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Domestic Discipline Chat
DOMESTIC DISCIPLINE CHAT

Welcome to Domestic Discipline Chat! The purpose of this forum is to discuss domestic discipline (including CDD) used by loving couples. Please note the following:
1. The focus of discussion is discipline used by married couples or equivalent (domestic partners, long term relationships, etc.), whether M/F, F/M or F/F.
2. The discipline must be consensual. Consent is not required every time discipline is administered so long as both parties have consented (explicitly or implicitly) to the discipline regime. Abusive relationships are beyond the scope of this forum.
3. Ideally only real life experiences should be discussed, but no one should be surprised if some fantasies get posted. But come on folks, please at least keep your fantasies within reason!
4. The focus of this forum is discipline of ADULTS by ADULTS. However, incidental discussion of discipline involving children will be permitted so long as the focus remains on adult discipline. And while discussion of sexual aspects involving adults is fine, such matters involving children must be avoided.
5. PLEASE POST AN INTRODUCTION!!!
Subject: Adult Siblings


Author:
Jo
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Date Posted: 21:31:06 02/08/26 Sun
Cara and I have similar living arrangements with adult brothers, without being involved in domestic discipline ourselves.

Is there anyone who has a disciplinary arrangement with their adult sibling?

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Subject: My Story


Author:
David
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Date Posted: 16:59:58 04/15/26 Wed
My name is David and I am a white guy from the Midwest. During my mid-20’s at a large university I met a fellow graduate student beautiful girl from India, Sari, and we got together. In her culture women are expected to run the home. Delightfully, our sex life included impact play which we both enjoyed.
After we got married, there were a series of small everyday irritations. At some point she said, “I really wish I could spank you hard the way my mother used to spank me.” I responded, “Well, I wasn’t spanked growing up but believe me, you often make me feel the same way.”
So we reached a deal. We set forth a series of rules for each of us. Then we meet once a week to see if there have been any violations, or if any rules need to be added. If warranted, and this has actually been happening less and less over the years, we schedule a punishment session or two.
We try to keep the ritual for those the same regardless of who is doing the spanking. The one to be punished wears a bathrobe with nothing underneath. And carries in a pair of tight boxers. (S)he is told to remove the bathrobe and gets warmed up by hand OTK. Then (s)he is told to assume whatever position the punisher orders and (s)he uses as many implements and for as long and hard as desired.
Fortunately, because of our experience with erotic play (which continues) each of us has pretty good insights into the other’s limits and emotional reactions and is willing to trust the other person to do the right thing in the punishment context.
When the punishment session is over, the punished one is told to pull on the briefs and the bathrobe. We hug. The slate is wiped clean. And we move on, often together to the shower.

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Subject: Mass Paddling


Author:
Ava
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Date Posted: 08:49:22 03/19/26 Thu
This past weekend my husband paddled all five of our children on their bare bottoms. I also was paddled in the privacy of our bedroom. It seems that my husband feels that the children are all getting lazy and not doing their chores properly. I am the blame for their laziness. He made all five of the children bare their bottoms and stand in line. He then at random called one of them up to him and over his knee and he paddled their bottoms with 25 swats. they all were sobbing before he even got to 15 swats. they were then made to go face the wall. Once he was finished spanking them, I was told to go get ready for my spanking. I not only received 25 swats with the paddle I also received 10 swats of the strap then I was sent sobbing to face the corner. He said that until further notice he will be paddling all five of the children and me every Saturday morning until he sees an improvement in their chores and behavior.

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Subject: Seeking female who wants a domestic discipline relationship Alabama


Author:
Brett D (dbdsupvic@hotmail.com)
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Date Posted: 18:33:46 03/16/26 Mon
I'm in Alabama. I'm looking for a female who wants to be in a domestic discipline relationship. I'm an experienced Dominant Spanker Man. I use my hands and wooden brushes and leather belts and wooden paddles. Please message me on here and email me dbdsupvic@hotmail.com

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Subject: For Ava


Author:
Lisa S
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Date Posted: 13:33:37 03/12/26 Thu
Ava
Mom of three grown daughters, I raised with spankings.
If you would like to discuss your children's spankings please email.
Lisa S

