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Crystal
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Date Posted: 13:23:51 04/29/05 Fri
In reply to:
Dreemdanser
's message, "Re: life-lessons" on 08:13:25 04/29/05 Fri
I had thought hard on the freezer spell this past, oh, 2 weeks. As you state it, with the spell binder in your post, Personally I'd say do it. Isnt it kind of like...a baby with a knife, You dont want them to get cut even though there's a lesson there (knives are sharp). You take the knife away and tell them it's sharp,right? Soo, magically speaking...using the freezer spell in this maner is like taking that knife away. The child could still find out that it is sharp, but the child is safe. Sound about right?
the "good luck and prosperity" added in can help draw that unto them. But, too we all realize that their actions in the mundain will also affect the outcome. In your son's situation, he has risen before....AND it is quite possable that he will rise from the ashes like the phoenix!
With my Ds, there isnt really any "history" for him to go by, He is in "uncharted teritory". Personally, I feel this does make a difference. Currently, he dosn't have "Positive" support or advice either....Which conserns me. No there's not much in the mundain that I can do about it either. With the problem of Defiance, anything I try to do on a positive level WILL be met with extreem resistance, so...that leads me to whatever I do/have done....must be done with the sage advice of "be silent". It so totally applies in THIS situation. Asking his permission isnt an option. When I do divination on this...it is understood that whatever the "outcome" is, it's NOT carved in stone, but rather fluid and changing as the tides or seasons. It is just one possablitity, or a tendancy.
So "what to DO?" How about do one for "wisdom" to help them through the situation? Or one to open communication? (note I said open communication...and not specify just one way of communication, as it could be through a phone, email, visit, letter, or even getting a message through a third party are all possable lines of communication.) These may leave the "free will" intact, depending on the wording as we do not want to take control of the persons free will. Another fine line? Possably. These magical actions also need to have your spell-binder to it.
Each situation has to be taken on it's own merrit, and there really is no...one-size-fits-all. Personally, I also go with mutiple spells if the situation warrents it. Or combine several into one. THis is where OUR creativeity shines! For someone one new to the craft, that may be confusing though.
I have many irons in the fire right now. Yet finding that ballance is possable, partly by keeping priorities straight, and time with my fave tree and "sitting rock" in the back yard. Used this "space" so much, along with magically clensing the space that my children call it "sacre space", and say no negativity is allowed there. (their own thoughts/ideas on this space...as I never TOLD them about it!). I say this here because, when dealing with the grey areas...it could be easy to loose that ballance, and it is one of the things we need to be effective (personal thoughts).
crystal
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