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Subject: 我覺得事到如今,大家要冷靜的討論,讓她明白你的感受,要保持心平氣和,否則沒有談下去的餘地。若她不想留戀,心有所屬,其實也可以談清楚的,畢竟大家都是成年人,要面對自己的責任,不好自欺欺人。有時我覺得緣盡了,有點難勉強,人在心不在,你得到了一個血肉之軀,卻沒有心的,又有什麼意思呢?若真是變心了,也不是太壞的事,至少在事情不至泥足深陷前,你看到了真相,及早解決。對感情,我覺得要提得起,也要放得下,提得起是指你們一起時,要有堅實的承擔,盡心盡力的照顧和愛護對方,做好自己的責任。放得下是,緣盡時要對方沒有仇恨,自己也不要生煩惱,心態上明白緣盡就不好勉強,縱使對方負我,也不好太計較,可以的話,最好還有祝福對方將來前景美好的心量。如果你的心胸如海量能納細川,則世間上一切都是你的,若心狹難以容針,什麼都不能容,則什麼都不是你的。若你有優秀的內在世界,將來還是會遇到懂得欣賞你和珍惜你的人吧!得和失不要太計較,自己能做的是盡力去維繫,努力過,就沒有遺憾。


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