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Date Posted: 06:31:53 04/03/02 Wed
Author: Bill
Author Host/IP: 152.163.201.179
Subject: To Rhonda
In reply to: Rhonda K 's message, "One of the main reasons...I get so sad!" on 01:35:05 04/03/02 Wed

I truly wish you the peace you deserve, and I so understand where you're coming from in regards to employment. It was difficult enough with the immense pressures moving, but when I got here and things fell through with the temp agency and I found myself pavement pounding day after day after day and watched my finances evaporate, then car breakdowns on top of that, that depression had me in a grip.
And I took a dive down the ladder, I bussed tables at Chille's restaurant for a dirt poor wage and minimal tip share just to barely keep my car and the roof above my head.
Heck, if it weren't for Scott and Sandy, there would have been days I didn't eat.
Sandy gave me a boost by sending resumes out, thanks to her, I scored an interview at the doctor's office I now work at. The stress is HIGH and it leaves me time with little else at all during the week, but atleast it keeps me busy. Otherwise, I'd think too much.
I'm happy to see you still have that faith deep inside you and what I'm saying is that things are SLOWLY improving with me, I know they will with you too. Keep that faith.
I really did lose hope and Scott told me it's a process getting it back, I had to start with just "going through the motions" and building from there, which I'm doing. I'm also trying to get out and enjoy things in life, last weekend I did the absolute "American" thing-hotdogs and coke at a baseball game! It's ok to hide underneath the covers, also when you feel up to it, find something you enjoy and go for it!
Give yourself credit, you still see light at the end of the tunnel, so you've already won a large part of the battle!
I wish I had easier answers for the tragedy you endured with the loss of your loved one, I can only imagine what that grief is like, but know I lend my support and many MUHS, friend.
Love in friendship,
Bill

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