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Subject: Babysitter Confession


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alexandra0000
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Date Posted: 12:11:33 09/01/25 Mon
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This forum remind me things I did when I was a Teen I was around 14, I used to babysit boys and secretly loved to take advantage bath time. I used to undress them slowly to make the embarrassed. I remember their faces scared especially the first time. I know they felt scared knowing a girl would see their little pennies... I wonder If other girls did the same I did back in the time...

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[> Subject: Re: Babysitter Confession


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Dim
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Date Posted: 12:18:26 09/01/25 Mon
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How old were the boys?
I don't think that boy under 5 or 6 would be shy at all so I guess that they were elementary school age?

I'm male so I can only relate this from the opposite point of view.

>This forum remind me things I did when I was a Teen I
>was around 14, I used to babysit boys and secretly
>loved to take advantage bath time. I used to undress
>them slowly to make the embarrassed. I remember their
>faces scared especially the first time. I know they
>felt scared knowing a girl would see their little
>pennies... I wonder If other girls did the same I did
>back in the time...

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[> [> Subject: Re: Babysitter Confession


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Alexandra0000
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Date Posted: 12:33:54 09/01/25 Mon
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Dim, I babysat a few boys between 5 and 11. I used to like to babysit my mother friend son while they went out because He was much close to my age. He used to be very embarrassed and his face would go red all the time while I used to undress him but I acted normal all the time I pretend I wasn't interested in see him naked but Of course I was.

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: Babysitter Confession


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Dim
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Date Posted: 12:41:36 09/01/25 Mon
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When I attended a summer camp as a 7-11 year old child the older girls washed us in a shower once a week and they also pretended it is usual and not interesting for them but of course it was not true because none of them refused to do it and they gave an all over wash regardless of our age rather than for an instance wash hair and back and just control everything else

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: Babysitter Confession


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scamptoo
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Date Posted: 10:03:32 09/02/25 Tue
Author Host/IP: 24.57.206.80

>Dim, I babysat a few boys between 5 and 11. I used to
>like to babysit my mother friend son while they went
>out because He was much close to my age. He used to be
>very embarrassed and his face would go red all the
>time while I used to undress him but I acted normal
>all the time I pretend I wasn't interested in see him
>naked but Of course I was.

What part did you enjoy the most, undressing him slowly and embarrassing him, or seeing him fully naked?

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[> Subject: Re: Babysitter Confession


Author:
sp
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Date Posted: 15:34:46 09/01/25 Mon
Author Host/IP: 72.78.201.247

Here's another nugget from my collectionL:

At the Australian children’s home in which Tonyforte grew up, the 11-year-old girls were responsible for bathing the the 5-year-old children of both genders, the 12-year-old girls for the 6-year-olds, and so on up until the 17-year-old girls bathing the 11-year-olds. 12-year-olds were trusted to take care of themselves.

Bath time was accompanied with motherly compliments such as "What a fine-looking young man you are!” "Let's get you nice and clean so you can be super proud of yourself."

The one-way deal was accepted without question by both genders. When newcomers complained, veteran residents would explain to them that “females are the natural care givers of our species, they give birth to humans of both sexes,” so “male nudity was . . . a given fact of life.”

On one rare occasion, a few boys sought to correct the injustice by sneaking a peak at the girls’ locker room. They were not harshly punished, but were delivered a message in the worship service the following Sunday morning. Here is the message as paraphrased by Tonyforte:

"Women deserve the respect, service, and protection of men. If we wanted to be considered adults, then we had to treat women with full respect, and that meant honoring their privacy.

"It is not the same for men because men are strong and can naturally protect themselves from unwanted coercion. But we could not consider ourselves gentlemen if we showed such a lack of respect for women as those boys showed. Women should be honored, for they are our caretakers. Women deserved total respect, and the full protection of men.

"Men can take care of themselves, but women need men to support them in all things, and that includes protecting all aspects of them, including their modesty. And as far as nudity goes, . . . women, being the sex that brings human beings, both male and female unto this planet, it’s not only no big deal for women to see men naked, but it is right and natural. It is their nurturing role that we honor by submitting to their loving care."

At some times, the young lad resented his feminine caregivers not for infringing on his modesty, but for dictating his dressing and grooming. They would sometimes cut his hair one way when he wanted it cut another way. They would sometimes tell him to wear one garment when he wanted to wear another.

