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Subject: Re: mixed gender nudity in locker room growing up
Author: Lucia
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] Date Posted:15:32:31 08/17/25 Sun Author Host/IP: 146.70.147.102 In reply to:
Lucia
's message, "Re: mixed gender nudity in locker room growing up" on 15:16:03 08/17/25 Sun
>>Of course I told her I was embarrassed with Martina,
>>but she downplayed it: "What's your problem? Where
>>does all this modesty come from?
>>How's your relationship with your female cousin? Do
>>your children even go naked in front of her? How did
>>that bath in her presence go?
>
>Your parents are partly right. You prepubescent
>children shouldn't have any modesty. Besides, she'd
>already seen you the first time, so there was nothing
>new to her. But since you were so humiliated and
>embarrassed, they could have left you naked on the
>beach even in her presence, but asked Martina to wait
>outside the bathroom door (which, I repeat, is a very
>private moment for me).
>That's what I would have done. I would have tried to
>make you understand that Martina could be there, that
>it was good for you and your psychological growth that
>she was there, but if you were truly humiliated,
>almost to the point of tears, I would have told her to
>wait outside. Did she ever tell you how she felt
>seeing you bathe? And did you tell Martina that you
>were embarrassed and that if she were truly your
>friend, she should have waited outside?
>
>They don't see each other very often because they live
>far away from us, in another province. But when they
>are together, they play and have fun. She had seen
>them naked, but they were younger. Then we often went
>to her house, so my kids were dressed (she lives in an
>apartment in the city, not the countryside). They came
>to our house for Christmas and Easter, but there my
>kids were dressed up.
>Last year they arrived at our house (one of the few
>times) but they were earlier than expected. I was
>still bathing the kids to prepare them for their
>arrival, and for a change, we were running late, so I
>was bathing them together. My brother-in-law and his
>wife came to say hello (my husband told them I was
>bathing the kids, but that they could come and say
>hello, that it wasn't a problem). They stopped at the
>door to say hello, but behind them was their daughter,
>Carlotta, who saw everything. Francesco immediately
>covered his penis with his hands, while Tommaso was
>more comfortable, partly because I was bathing him and
>he didn't have much room to move.
Matteo, I see you haven't answered me anymore... I guess you went to bed. It's late for me too; I have work tomorrow.
Have a good trip! And let me know how your vacation in Croatia goes!
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Date Posted:23:20:24 08/17/25 Sun Author Host/IP: 193.34.55.91
I wholeheartedly agree with Lucia. Children - especially prepubescent ones - should not be ashamed at all. We're all humans, we're all take baths and in my opinion there's absolutely nothing wrong with your friend being present during one, sweetie. ;)
Lucia is also right saying that is good for your psychological development.
Date Posted:13:07:40 08/18/25 Mon Author Host/IP: 185.107.56.221
>I wholeheartedly agree with Lucia. Children -
>especially prepubescent ones - should not be ashamed
>at all. We're all humans, we're all take baths and in
>my opinion there's absolutely nothing wrong with your
>friend being present during one, sweetie. ;)
>
>Lucia is also right saying that is good for your
>psychological development.
Hi Eliza.
I'm very pleased with your words.
Knowing that other mothers feel the same way I do is very comforting.
Thank you so much!
Also, knowing that you still bathe your children and that your sister-in-law still bathes her 13-year-old son makes me realize I'm doing the right thing.
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