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Subject: Re: What is your favorite fantasy? Why? Author: spelvin [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 13:15:23 09/11/25 Thu Author Host/IP: 72.78.201.247 In reply to: spelvin 's message, "What is your favorite fantasy? Why?" on 07:26:27 09/01/25 Mon Part I: What is your favorite fantasy? Sub-topic A: A boy’s nudity is an item of curiosity for younger girls. In my latest message, Gloria could have a preschool sister. She hides from Wilbur when he first arrives, but slowly ventures out and handles his genitals. Amid Gloria’s stifled laughter and her mother’s stifled laughter, Wilbur smiles and says, “What’s that funny-looking thing, Janie? You got one of those? You don’t? Awww, that’s a darn shame!” A Brownie leader could ask an older boy as a guest for her Brownie troop. The boy arrives nude. In his presentation, he says, “Here is a picture of a penis with an arrow pointing to the shaft. Who can come up and show me where MY coronal ridge is? I think I’ll call on the girl with blonde hair. You’re right on the money! Now here’s a picture with the arrow pointing to the scrotum. Who can show the troop where MY scrotum is? The girl with the pigtails, I don’t think I’ve called on you yet. Ouch! Careful!” Sub-topic B: A boy’s nudity is an example for younger boys. You remember Gloria’s modest out-of-town cousins from the last message. The following summer, Gloria’s mother could invite Wilbur to come and meet those cousins, thereby servicing as a good example. A mother of an overly modest boy could hire an older boy as a babysitter, but only under the condition that the older boy arrive at the house nude. Part II: Why? Nudity could be a sign of shame and immaturity or a sign of pride and maturity. I don’t like stories about nude punishment or bare-bottom spankings because they reinforce the notion that nudity is a sign of shame. On the other hand, boys can be taught that their nudity can be associated with pride and maturity. Children look up to older people as examples of modesty and immodesty. Someone wrote to a Website that he remembered being impressed by a bare-chested cross-country team which ran past his house when he was a boy. One time, I was with a group of boys on a hot day. When I took my shirt off, the boys took their shirts off. Someone wrote to a Website that a girls’ volleyball team clamored for an order of halter tops and shorts because that was how they saw a women’s volleyball team dressed. Children also look to adult’s bodies as an item of curiosity. I once babysat a 3-year-old girl who enjoyed watching me urinate in the bathroom because the only male in her household was a baby brother in diapers. I have noticed a couple of times that when I dress immodestly, a child might place his/her hand on my skin to learn how it feels. Children have bodies whether the sexual abuse hysterics admit or not. And furthermore, children need to learn about bodies whether the seual abuse hysterics want them to or not. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: What is your favorite fantasy? Why? Author: spelvin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:23:10 09/12/25 Fri Author Host/IP: 72.78.201.247 Part I: What is your favorite fantasy? No school or camp should ever institute CFNM without beginning with a nice long talk to the girls. The girls should be told that the rule is being put in place with a heavy responsibility for everyone—the staff, the parents, the boys, and yes, even the girls. The girls are undoubtedly feeling insecure. For this reason, they will be encouraged to go in pairs. Rules of etiquette must be taught. There will be no ridicule and no teasing. The introductory talk could include some suggested conversation openers. A girl could soft pedal the boy’s nudity by complimenting him on his hair color or his eye color. A girl could put a boy at ease with a soft touch on his shoulder, on his back, or on his rump. If a boy is cupping his genitals, a girl could encourage him to show what he has to offer. Once the boy shows his ware, the girl should compliment him on how nice it looks. Part II: Why? As I have said before, nudity should be regarded as an essential part of children’s upbringing. It should be taught to children right along with academic subjects, physical fitness, and healthy habits. These other areas are not always pleasant for children, however. We sometimes have to explain to children why they have to do their homework, get plenty of exercise, and take their flu shots. The boys may see the girls giggling and screaming, but they may not be aware of the emotional overburdening which their nudity brings to the girls. When Jeannie S. first saw her 10-year-old and 13-year-old cousins, she had to restrain herself “not to jump up and down.” She wrote, “I was doing my best to control myself.” Furthermore, we must not assume that the phallic display is pure joy for the girls. Some of the girls would be embarrassed. It may be tempting to say, “Why? It’s the boys who are on display, not the girls.” Nevertheless, George, a veteran swimmer, wrote, “I did find that there were a number of girls who were horribly embarrassed about seeing naked boys and attended only one meet.” What I am proposing, however, is that the girls would see the boys nude every day. The girls to whom George is referring would not get off that easily. Boys need to go naked, and girls need to see boys going naked. Other girls see nude boys as unattractive. Sarah wrote: “I had seen little 5- or 6-year-old boys naked when I babysat them and bathed them and thought nothing if it. But I though seeing boys my age totally naked was gross and disgusting. I though the boys looked ugly with their penises hanging down for all to see. It was especially embarrassing to see my cousin totally naked. I thought he looked handsome in a swim suit but totally ugly naked. I never went to another swim meet again.” Sarah would not get off so easily either. That is another reason that this introductory talk is necessary. And finally, some girls might feel envious of the boys. This is what Thelma had to say: “As a young girl I felt my private parts were dumb looking compared to what boys had. We were blessed with our parts hidden inside so all we show is a split. It is not as exciting to look at as a penis. I never noticed any boys looking at me until well into high school when I developed breasts.” I'm sorry Thelma felt that way. Perhaps a few well-chosen words would put her mind at rest. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]