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Subject: Typical rule breakers... Why is it that certain families and local dance co get away with anything they want. Moms are not suppose to march in the parade next to their daughters car. Just like they shouldn't be helpers back stage at the shore pageants to coach their dancers. When will this change? Author: Rule breakers [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 02:28:16 06/13/13 Thu Follow the rules. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: As well as a former in the parade and previously at orientation while her sister is competing. Her time has passed, this is her sister's moment! let her shine and stay away, support her and cheer her on from the audience just like everyone else! Author: Unfair (observer) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:49:53 06/13/13 Thu >Follow the rules.

[> [> Subject: Agreed! Ashley f no reason for her to be participating this year! Author: Observer [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:22:51 06/13/13 Thu >>Follow the rules.

[> [> [> