living on my own for seven >months because basically my room mate bailed on me >leaving me to pay all the expenses and I literally >going days without eating because I couldn't afford to >buy anything to eat. My parents invited me to move >back home. I did so on the condition that I would pay >at least a small amount of rent and would help with >things like the lawn work. I was absolute freedom as >an adult to come and go as I please, no curfews or >anything like that, But they insisted I let them know >how long I would be gone so they wouldn't worry about >me. Perfectly reasonable rule. One day she and I were >sitting at the kitchen table and we started cutting >up, and I started picking on her calling her a "pygmy" >because she was five foot nothing. She knew I was >teasing and didn't get mad but while we were teasing >she pretended to be mad at me and told me, I don't >care how big you are, you're not to big to get your >pants pulled down go over my knee and your bare ass >busted." Now I hadn't had a spanking from her since I >was fifteen. Which was bare butt bent over a chair and >in front of my then ten year old sister who had also >gotten spanked. Also the last time I was spanked bare >over her knee, I was eight. So I picked on her knowing >she was not serious and said, "Little pygmy, you're >too small to put me over your knee." She laughed and >said, "I'll go get my blowgun and dart your ass." Then >we both had a good laugh. A few minutes later I got >serious and I asked, "Mom, how come you always spanked >our bare butts when you gave us spankings?" She got >serious and she did talk a little about her own >upbringing which had included getting spanked bare >with a switch at home and paddled bare at school by a >couple of teachers and unfortunately some physical >abuse from her late father. Once again I asked her >why she chose to spank us the way she did. She said, >"I had three reasons for spanking you kids on the bare >butt." > >"1. The embarrassment of being spanked like that >lasted longer than the pain." "You will forget the >pain in a few hours, but the embarrassment of having >your bare butt spanked will last a lot longer." Then >she said, > >"2. My daddy was an abusive drunk. And times he'd come >in and decide to whip me and Ruth he would get a >hickory stick or take a strap and beat us black and >blue. Usually over our clothes." "But the times he >whipped us bare, he didn't whip us as hard." Then she >said, "It's really easy to get carried away when >you're upset or angry and you may not." "So when I >pulled your pants down, I knew I wouldn't have to hit >as hard to get my point across." Then she said, >"That's always why I tried to make sure I've had a >chance to calm down before I spanked you kids, because >I wanted to be sure I wasn't just beating on you >because I was angry." I can attest to that, she never >spanked us when she was yelling. She was usually calm >albeit stern when she spanked us. Even in those >situations when she spanked us in public. Which would >explain her calm attitude after she spanked Karen in >the restaurant and people were watching us. > >Then she said, "3. I could tell by actually seeing >your bare butts when you had been spanked enough." She >never gave a set number of licks when she spanked us. >When she spanked by hand, her delivery was usually >hard and fast. Which, trust me, would get you crying >pretty quick. When she used an implement like the >paddle, flyswatter, hairbrush, or belt, she was slower >and much more deliberate when she spanked, not wanting >to hit our legs back or anywhere else. So when she >spanked, she judged by the color of our butt and our >reaction, that she had spanked us enough. But she >judged more by what she saw than what she heard >because my sister was a crier. She would start bawling >sometimes before the spanking even started. > >But anyway, that's what I wanted to share. I basically >considered what she had told me that day, when I had >kids of my own. Yes, I did spank them when needed, but >not as often as I got it. It was bare. But the closest >I ever came to a public spanking was a quick trip to a >restroom to give a quick spanking with the warning of >a real spanking at home. Now I won't discuss the >spankings I gave my kids any further because the rules >of this forum. But I hope I provided a little insight.

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