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Subject: Just curious why the post about caras twitter was removed.

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Date Posted: 15:53:27 08/19/13 Mon

There seemed to be a pretty civilized conversation taking place and I wanted to know what people thought about the #ghetto comment. Why are posts like this deleted but not the one where cara is called a hot mess? That's someone bashing truly bashing cara. No bashing here.

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[> Subject: original poster of the #ghetto picture. i'm not sure if lisa got to see my reply, so i'd like to reiterate.

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Date Posted: 06:02:00 08/20/13 Tue

to you the photo and hashtags might be cutsie, but to myself it's offensive. i know the definition of ghetto. cara is not using this definition of ghetto. she's using it as a slang term and that's the point i find most offensive.

a cutsie picture to me would be of the finished product or cara working on the flower pot. i don't ever consider a picture where a large knife takes up a quarter of the picture cutsie. the knife is the center of attention and your eyes immediately go to the knife.

the #trophywife is the least of my concerns. just remember, you may call yourself a trophywife in your private life, but cara is doing it on a public forum as a public figure. neither of which you do.

celebrities are paid to represent themselves. cara is paid to represent this state and its population. she will never please everyone, but she seems to be rubbing a lot of people the wrong way.

finally something i'd like to add that i didn't include in my previous post that was deleted. Lisa, do not ever question my parenting. i did not question yours. i said nothing to offend cara, the organization, or yourself. i explained how a post on cara's instagram was offensive to me. if you want to talk to the people "bashing" cara why dont you talk to the people who have called her a "hot mess" or have asked her "to get some serious help". at this point i'm not sure if i'm more offended at the #ghetto or you questioning my parenting.

i see that the photo was deleted from her instagram. i appreciate that very much. next time let's think before we post.

[> [> Subject: So your post didn' get the feedback you wanted here so after it was deleted you took it to the Guru board? Forget about questioning your parenting...how about questioning your judgement, maturity, and mental stability. Why would you do that?

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Date Posted: 13:21:30 08/20/13 Tue

>to you the photo and hashtags might be cutsie, but to
>myself it's offensive. i know the definition of
>ghetto. cara is not using this definition of ghetto.
>she's using it as a slang term and that's the point i
>find most offensive.
>
>a cutsie picture to me would be of the finished
>product or cara working on the flower pot. i don't
>ever consider a picture where a large knife takes up a
>quarter of the picture cutsie. the knife is the
>center of attention and your eyes immediately go to
>the knife.
>
>the #trophywife is the least of my concerns. just
>remember, you may call yourself a trophywife in your
>private life, but cara is doing it on a public forum
>as a public figure. neither of which you do.
>
>celebrities are paid to represent themselves. cara is
>paid to represent this state and its population. she
>will never please everyone, but she seems to be
>rubbing a lot of people the wrong way.
>
>finally something i'd like to add that i didn't
>include in my previous post that was deleted. Lisa,
>do not ever question my parenting. i did not question
>yours. i said nothing to offend cara, the
>organization, or yourself. i explained how a post on
>cara's instagram was offensive to me. if you want to
>talk to the people "bashing" cara why dont you talk to
>the people who have called her a "hot mess" or have
>asked her "to get some serious help". at this point
>i'm not sure if i'm more offended at the #ghetto or
>you questioning my parenting.
>
>i see that the photo was deleted from her instagram.
>i appreciate that very much. next time let's think
>before we post.

[> Subject: Well, whomever posted it here took it and posted it to the Pageant Guru board. Thats bullying and disgusting. Whomever did it should be disgusted with themselves. Get a life, get a job. Clearly you don't have either if you are so obsessed with the fact u or your daughter didn't win a friggin pageant
Author: Disgusted [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 12:29:59 08/20/13 Tue >There seemed to be a pretty civilized conversation >taking place and I wanted to know what people thought >about the #ghetto comment. Why are posts like this >deleted but not the one where cara is called a hot >mess? That's someone bashing truly bashing cara. No >bashing here.

[> [> Subject: I agree the post is foul. But stop using the world bully.
Author: . [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 14:13:46 08/20/13 Tue >>There seemed to be a pretty civilized conversation >>taking place and I wanted to know what people thought >>about the #ghetto comment. Why are posts like this >>deleted but not the one where cara is called a hot >>mess? That's someone bashing truly bashing cara. No >>bashing here.

[> [> [> Subject: What's a world bully?
Author: huh? [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 17:38:20 08/20/13 Tue >>>There seemed to be a pretty civilized conversation >>>taking place and I wanted to know what people thought >>>about the #ghetto comment. Why are posts like this >>>deleted but not the one where cara is called a hot >>>mess? That's someone bashing truly bashing cara. No >>>bashing here.

[> [> [> [> Subject: I meant you should stop throwing around the word bully.
Author: . [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 20:40:11 08/20/13 Tue >>>>There seemed to be a pretty civilized conversation >>>>taking place and I wanted to know what people >thought >>>>about the #ghetto comment. Why are posts like this >>>>deleted but not the one where cara is called a hot >>>>mess? That's someone bashing truly bashing cara. >No >>>>bashing here.

[> Subject: We find Cara's behavior inappropriate so we decide to share it on the national pageant board. Great attention we are calling to New Jersey.
Author: like seriously? [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 14:36:42 08/20/13 Tue >There seemed to be a pretty civilized conversation >taking place and I wanted to know what people thought >about the #ghetto comment. Why are posts like this >deleted but not the one where cara is called a hot >mess? That's someone bashing truly bashing cara. No >bashing here.

[> Subject: Great move. Post on National Boards to once again ruin NJ's chances of winning. Karma is powerful. It will come around. It will also leak out about who you are. Trust me. Everyone knows who the culprits are when this happens. Further you have to look at yourself in the mirror. Good l uck with that.!!!
Author: CB [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 14:38:27 08/23/13 Fri >There seemed to be a pretty civilized conversation >taking place and I wanted to know what people thought >about the #ghetto comment. Why are posts like this >deleted but not the one where cara is called a hot >mess? That's someone bashing truly bashing cara. No >bashing here.