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Date Posted: 04:02:59 04/26/02 Fri
Author: vonne
Subject: Re: Please help- am going crazy
In reply to: Jane 's message, "Please help- am going crazy" on 11:03:08 03/26/02 Tue

Hi,
Maybe I can help youout here.I am a 39 year old mum.I was reasonably happily married to a man for 14 yrs have two beautiful boys 14 &10.I gave that all away for a man in the USA .I was so caught up in the online romance that i went to meet him admittedly he is a loving caring man, but in the process ruined everything else in my life. I ended up getting divorced from my hubby of 14yrs, and my boys are with him still. I married this man that I met on the net as I felt we could make it work and i had lost everything anyway.We have been married a year now and i have been trecking back and forth to states and then back to Australia to see my kids I cant live without them and you will probably be the same.Make this man come to you, i wish I had have done that.YOur child should be everything to you, dont make the same mistake as me because now I am heading back to australia on my own he was going to come so many times but now I have spent all of my divorce money$25,000 on trips here to get him to come to Aussie land,and now i realise that what I thought was a beautiful romance and still is for him is not working for me.I realise that my kids are the most important things in my life, and eventually no mother cn be without her kids it breaks you inside believe me make him come to you DO NOT GIVE UP YOUR RIGHT TO YOUR CHILD. He needs you.I just hope I have been of some use.I am heading home to Australia to try to get my life back together and my boys.The man I met online just still thinks that we are going to be together he cant accept anything else so will; address it when I get back.I know how you are feeling you probably will make the same mistake as I(even though this man I met online loves me dearly I dont feel the same anymore it has taken its toll on me)I know you will probably do what you like anyway but please listen to someone who wishes she could take back what she has done.Take good care bye, and good luck

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