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Subject: Having trouble sitting this morning


Author:
Kat
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Date Posted: 08:46:13 03/08/26 Sun
Definitely having trouble sitting this morning, I squirmed all through breakfast. Last night I did something really unlike me, or at least unlike my new me since I met Travis. We were having dinner with a couple we are close with, they are in the lifestyle and I adore them. His wife and I are friends but definitely have a little rivalry at times. We were having dinner at home and I made a really catty comment about her dress, I knew it was a mistake I think even while I was saying it. The room just went still. To make it worse her husband had bought it so it was obvious they were less than pleased, after a very uncomfortable silence Travis just said we will take care of it after dinner. I finished in absolute dread. We cleared the table and I apologized to Heather in the kitchen, she said she forgave me and gave me a kiss but said glad she wasn’t me right now. When we walked out in the living room they were already in the den, it’s not like I didn’t know what that meant. We walked in and I got the look that says everything. I undressed and folded neatly and waiting for Travis to sit down so I could get over his knee but he didn’t, that’s a really bad sign. When it still didn’t happen I already knew and got on all fours. My position is chest on the rug and bottom high, knees apart. Travis handed Heather the paddle, the way she put her hand on my lower back she was definitely telling me it would be ok, but that didn’t stop her from turning my bottom red with so many swats. I was crying already. It’s a thin plastic paddle so it definitely moves fast and stings. It wasn’t that bad I thought but after she got up I felt her husbands Dean’s hand brace himself on my back. I looked back and he had my hairbrush, and my already red bottom took a long string of hard swats. I was begging now, when he was done I was to sobbing. I felt Travis’s hand rub my back, he told me about inviting guests to your home and why this was happening. Then he used the brush in slow hard swats. My energy was gone. I didn’t get corner time after but Travis held me which felt like heaven. I really learned allot about keeping my mouth to myself sometimes.

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Subject: Intro


Author:
Ava
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Date Posted: 07:54:50 03/10/26 Tue
My husband and I have been in a DD relationship for 24 years. He is the head of household and does all the discipline to our 5 children and me. Our children are girls 15, 13 and 10 and boys 14 and 12. He believes in FTO for my children and me. The children are spanked in front of the family, and I am spanked in our bedroom. Spankings for all of us are given OTK on bare bottoms and thighs with hand and paddle. It seems that one of the children is spanked during the week if not more of them. The children know that I to receive spankings. They hear but do not see. I average a spanking about every two to three months.

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Subject: This Is What I Was Scared Of


Author:
Julia
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Date Posted: 09:59:17 03/23/26 Mon
I wrote a while back about my apprehension to confess to something Bryan had been spanked for that I, too, was guilty because I knew Mom would insist I be spanked too and that it would mean she would feel empowered to spank me in the future. Well, I wasn’t wrong. And this morning I received my third spanking from her and the first one where I was the only one spanked.

Bryan left early for work and Mom and I left to take my sister to the airport to fly back home. She had asked before we left if I had any plans today and I told her I didn’t. She asked me not to make any and I honestly didn’t think much about it. After leaving my sister at the airport, we got into the car and she quickly changed her tune and said we needed to talk. Even in your 20’s, when your Mom uses your middle name, it still scares you!

The day before my sister arrived, she was readying the guest room for her to use and she asked me if I would take her credit card and go get a new comforter and sheets for the bed. I told her I would and did. The only problem was that I also bought myself something. I knew I should’ve asked and it was stupid but it didn’t cost that much and I didn’t figure she’d even know.

As soon as she started asking me about my trip to the store, I knew she knew. I admit, I was embarrassed as she drove us home and interrogated me. I confessed to what I had done as it was clear she already knew. She didn’t say anything for a bit and I could tell she was thinking about it. She was obviously upset with me. As we turned into our neighborhood, she said, “you know we’re going to address this, right?” All I could say was, “yes ma’am.”

When we got inside, she told me to park myself on the couch. She came back a few minutes later with her paddle. She lectured me about doing what I was told and how what I had done could be considered stealing and about being responsible. Then to finish, she threw in that at my age we shouldn’t be having to do this. I wanted to argue but what can you say???

