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Date Posted: 08:00:17 02/25/03 Tue
once or twice i oso didnt reply to the outings they org, coz not shou at all, i have to wait for other shou ppl's reply, so in the end u dun reply, he dun reply avone waiting for each other's reply, in the end no one reply.
sometimes i oso sick of planning, there will b a few goondo dat will keep nagging u to plan outings, saying very very long no outing liao, but when u plan, the majority keep saeing this dae cannot, dat dae cannot, mayb cannot, in the end, the date changed 5 or 6 times, juz to maximise the attendence.
sometimes it is not the trouble of planning, contacting ppl n their timings dat is fustrating, it is the unconfirmation, this dae cannot, dat dae cannot, next next week too early to confirm, etc. waluo, if is like dat they plan la.
heng we r oni a small group, if can make it we all sure go one, unless super booked or buz ya? jieying, dun b bothered wif them la, they dun wan treasure their days wif the blk ppl, choosing only their clicks to go out, lazy to make new friends, let them b, dun upset ur mood n take trouble organising. i oso lazy org for DSO ppl.(last time i planed lao yu sheng, n some other outings) obviously got diff clicks, i tried to arh wif the other click they oso abit buay hiu buay hiu me. mass outing oso they tok to themselves oni. they cant b bothered to mix at all,so antisocial. at most i org the things my click like, n b antisocial to the other grp. (they cu yi, i si wu, rarely ppl outcast me one la,ha, they all r ntu)
one of my collegue told me: he dun believe in friends forever, a person need a few good friends can liao. (he quite AS one) u all believe so? dan he ask me how come go out avdae, meet so mani friends, wats the pt, how come i still go out wif sec 2 friends.
strange analogy he has. y avoid someone who really wanna b ur friend ? dink he tired of the process of introducing himself to other strangers, going all over again knowing a stranger very well. dink his theory is dat i am now his friend, but after work muz sae bye to him, we will never meet again, ha.
conclusion, diff b have diff view of seeing new friends, some juz wanna keep their own firends n lazy make new friends, scared of the unfamiliar faces, the loneiness being wif ppl they dun know much, tehrefore if tehir "friends" dun come for outings, they dun give face to organiser n wun turn up for outings, xi guan ju hao. u never noe, mayb u r one of them who dun give face once a while, ha. people r so different, so interesting anit they?
aniway, hope most understand wat im toking abt, ha, im gald we r still so close, mayb this board do help, we all noe each other lastest updates n feelings. but it is the effort of everone too, i have other message board that stops after a while. we never noe when we will live till, so treasure everything we have now, health, friends, parents, relationship, opportunity, youth, etc. there may never b next life, juz life our life to the fullest,n treasure our friendship. friends definitely r forever!
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