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Date Posted: 17:15:21 05/04/02 Sat
Author: Karren
Author Host/IP: HubX-mcr-24-95-111-59.midsouth.rr.com / 24.95.111.59
Subject: Sick of judgemental family member

Toosh, I am so glad that you said I could vent here...cause I have a major dilemna. I am riba-raging right now with my mother who seems to think that it is in her power to be judgemental with me about something that happened 30 years ago, how I caught this dragon. Now 30 years later when I need her emotional support (never asking for financial) and spiritual support, she won't even visit, because she seems to think she is going to catch this God-awful disease just by drinking from the same glass; as if tx isn't hard enough. She also wants my docs phone number and feels it is within her right and power to second guess everything I tell her. She will e-mail my other half asking how I really am doing after she has talked to me on the phone. She will also tell me that I shouuld be feeling better now that I am into my 3rd month of tx, even though I have developed anemia and copd, she will also ask her family practitioner about my tx even though I have explained it to her. In essence she is either in denial or just does not believe me or TRUST ME!!!! Well just let me call the WAAAAAAAAAAAMBULANCE, I feel she should address her own alcohol and substance abuse issues from up to 1 year ago and quit second guessing me. Feeling like Rosannaannnadanna from Saturday Night Live and looking like Linda Blair possessed, maybe I should just say "Never Mind" and get on with it.

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