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>You're welcome Brett. Was he a Psycho? I'm not sure, I >know he was a well educated man. He was a bit >narcissistic and definitely sadistic. He seemed to >take some pride in his reputation for how hard he >paddled students and I really don't know how he got >away with it as long as he did. It's possible other >students were afraid to complain, or to even talk to >their parents for fear of being punished at home. Even >though he always sent a note home for the parents to >sign whenever he paddled a student. I have a feeling a >LOT of students probably forged their parents >signatures. I wanted to hide the fact I got hurt so >bad from my parents too. I knew because I got in >trouble at School for cutting class, I was going to >get a spanking at home. When I showed Momma the note >and told her I got paddled, she had fully intended to >spank my bare butt with her hairbrush. I was bawling >and begging to not get spanked even as I pulled my >panties down. When she raised up my skirt to spank me, >that's when she saw how badly I was injured. Instead >of spanking me, she took me to my room, had me strip >from the waist down and put ice packs on my butt. When >Daddy saw how badly the AP hurt me, he lost it. He >literally wanted to go to the School and kill him. I >have seen my Daddy lose his temper on rare occasions. >But I never saw him red faced with rage. > >What put the "nail in the APs coffin" so to speak was >when Momma took me with her to the School the next day >for a little "Come to Jesus Meeting" with the >Principal, Assistant and the Secretary who held me >down while I was beaten. The Principal seemed to be >totally unaware of just how badly I'd been hurt or how >much the Assistant was hurting other students. He had >heard stories but never got any actual complaints from >parents or students. During the meeting which I had to >stand up for because I literally could not sit. Momma >chewed all three of them out without missing a single >bite. The Assistant acted confused and even dismissive >by saying. "Well your daughter made the choice to skip >class that day and tried to sneak back in and got >caught. Then she was given the choice not once but >twice of either taking the licks or Detention and ECS >and both times she CHOSE to take the licks. Maybe I >paddled her a little harder than I should have >considering the way she was dressed, but I don't >really see what your issue is." Momma was speechless >for a moment. Then she got up and turned to me and >said, "Show them Baby." I was totally embarrassed but >I turned around and pulled my dress up in back. I >wasn't wearing panties because my butt hurt too much. >But I let them see. My butt was almost a solid mass of >black and brown bruises especially the lower half and >there were dark blood blisters from where the holes in >the paddle hit bare skin. At that point, the >Assistant, no longer looked so arrogant. He was pale >as a ghost and started sweating. He was stammering out >that he didn't know he'd hit me that hard. The >Secretary was speechless and the Principal who was >normally pretty easygoing was Irate. He started >yelling at the Assistant telling him, "Sir, you will >NEVER touch a Child in my School again. Then said, "I >can't fire you, but I will make sure you have no >contact with any children here for the rest of your >contract and rest assured I will be speaking to the >Superintendent and School Board today about your >future with this School System. Then he told him to >get out and go home. He was apologizing to me and to >Momma and saw me rubbing my wrists and asked me about >the bruises on them. Momma said, "That's probably >where she (pointing at the Secretary) was holding her >down while the Assistant Principal beat her." He >asked her if that was true and she admitted that she >held my wrists while I was being paddled. So he told >her he couldn't fire the Assistant but he could fire >her. Instead of firing her though he suspended her for >two weeks without pay pending further investigation >into her behavior, and then made her leave too. After >they left, he was very apologetic to Momma and me and >offered the full cooperation of the school if she >wanted to press charges or file suit. After the >meeting, Momma contacted the School Board to request >that the Corporal Punishment Permission forms be >changed to no longer allow us to be spanked at school >and every year after that when the forms came out, she >would check no on the forms. > >I noticed all through childhood, boys were always >encouraged to "take it like a man" when the got >spanked. I always thought that was dumb. Spankings >hurt, why should boys have to hold in their emotions >when they get punished. I've never been a fan of Macho >B.S, I don't talk in here about spanking my kids, >because it's against the rules of the forum. But I >never expect my boys so not show emotion when they are >sad or in pain, whether they are sad, got hurt playing >or from a spanking. > >You're right about the difference in a spanking at >home and a paddling at School. For the most part, the >times I was spanked or paddled at School, the >embarrassment was much worse than the pain. My butt >was USUALLY