Our young protagonist not only became accustomed to the lifestyle of the children’s home, but had some adjusting to do when a loving family took him in. One time, the womenfolk in his new family brought clean laundry into his bedroom when he was naked. They profusely apologized at first, but then realized that he saw no reason for them to apologize.

What most of us might value as privacy, Tonyforte dreaded as seclusion. He had his own bedroom, with no co-residents and no loving caretaker to watch over him. Even solitude in the bathroom was unpleasant for him.

By the same token, his foster family had difficulty in adjusting to his immodesty. Tony’s foster mother compromised by allowing him to leave his bedroom door open, but could he please keep the bathroom door closed.

So is it nature or nurture? Judging from this testimony, it might be nurture.

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[> [> Subject: Re: Babysitter Confession


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Dim
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Date Posted: 02:53:33 09/02/25 Tue
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It is an interesting setup because having several girl teams who gives a bath to the children of the different age groups doesn't seem to be optimal and reasonable. It would be more efficient to have one group of girls bathing all the kids who need this, regardless of the age gap. At least this is what the things were in my summer camp.
But of course the arrangement is much better for the boys because 6 year is a big gap which means no embarrassement for the boys.

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Gary
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Date Posted: 06:17:14 09/02/25 Tue
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I must be a rare case here. I was older than my sisters. When they were of the age they would be nude in the house I was eleven.
Happy to chat by email if anyone is interested.

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Jessica
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Date Posted: 07:14:13 09/02/25 Tue
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Gary how old was your sister? Did you enjoy seeing their pussies? You sister didn't mind you seeing her?

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Gary
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Date Posted: 07:56:54 09/02/25 Tue
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My sisters were six and eight years younger than me. They were too young to care.

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[> Subject: Babysitter Confession


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Brian
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Date Posted: 11:16:03 09/02/25 Tue
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I recall a time where I was 15 and I was asked to babysit a little girl(7) and her brother(4) These kids were well behaved and made my job easy. Near their bedtime I had them go into their rooms and get their pajamas on. This did not require any help from me. Afterward, the little girl was jumping on the bed in the guest bedroom wearing her nightgown, and dropped down into a sitting position while I watched her. She had her legs spread apart in front of me and I noticed the she did NOT have panties on! She gasped and covered herself with her nightgown, but I had seen her vulva already. She smiled a mischievous smile. Later that evening she was lying on the bed and her nightgown rode up over her crotch and I got to see her a second time. In hindsight, I'm sure she meant to do it that way. After all, how hard is it put on a pair of panties or not expose yourself? I remember going back to my house that evening and thinking "Lucky Me!"

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[> Subject: Re: Babysitter Confession


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Brian
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Date Posted: 13:50:24 09/03/25 Wed
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Alexandra0000,

Do you have a guilty conscious for this at all?

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[> Subject: Re: Babysitter Confession


Author:
Luis (Mayor)
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Date Posted: 09:55:52 10/27/25 Mon
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>This forum remind me things I did when I was a Teen I
>was around 14, I used to babysit boys and secretly
>loved to take advantage bath time. I used to undress
>them slowly to make the embarrassed. I remember their
>faces scared especially the first time. I know they
>felt scared knowing a girl would see their little
>pennies... I wonder If other girls did the same I did
>back in the time...
MI hermana nos bañaba a mi primo de 8 y a mi con 9, ella tenia 13. lo hacia siempre delante de sus amigas, les encantaba desnudarnos, metenos en la bañera
, enjabonar y despues se sentaba en el wc con la toalla y nos secaba sentados en sus rodillas, sus amigas se divertian mucho viendonos desnudos, estaban deseando que llegara la hora del baño. mi primo y yo lo pasabamos mal.

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[> Subject: Re: Babysitter Confession


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Jocasta
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Date Posted: 09:37:44 02/06/26 Fri
Author Host/IP: 51.158.254.169

When I was growing up, babysitting was not very popular in my place. Children were cared for in kindergartens and school daycare centers. When parents had to be away for work or other reasons, the children were taken to the homes of relatives or friends, who looked after them free of charge on a friendly basis. For a short time, children could also be left with neighbors. In such cases, the guest children had to adopt the rules and routines of the host families, and the guest children were treated as their own. Although nudity between children of different sexes was taboo, that of minors in front of adults was perfectly acceptable, at least from the adults' point of view. And since the mother was the one who took care of the health and hygiene of her children, the guest children had to put up with her care, which inevitably extended to their intimate areas.
Now that I work as a professional housceeper-nanny, I understand the huge advantage that girls who babysit benefit from, what I didn't have as a teenager. I'll never forget the excitement and childish jealousy I felt for my mother when she would go into the bathroom with my younger brother and older cousin to help them bathe and into the medical room for their medical exams later, when my cousin moved to live in our home instead of in the college dormitory where my aunt enrolled him.
It was probably then that my interest in this subject took shape, which explains my presence on this forum.

