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Subject: The Tables Have Turned!

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James

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Date Posted: 09:21:25 03/04/26 Wed

I have considered myself a dominant for most of my life. In all of previous relationships, I have been the spanker.

Around 4 or 5 years ago, I started fantasizing about receiving a spanking. There was no triggering event, it just sort of came on. At first, I kept this bottled up. That was pretty easy to do, for the most part I still liked being the one doing the spanking. When I did explore, I did it solo with self spanking.

I was very honest when I first started dating Katie with my desires. I explained that I wanted to be the one in control most of the time, but I also wanted to explore switching, which she was fine with. However, we went awhile without switching.

Roughly 6 months ago I asked Katie if she would be willing to spank me. She was VERY hesitant but didn’t give me an outright no. I respected her boundaries but left the space open for further discussion. Some time passed and she revealed to me that she was not saying no, but just didn’t want to explore that anytime soon.

Recently, we were both in a very good mood and I decided to open up a dialogue about it again. This time, I was successful! We had our first session that night. I wanted to ease her into it, so I had her spank me over the pants and just focus on finding a rhythm. The next session was a few days later-that one was bare and I had her focus on the actual technique, with warmup and focusing on the sit spots.

I am pleasantly surprised by Katie’s ability to give a spanking. Both sessions were long, 15 or 20 minutes, and she’s not afraid to smack hard.

My plan is to keep exploring with her. Eventually, I would like to do specific role play scenarios where I completely give over control to Katie. I want them to include scolding, obeying commands, possibly corner time. I have no interest in DD with me as the submissive, and want to keep it confined to role play with clear cut starting and end points. That said, I will definitely be easing her into the idea and don’t want to put too much on her all at once.

I am open to all comments, questions, and advice!

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