completely covered and while the >spanking/paddling did hurt, it USUALLY was no where >near as painful as the bare butt spankings I got from >Momma or Daddy at home. The one I got from the >Assistant Principal and second time I was paddled by >the Girl's Gym Coach (left a little bruise on one >cheek) were the exceptions. > >That memory of the "paddling" I got from my Principal >in High School was funny and a special memory for me. >Four Senior girls were picked each year to be Office >Aids and I can honestly say I loved doing it. Other >than the fact I felt honored to have that position, I >liked getting out that boring study hall every day. He >was also fun to work for. He did tease me knowing I >was on that "do not paddle list" because I would be >"sassy" in a playful way and he'd threaten to get his >paddle, But that was all just a big running joke. So >when I came time to take the pictures I volunteered to >bend over the desk to be "paddled". I didn't know he >was gonna pop me on the butt. I thought he might just >lay the paddle against my butt or right behind it >where it would look like he was spanking me. So when >he really popped my butt, my expression was a mixture >of laughter and surprise. When I got my yearbook and >went back to him to sign it, I thought what he signed >was so sweet. When Momma saw the pictures in my >Yearbook, she laughed and said "Maybe he should have >raised up that skirt and gave you a real swat." To >which I yelled "MOMMMAAAAAAA". > >About the new Superintendent wanting to bring the >paddle back. That was a widely unpopular idea amongst >the parents. and none of the School Board Members were >in favor of it. But it had to go up for a vote. I was >happy when they banned it before my children were born >and I was pretty upset to hear they might bring it >back. So when they announced the open forum, I was one >of the first people to make a reservation to speak. I >not only talked about the bad experiences I had >though, I also talked about some of the not so bad >ones. The reason for that was letting people know, >you won't always know the real intention of someone >who is going to be spanking your kids. Why are they >doing it? Is it as a reminder to do better or is for a >more sinister reason? Do they really care about your >children or are they a sadistic individual who gets >off on having power over the helpless? At the end of >the Forum, three of the long time Council Members told >me they were going to vote no when the vote comes up >in a few weeks. With five members on the board as long >as three vote no then the vote would carry. I ended up >running into one of the newer board members and she >looked a little familiar to me. She told me she really >loved listening to what I had to say and was planning >on voting no. I thought she looked familiar but I >couldnt' place her. I asked if she went to school >here and what year she graduated. She graduated two >years after I did. She said, "You really don't >remember me do you?" I said, "I'm sorry Sweetie, look >familiar, but no... I can't place you." She said, "You >were Sonya G..... right?" I told her yes and she said, >"You married Mark B......" I was confused but said, >yes. She said, Well Mark lived across the street from >me and my Cousin Jeff is his best friend." I said, >"it's a small world". Then I asked why she looks >familiar. She said, "Remember before you graduated, >you had to talk to Coach W....... about a make up test >or something like that down in the Girl's Lockerroom?" >I said, yes she said, remember those two Sophomore >girls she was talking to at the time? Then it hit me, >You were one of those girls. She introduced herself by >both her Married and maiden name and said, "Yep, >that's me." She told me they had gotten into a >catfight in the showers over her boyfriend and the >coach paddled them. She told me they were naked at the >time they got in the fight and the Coach made them >bend over, lifted their towels and paddled their bare >butts. She asked me if I saw any of it. I told her no, >I stayed in the Coach's office while she paddled them. >I could hear everything but couldn't see anything and >that I ended up having a panic attack. She talked >about that day and getting in trouble at home too. But >what stood out was what she said about getting paddled >bare butt. She said, I got some bare bottom spankings >at home, but in all the time I got spanked at school, >that was the only time I got spanked bare. I really >liked the Coach, but after that, I could never look >her in the face again. I was totally humiliated. Even >now, if I see her in public somewhere, I'll talk to >her, but I still can't look her in the eye. I told her >what I had said, to the former Assistant Principal >who had beaten me, saying "I'm a Christian and I >forgive you for what you did to me, but I'll never >forget it." Then turning my back to him and walking >off. Anyway I was really pleased to know that she >and the fifth member all voted against bringing the >paddle back. The Superintendent wasn't happy, but, the >people have spoken. > >Thanks so much Brett for your kind words and comments >and if you have any other questions, please ask.

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