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[> [> Subject: Re: Babysitter Confession


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Sean
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Date Posted: 07:31:15 02/08/26 Sun
Author Host/IP: 76.195.201.31

When I grew up the oldest sister was the defacto nanny often. So sistuation was a girl 9-13 was my best friend in rural area when I was 10-14. We went everywhere together. Boys playing nude in summer was quite common back then and whenever I went over he was usually completely nude, sometimes playing with other boys. I would join him as that is how that house raised boys and after a few days it was not a concern like you might think. When we were at my house we did same thing too since used to it. AT home she would bath boys, at beach she would rinse them off, and at bathrooms she would aim him often. i did not think much of it at the time.

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spelvin
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Date Posted: 04:53:07 02/09/26 Mon
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Here are a few gleanings which I reaped from the 223876 forum before it was taken down.

It seems that teenage babysitters have enjoyed the sight of boys’ rumps.
Dave (2019) had a babysitter who frequently patted him on the bottom and told him that he had a cute butt.
Dennis (2019) had a teenage babysitter who said, “You boys have such cute little behinds.”

The forum contained stories of female babysitters of secondary school admiring the boys’ sex organs (Dolly 2018),
allowing sisters to watch their brothers in the bathroom but not vice-versa (Grant F. 2017; Myrah 2017; Phylis from Boston 2017; Eileen P. 2018),
keeping the boys nude (Davy Jones 2018),
inviting neighbor girls to come to the house and watch (Blake 2018),
handling the boys’ sex organs for their own jollies (Grant F. 2017; Myrah 2017; Davy Jones 2018; Martha 2018; Trish 2018).

()()()()()()()()

When René (2017) was 8 years old, her 13-year-old sister Doris babysat an 8-year-old boy.
There she got a splendid view of the boy’s anatomy.
When the boy protested, Doris merely told him that “boys always let girls see their pee-pees and he shouldn't be such a baby about it.”

()()()()()()()()

Robby (2021) grew modest somewhat younger than René:

“I was bathed by my babysitter who was a neighbor teenage girl till I was 11, nearly 12.
It never bothered me because it was normal for me and I actually enjoyed her attention and her soaped hands rubbing gently all over my naked body including my private parts.
I never saw it as sexual or embarrassing before age 11 but from that age I was beginning to be sexually aware and often erected while she was washing me down there.
I was beginning to feel embarrassed and asked her to let me bathe by myself which she did a little afterwards.
Many people . . . do not realize that most boys before that age enjoy being bathed by a caring and loving babysitter or someone they know well.”

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In at least one case, the mother in the family assisted the babysitter in enjoying the show.

Jessy (2021) wrote:

“I like babysitting boys a lot, well rather this boy I babysit along with her two sisters.
I’m 16 so it's my first family and the mother leaves me often with the kids.
The boy is 11 and she always leaves him naked for me, she says it's to make him more obedient and help me control him and not gonna lie.
It works.
He is super obedient and quiet since I got there and he’s embarrassed obviously to be naked in front of me or even his sisters.
They are 9 and 12 and both bring their friends over a lot lol.

“At first I felt a little pity you know he's so cute and he gets super shy about his dickie cause it's pathetically small tbh,
but now I confess I’m having fun every time I go.
His mother is kinda strict about erections and he's not allowed to touch his willy ever not even if it’s soft.

“I can make him keep his hands glued behind his head and her mother told me if he gets erect I can punish it.
It's happened lots of times but I'm not sure what to do about it yet.”

()()()()()()()()

Occasionally, we see a boy who realizes the implications of nudity in the presence of a girl and enjoys it.

Lois (2012) wrote:


“I sat a boy who always wanted some play time in the tub before soaping up.
“I knew that when he called me, he was ready for soaping. Often he would be standing, with a fully erect penis, as a result of his play time in the tub.
He was not trying to gross me out, he simple was a happy, feeling very good boy.

