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Date Posted: 08:29:06 06/16/02 Sun
Author: tbear21441
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Re: When will God hear me?
In reply to: Lori 's message, "When will God hear me?" on 18:42:14 01/11/02 Fri

>Hi, sis I don't mean to be offences but your size is not your problem any order to be loved you have to know how to love and that began with oneself self acceptance love yourself I can said this simply because the best loving ive ever had came from my grandmother who also was a big woman all her life but a loving and care person in heart that taught me a great deal by example never mention a word who demanded and recieve respect an now 42 years later iam still looking for that in the woman someday i hope to have in my life. you have nothing to prove just be proud and thankful for what you have. personlly FF woman are not like all men we just want some one that good for us like you
>Where is God? I am feeling that He cannot hear me. I
>am so sad right now. Like many other full figured
>sisters out there, I want to be loved. Yes, I know
>that God loves me, but a lot of the times I want
>someone in the physical form who will love me for me
>whether I am big or small. I cry sometimes because I
>feel fustrated as to why almost all of my life that I
>have been obese and that life has been so hard for me.
>I have had men to treat me like the crap. I know that
>I am beautiful in my own way. I have a pretty face and
>importantly a pretty heart.I realize that I am not
>going to be a size 6, but trying to lose weight to be
>more healthier is a problem. I pray and pray, but it
>seems that God won't hear my prayer. Sometimes, I
>think God is punishing me. For what though? I
>contemplate as to what I did so wrong that God wont
>answer my prayer for being a bit smaller and sending
>me my soul mate.
>I am tired of going through man after man and then
>feeling empty. I have feelings too and why should I
>have to open my legs for such? Sometimes I ask God why
>does the slimmer sisters, especially the ones who
>strip have the perfect bodies and can have any man she
>wants and a good girl like myself have to settle for
>less? I have realized that sometime ago that sex is
>not the answer. I got tired of feeling empty
>afterwards. I rather lay with someone who loves me,
>has a ring on my finger and will not leave me in the
>morning.
>
>So now I just wait and wait wondering when I will have
>that man in my life. What more does God wants me to do
>in order to be loved like I know I deserved to be
>loved.
>
>I really like this site and it has given me a chance
>to vent and cry as to what ever is on my mind. I am
>grateful for this site and to know that I am not the
>only one going through this.

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Re: When will God hear me? -- Dana Taylor, 14:56:19 01/02/07 Tue