DUN AGREE!!! -- 98s13

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Subject: DUN AGREE!!!

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xiaoqi

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Date Posted: 09:21:45 07/18/03 Fri

I dun agree with jieying. To me, Vinc sounds quite self centred. I think it is not" Strong to know what you want" but too self centred to changed. After all, Hua did not ask for a big change in his lifestyle but only some attention and concern. That is something you can even get from your close friends so if your partner can't even fulfil this, how can he be someone who is going to share your life? We are talking about sharing your life, not living together like 2 seperate entities. If want to live together like 2 seperate entities, you dun need to have a boyfriend, just get a housemate. I know ppl always think i dun wan to change myself to accomodate other ppl and so i dun wan other ppl the change themself to accomodate me too. But it is hardly possible since hardly any couple is totally complementary. A bit of change and accomodation is always needed.
But anyway, i agree that Hua should just put him behind and look for someone more suitable.

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