“Anyway, that was my experience.”

()()()()()()()()

Veronika (2019) saw all stages of the maturation process:

“Of course, as boys get older they tend to get more and more embarrassed and shy about taking their clothes off in front of a girl who is babysitting them.
(Of course, not long thereafter, that shyness disappears and most can't wait to strip for a girl!)”

()()()()()()()()

Tony (2018) went through the process of maturity, but he wasn’t quite consistent.
When he was 10 years old, he had to take a shower in front of a 13-year-old babysitter and her 10-year-old sister.
He was “totally exposed and shamed before them.”
On a later day, the babysitter brought two friends and Tony as again told to take a shower.
He “stood before all of them totally naked,” but “found this time very exciting. I was totally aroused.”

()()()()()()()()

Veronika (2019), whom we recently met, enjoyed her power:

“Ordering a boy (or, later in life, a guy for that matter!) to take his clothes off when he doesn't want to give you a sense of momentary absolute power and authority over them that they hate!
So, by all means, don't be afraid to look. You're just doing your job.”
but showed a little compassion:
“Never make a comment if the boy gets an erection, other than to put him at ease, if it's obvious he's utterly humiliated by his condition. ("It's o.k., sweetie. That happens."

“Also, don't be afraid to look at the boy.
If he observes you purposely avoiding any glance at all at his nakedness, he might think you are trying to avoid looking at him to avoid laughing.
Keep your composure, look once in a while (but by all means do NOT stare or touch) and keep reassuring him that it's quite natural for him to feel embarrassed ("I know you're embarrassed. But it's O.K. to feel embarrassed.).”

()()()()()()()()

Here’s a case of which even Veronika might disapprove.
Much against his will, Grant F. (2017) was bathed by his teen-aged babysitter. She took his penis between her fingers and used it for a puppet, shaking it while speaking a monologue.

()()()()()()()()

You may say, “It’s only teenage babysitters who can be so abusive. An adult woman would be more mature.
But apparently not. 32-year-old Annette (2018) wrote:

“I’m of the school of thought that a pedophile is someone who is driven to have actual sexual encounters of penetration or oral stimulation with kids.
If one includes widening the definition to merely enjoying publicly exposing, watching or even light fondling as pedophilia, I’d say the number of women who qualify closes the gender gap with men.
I choose to go with the prior definition.
I say this because both my sister and I thoroughly enjoyed toying with my nephew’s boy parts and seeing him blush when we made him show the resulting hard-ons to other people . . .”

She also normalizes her own behavior:

“For some reason women are viewed as having no sexual drive or curiosity at all when it comes to kids.
It is socially assumed that any physical contact made with children by a female is maternal and never driven by erotic enjoyment.
Nothing could be further from the truth.
We have curiosities and are capable of enjoying non-carnal contacts too.
There is no reason to assume that fondling, say, a twelve-year-old boy to cause him to erect wouldn’t be pleasurable to a woman.”

and again resorts to her convenient definition:

“The assumption always seems to be doing such a thing would be indicative of inviting intercourse.
But, it is my experience, assuming that is far from accurate.”

and makes a plea of benevolent despotism:

“I get off just on helping the boy experience some erotic pleasure simply from being aroused.”

and resorted to her convenient definition for a third time:

“I have no desire for anal or oral experiences nor do I expect any sexual contact from him under such circumstances. Maybe the best explanation is I think preteen boys running around nude with erect penises are cute, and I enjoy getting them to that state.”

A couple of other contributors were not willing to let Annette off the hook.
Jacquard (2018) commented on Annette’s convenient lexicography.
For Calvin (2018), it was not so pleasant at the other end of the deal.
When he was 8 years old, his 13-year-old babysitter stripped him naked, teased him about his erection, and bathed him in front of his 6-year-old sister.

()()()()()()()()

And finally, we reverse roles and talk about a male babysitter with female charges.

Douglas (2019) grew up openly gay. In his neighborhood, he found himself in high demand as a babysitter among parents of girls, but not among parents of boys.

He comments:

“I was exposed to girl nudity! But never boy nudity, never. I was queer!

“I would talk with moms as they changed the little girl’s diapers and never once did a mom get upset with me standing there as her daughter was totally exposed to me.
But if a baby boy was getting changed they couldn't get him in the house fast enough! Seriously!”

Apparently, then, it is all right for an older boy to see a younger girl if the older boy is not aroused.

