Subject: i don't mind your teeth at all...(long post ensues) |
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medeis
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Date Posted: 00:05:52 04/28/01 Sat
In reply to:
delena
's message, "*totally grinning, don't mind the sharp gargoyle teeth*" on 23:20:31 04/27/01 Fri
well i am awfully sorry about your circle. i am not sure what kind of circle you were in, but it really doesnt matter. the point is it is hard when you try to explain something deeply felt to be met with a stone wall. i think it is good that you explained yourself though, at least you did it! despite the way it ended, you have had your say and that must have made some impact.
if the circle is so inflexible anyway, maybe they are stagnating. i don't know if these are people in real life, or internet people. real life circles, cliques are a little different because there is more movement, more emotive expression available. internet circles, cliques, boards are inherently less flexible. it is the medium. the medium infects the mind. the internet satisfies an incredible drive to be close to people in an anonymous way. but you never know what is real. i guess what i am trying to say, is that in the setting of a written relationship, it is all too easy to ignore what the person is really saying (i.e. for your friend to not really listen to your point of view). easy enough in real life, and much easier when the interaction is limited to emoticons and the alphabet.
you may end up crying, but i hope you wont cry for long. it's time to move on obviously. i think you have a great spirit and i look forward to knowing you better. i am sure there are other people who would feel the same way...and other boards, (circles?) too.
you are a gargoyle. you have much to teach. maybe it is good you are out of your circle. maybe it is time for you to teach others. i for one have already learned alot, yet i know i have only skimmed the surface. (deep waters...see i was listening!)LOL!
stay bright and brilliant, as i know you to be.
(sorry my posts take so long...i am a slow writer. and i am cruising on other boards. i am around for a little while, but then off to bed in about a half hour. it's 3am here.)
adieu for now
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