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Subject: Re: How were your parents/aunts/uncles/grands/ect. spanked? Author: Sonya [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 06:29:40 09/04/25 Thu In reply to: Trey_hi 's message, "How were your parents/aunts/uncles/grands/ect. spanked?" on 18:43:30 09/03/25 Wed I heard stories about Momma and Daddy's experiences on the receiving end of the spankings starting early on. As well as my Aunt Connie. Also, I found out about my overly strict Granny's religious and abusive upbringing. I'll start with Granny. She was one of five kids and Her Daddy was a hellfire and brimstone Baptist Minister and he ruled over his kids with a bible and a belt. He would whip for any little offense, and expected perfection. The kids were homeschooled and not only had to learn the basics of reading, writing and math but bible study as well. For example: they would each be given a passage from the KJV they had to memorize and Sunday after church once they got home, they would have to gather in their living room, and each child had to recite that passage verbatim. He would be looking at the passage as they recited it and If they got anything wrong, he made them undress in front of the others and take the belt that he had hanging on the wall in the hallway and would whip them black and blue. Granny's Momma was just as bad and her Daddy. She would whip the kids with a switch or the belt for anything and sometimes nothing at all from the way she described it. She also whipped them bare and make them bend over and would whip their lower back, butt and the backs of their legs so severely they would sometimes wind up bleeding. I believe her because I've seen the scars on her legs from some of the whippings. The shocking thing is she has often romanticized the beatings she got from her parents and she thought she deserved every beating she got. She married young, at fifteen, to an older man who was also very religious. He was a former Marine and worked in a factory at the end of his time in the service and he was a Deacon at her Daddy's Church. I'm not sure, but I think her Daddy may have actually arranged the marriage. She had Momma at seventeen and Aunt Connie two years later. There were no other kids because he died in a work related accident when Momma was five or six. She never remarried in spite of being pressured by her Daddy. In fact he gave her a whipping and threatened to disown her, not long before he was killed in a car accident, for refusing to marry another Deacon from the church. Granny was super strict with Momma and Aunt Connie and would often give them whippings with a willow switch or a belt. Momma and Aunt Connie both said there would be times she drew blood when she whipped them. She was impatient and she also had high expectations of them. She expected them to make all A's in school and would whip them even over a B. They had strict curfews and if she found they socialized with anyone she deemed was inappropriate, which included people of color, Catholics and non-religious people. She would whip their bare butts and legs with a switch. Momma and Aunt Connie, both had strong personalities and in their teens started pushing back against Granny which led to pretty frequent whippings. Momma met Daddy in High School and they married when she was eighteen. Granny opposed the marriage and gave Momma her last whipping a couple of days before the wedding. Momma took off her dress and panties and told her, "You better make this whippin' a damned good one Momma because it's the last one you'll ever give me and she did. Momma said she still had marks on her legs and butt when she walked down the Aisle. Aunt Connie left home at sixteen and moved in with Momma and Daddy. Daddy introduced her to Uncle Roy who was a childhood friend of his and they hit it off and got married when she was nineteen. Daddy had a pretty strict upbringing, But it wasn't an abusive one. I don't really remember much about his Momma, she died of cancer when I was a baby. Daddy talks about her a lot though, From what I hear while she was strict she was a really sweet woman and Momma thought the world of her. Daddy has often talked about her saying, she was a really sweet woman but if you got on her bad side, she would be as grouchy as a bear with hangnails. Momma was especially fond of Daddy Paul, Daddy's Daddy. He was a sweet man and I loved Papaw Paul dearly too. He would sometimes scold Momma for getting onto me when I was little. Telling her "Now sugar, she's just a baby, she'll learn." I remember going fishing with him and riding his horse while he walked me and my little brother around on him. Papaw Paul was the main disciplinarian of the family and would use a his hand or a belt on his kids. Daddy talked about having to drop his drawers and bend over the dining table to get his butt whupped. But his Daddy never whipped him or his siblings when he was mad. Always talking to them first before whipping them. Daddy also said his Momma spanked them with a switch on occasion but never really talked much about it. His Momma died of cancer and Papaw Paul died when I was five. I was heartbroken and Momma took it really hard too because to her, she was the Daddy she never had. With the strict and religious upbringings Momma and Daddy both had our upbringing was pretty strict too, but in spite of the abuse she endured from Granny, Momma has never been abusive. She never has used a switch or belt on us and never whipped us to the point of leaving bruises or anything other than a red butt that lasted for a few hours. Unlike Granny who would be deliberately cold after punishing you. Momma would always give you a little time to settle down and then come to talk and make up after spankings. She was the one who did most of the spankings since she was a stay at home Momma. Mainly because being a stay at home mom, she was the one who had to deal with our nonsense and she never relied on "wait till your Daddy gets home." Because she didn't think it was fair to make him blister our butts when he had to work all day, and more importantly, she never wanted us to fear him. Which would be hard to do, because next to my husband Mark, Daddy is probably the sweetest man that ever lived. Funny thing is, I dreaded spankings from him more than from Momma even though she spanked longer, harder and sometimes used a hairbrush instead of her hand. But I was always Daddy's "Baby Girl" and him having to spank me was pretty heartbreaking for both of us. But after a spanking he always came to my room to talk to me to make sure I was ok and would cuddle me up and make me feel better. By the way, Momma and Daddy spoil my and my brother and sister's kids absolutely rotten. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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Subject Author Date Re: How were your parents/aunts/uncles/grands/ect. spanked? Trey_hi 10:42:09 09/04/25 Thu Re: How were your parents/aunts/uncles/grands/ect. spanked? -- Sonya to Trey_hi, 21:32:08 09/04/25 Thu Re: How were your parents/aunts/uncles/grands/ect. spanked? -- Trey_hi, 12:29:26 09/05/25 Fri