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[> [> Subject: Re: Babysitter Confession


Author:
scamptoo
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Date Posted: 10:15:14 02/09/26 Mon
Author Host/IP: 24.57.206.80

>Here are a few gleanings which I reaped from the
>223876 forum before it was taken down.
>
>It seems that teenage babysitters have enjoyed the
>sight of boys’ rumps.
>Dave (2019) had a babysitter who frequently patted him
>on the bottom and told him that he had a cute butt.
>Dennis (2019) had a teenage babysitter who said,
>“You boys have such cute little behinds.”
>
>The forum contained stories of female babysitters of
>secondary school admiring the boys’ sex organs
>(Dolly 2018),
>allowing sisters to watch their brothers in the
>bathroom but not vice-versa (Grant F. 2017; Myrah
>2017; Phylis from Boston 2017; Eileen P. 2018),
>keeping the boys nude (Davy Jones 2018),
>inviting neighbor girls to come to the house and watch
>(Blake 2018),
>handling the boys’ sex organs for their own jollies
>(Grant F. 2017; Myrah 2017; Davy Jones 2018; Martha
>2018; Trish 2018).
>
>()()()()()()()()
>
>When René (2017) was 8 years old, her 13-year-old
>sister Doris babysat an 8-year-old boy.
>There she got a splendid view of the boy’s anatomy.
>When the boy protested, Doris merely told him that
>“boys always let girls see their pee-pees and he
>shouldn't be such a baby about it.”
>
>()()()()()()()()
>
>Robby (2021) grew modest somewhat younger than René:
>
>“I was bathed by my babysitter who was a neighbor
>teenage girl till I was 11, nearly 12.
>It never bothered me because it was normal for me and
>I actually enjoyed her attention and her soaped hands
>rubbing gently all over my naked body including my
>private parts.
>I never saw it as sexual or embarrassing before age 11
>but from that age I was beginning to be sexually aware
>and often erected while she was washing me down there.
>I was beginning to feel embarrassed and asked her to
>let me bathe by myself which she did a little
>afterwards.
>Many people . . . do not realize that most boys before
>that age enjoy being bathed by a caring and loving
>babysitter or someone they know well.”
>
>()()()()()()()()
>
>In at least one case, the mother in the family
>assisted the babysitter in enjoying the show.
>
>Jessy (2021) wrote:
>
>“I like babysitting boys a lot, well rather this boy
>I babysit along with her two sisters.
>I’m 16 so it's my first family and the mother leaves
>me often with the kids.
>The boy is 11 and she always leaves him naked for me,
>she says it's to make him more obedient and help me
>control him and not gonna lie.
>It works.
>He is super obedient and quiet since I got there and
>he’s embarrassed obviously to be naked in front of
>me or even his sisters.
>They are 9 and 12 and both bring their friends over a
>lot lol.
>
>“At first I felt a little pity you know he's so cute
>and he gets super shy about his dickie cause it's
>pathetically small tbh,
>but now I confess I’m having fun every time I go.
>His mother is kinda strict about erections and he's
>not allowed to touch his willy ever not even if it’s
>soft.
>
>“I can make him keep his hands glued behind his head
>and her mother told me if he gets erect I can punish
>it.
>It's happened lots of times but I'm not sure what to
>do about it yet.”
>
>()()()()()()()()
>
>Occasionally, we see a boy who realizes the
>implications of nudity in the presence of a girl and
>enjoys it.
>
>Lois (2012) wrote:
>
>
>“I sat a boy who always wanted some play time in the
>tub before soaping up.
>“I knew that when he called me, he was ready for
>soaping. Often he would be standing, with a fully
>erect penis, as a result of his play time in the tub.
>He was not trying to gross me out, he simple was a
>happy, feeling very good boy.
>
>“Anyway, that was my experience.”
>
>()()()()()()()()
>
>Veronika (2019) saw all stages of the maturation
>process:
>
>“Of course, as boys get older they tend to get more
>and more embarrassed and shy about taking their
>clothes off in front of a girl who is babysitting
>them.
>(Of course, not long thereafter, that shyness
>disappears and most can't wait to strip for a girl!)”
>
>()()()()()()()()
>
>Tony (2018) went through the process of maturity, but
>he wasn’t quite consistent.
>When he was 10 years old, he had to take a shower in
>front of a 13-year-old babysitter and her 10-year-old
>sister.
>He was “totally exposed and shamed before them.”
>On a later day, the babysitter brought two friends and
>Tony as again told to take a shower.