When she was done, she made me stand up and drop my jeans and panties and I laid across her lap. She absolutely blistered my butt until I was bawling my eyes out and begging her to stop. She then sent me to the corner to stand for fifteen minutes. I now have a list of chores to complete today to earn back the money I spent. I did manage to text Bryan and tell him and he thought it was hilarious. I think he enjoys not being the only one under her control. This was not the start to the week I had planned!

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Subject: My wife and I practice DD


Author:
Scott
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Date Posted: 12:46:14 04/04/26 Sat
My wife was raised with strict discipline, where spanking was NOT a punishment of last resort. She didn't like the frequent and sound spankings she got as a girl (what kid would?), but she grew to appreciate them as a young adult. Fortunately, she didn't hesitate to enter into a DD relationship when we got married. It has worked well for us for more than forty years!

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Subject: LDS


Author:
Penelope
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Date Posted: 20:12:10 03/14/26 Sat

Interesting forum. I can relate with other spanked wives. I’m an old lady now but at 18-yrs-old I was married off to a 40-yr-old man from our church. We are Latter Day Saints and I was his second-wife.
First wife was 33 (I think) and they had a son and daughter. I was raised with bare bottom spankings at home but I was a little surprised to learn my new husband spanked EVERYBODY in the family.
Long story short, I experienced many types of spankings and so did First Wife. We were spanked/paddled/caned bare or nude. Not in front of the kids but in front of each other or together.


At first I was mortified and hated getting spanked, especially in front of her, and even watching her spankings was uncomfortable for me. The cane was wicked bad. I’d been belt spanked a few times from dad but usually across my bed for a dozen or so licks.
But canings were drawn out affairs naked and in various positions. The cane burned mercilessly and left throbbing marks.

I was a virgin, completely naive about sex but soon I realized spankings were a sexual thing for my husband and his wife. They brought me along slowly but inevitably I also developed sexual response to spankings. I can honestly say I’m grateful for their mentoring but I understand such a life isn’t for everyone.

Anyone else have more than one adult involved in Domestic Discipline?

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  • Re: LDS -- Diana, 13:45:02 03/16/26 Mon
  • Re: LDS -- Voyeuristic to Penelope, 14:08:50 03/16/26 Mon
  • Re: LDS -- Paul, 19:37:21 03/16/26 Mon
    • Re: LDS -- Mary, 11:01:56 03/17/26 Tue
      • Re: LDS -- Rory, 13:41:15 03/17/26 Tue
        • Re: LDS -- Penelope, 12:38:39 03/20/26 Fri
          • Re: LDS -- Rory, 13:34:32 03/20/26 Fri
          • Re: LDS -- Arthur, 16:34:50 03/23/26 Mon
            • Re: LDS -- Penelope, 13:24:48 03/25/26 Wed
              • Re: LDS -- Arthur, 13:36:48 03/25/26 Wed
                • Re: LDS -- Mary to Penelope, 08:24:48 03/27/26 Fri
                  • Re: LDS -- Penelope, 19:09:55 03/30/26 Mon
                    • Re: LDS -- Mary, 22:18:41 03/30/26 Mon
                      • Re: LDS -- Penelope, 10:21:09 04/03/26 Fri
                        • Re: LDS -- Mary to Penelope, 20:26:47 04/07/26 Tue
  • Re: LDS -- Kev, 21:07:33 04/12/26 Sun
Subject: Our Story


Author:
Ethan
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Date Posted: 14:05:18 03/20/26 Fri
Hi, my name is Ethan. I’m 25 and married to my wife, Leslie, who is also 25. We practice Domestic Discipline but unlike most, it’s me who is spanked for discipline.

It started two years after we got married. We were still adjusting to life together and admittedly, I had gotten a little lazy. It drove my wife crazy who is very type A. I’m bad at procrastinating and she often would get tired of waiting and do things herself. We had had several arguments about it.

I grew up with just my Mom and she didn’t hesitate to spank me if I misbehaved or was disrespectful. One night, while eating dinner, my wife was half joking, half being serious about me not doing things that I said I was done and Mom joked with her that when I did that to her, she would spank me. I cringed when she said that.