>He “stood before all of them totally naked,” but
>“found this time very exciting. I was totally
>aroused.”
>
>()()()()()()()()
>
>Veronika (2019), whom we recently met, enjoyed her
>power:
>
>“Ordering a boy (or, later in life, a guy for that
>matter!) to take his clothes off when he doesn't want
>to give you a sense of momentary absolute power and
>authority over them that they hate!
>So, by all means, don't be afraid to look. You're just
>doing your job.”
>but showed a little compassion:
>“Never make a comment if the boy gets an erection,
>other than to put him at ease, if it's obvious he's
>utterly humiliated by his condition. ("It's o.k.,
>sweetie. That happens."
>
>“Also, don't be afraid to look at the boy.
>If he observes you purposely avoiding any glance at
>all at his nakedness, he might think you are trying to
>avoid looking at him to avoid laughing.
>Keep your composure, look once in a while (but by all
>means do NOT stare or touch) and keep reassuring him
>that it's quite natural for him to feel embarrassed
>("I know you're embarrassed. But it's O.K. to feel
>embarrassed.).”
>
>()()()()()()()()
>
>Here’s a case of which even Veronika might
>disapprove.
>Much against his will, Grant F. (2017) was bathed by
>his teen-aged babysitter. She took his penis between
>her fingers and used it for a puppet, shaking it while
>speaking a monologue.
>
>()()()()()()()()
>
>You may say, “It’s only teenage babysitters who
>can be so abusive. An adult woman would be more
>mature.
>But apparently not. 32-year-old Annette (2018) wrote:
>
>“I’m of the school of thought that a pedophile is
>someone who is driven to have actual sexual encounters
>of penetration or oral stimulation with kids.
>If one includes widening the definition to merely
>enjoying publicly exposing, watching or even light
>fondling as pedophilia, I’d say the number of women
>who qualify closes the gender gap with men.
>I choose to go with the prior definition.
>I say this because both my sister and I thoroughly
>enjoyed toying with my nephew’s boy parts and seeing
>him blush when we made him show the resulting hard-ons
>to other people . . .”
>
>She also normalizes her own behavior:
>
>“For some reason women are viewed as having no
>sexual drive or curiosity at all when it comes to
>kids.
>It is socially assumed that any physical contact made
>with children by a female is maternal and never driven
>by erotic enjoyment.
>Nothing could be further from the truth.
>We have curiosities and are capable of enjoying
>non-carnal contacts too.
>There is no reason to assume that fondling, say, a
>twelve-year-old boy to cause him to erect wouldn’t
>be pleasurable to a woman.”
>
>and again resorts to her convenient definition:
>
>“The assumption always seems to be doing such a
>thing would be indicative of inviting intercourse.
>But, it is my experience, assuming that is far from
>accurate.”
>
>and makes a plea of benevolent despotism:
>
>“I get off just on helping the boy experience some
>erotic pleasure simply from being aroused.”
>
>and resorted to her convenient definition for a third
>time:
>
>“I have no desire for anal or oral experiences nor
>do I expect any sexual contact from him under such
>circumstances. Maybe the best explanation is I think
>preteen boys running around nude with erect penises
>are cute, and I enjoy getting them to that state.”
>
>A couple of other contributors were not willing to let
>Annette off the hook.
>Jacquard (2018) commented on Annette’s convenient
>lexicography.
>For Calvin (2018), it was not so pleasant at the other
>end of the deal.
>When he was 8 years old, his 13-year-old babysitter
>stripped him naked, teased him about his erection, and
>bathed him in front of his 6-year-old sister.
>
>()()()()()()()()
>
>And finally, we reverse roles and talk about a male
>babysitter with female charges.
>
>Douglas (2019) grew up openly gay. In his
>neighborhood, he found himself in high demand as a
>babysitter among parents of girls, but not among
>parents of boys.
>
>He comments:
>
>“I was exposed to girl nudity! But never boy nudity,
>never. I was queer!
>
>“I would talk with moms as they changed the little
>girl’s diapers and never once did a mom get upset
>with me standing there as her daughter was totally
>exposed to me.
>But if a baby boy was getting changed they couldn't
>get him in the house fast enough! Seriously!”
>
>Apparently, then, it is all right for an older boy to
>see a younger girl if the older boy is not aroused.

Interesting reading.

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