Nothing else was said until a week later when I completely forgot to do something she needed me to do. She was so mad and started lecturing me about how tired she was of me not doing what I was supposed to. She threw out that my Mom was right that I did need a good spanking. She stormed off and left me with the silent treatment.

I felt bad because I knew I had messed up and really hurt her. I felt terribly guilty. So after a long night of no sleep and a lot of thinking, I sat her down and apologized and promised I would do better. When she asked why she would ever believe that after I had promised it multiple times, I told her she could spank me. I thought she was going to keel over.

After her initial shock, she asked how Mom had done and I explained to her the process. After a lot of talk that day, she gave me my first spanking in about 7 years. I’ll confess that I really thought it was going to be pretty easy but she really lit my butt on fire. By the time she finished, I was teary eyed and apologizing profusely.

We’re now a year in and she’s perfected her spanking methods and I’ve received my fair share of spankings. As embarrassing as it is to admit, she always brings me to tears. I always freak with dread when she tells me I’ve earned a spanking. Her arsenal includes a paddle and a belt, both of which are awful. We’re equals until I’m in trouble and then I have to call her ma’am and do as I’m specifically told. She won’t hesitate to wear my butt out if she things I deserve it.

Thanks for the forum!

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Subject: If a woman wants a DD friend


Author:
Kev
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Date Posted: 20:55:30 04/12/26 Sun
Hello. I have many years experience with the domestic discipling of women.
I mentor select women from time to time. Plus my gf's.
There might be some women who would like to have a confidential friend for understanding, emails, etc.
Some of my online lady friends do corner time for me.
They share with me that it helps them.
I'm in Southern Cal. We never know. A close friendship could lead to something wonderful. Who knows?
I am very safe and caring.
So don't be shy. I am very understanding and confidential.

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Subject: About me


Author:
Brett D (dbdsupvic@hotmail.com)
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Date Posted: 19:53:48 04/06/26 Mon
I'm an experienced Spanker. I've been spanking and paddling females for 30 years.

I love roleplaying school paddlings, giving school style paddlings.

Every female I've ever spanked with my bare hands have all said I spank hard. I have bruised females' butts by just spanking with my bare hands. I can also give light spankings too. I spank only the way the female wants it to be done - hard or light. I can also use wooden brushes and wooden paddles and a leather belt.

I have always wanted to spank and paddle females. I thought something was wrong with me. I considered ending my life. All guys wanted to have sex with females while I wanted to spank and paddle females. I had no idea what was wrong with me.

Then I found out that it has a name. I have always wanted females to not feel bad for wanting to be spanked. I've thought those bad thoughts. I want females to know that it's okay to feel that way. I respect a female for allowing me to spank her. The respect has to be both ways. The trust has to be both ways.

What I always say, is that not everyone can handle being the person in control. Millions of examples of that include people in law enforcement who should not be in control, people such as Coaches, Principals, Teachers, and others who should not be in control.

You want someone who is experienced and who knows what they are doing. Someone who knows how to do it correctly and how to do it wrong, so they don't do it wrong. There is a correct way to do it and there is a wrong way to do it. If someone doesn't know what they are doing and/or does it wrong, then it can cross the line in to abuse. Nobody wants that. That's the main difference between a real Dominant person and someone who just says they are Dominant. A real Dominant person such as myself respects the person they are spanking and only spanks them the way they want to be spanked.

I have unfortunately known a lot of females who let the wrong person spank them and it crossed the abuse line.

Once that happens, the female is usually against it and never tries it again - not even with a real Dominant who knows what they are doing.

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Subject: Females interested in school style paddlings


Author:
Brett D (dbdsupvic@hotmail.com)
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Date Posted: 02:44:06 04/05/26 Sun
Any females who want to experience a realistic school style paddling, please message me.

Brett
dbdsupvic@hotmail.com

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Subject: Excitement?


Author:
Lara
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Date Posted: 10:25:45 01/17/26 Sat
Does it happen that you get moist when you are spanked, even if it is an actual punishment that has nothing to do with sexuality?

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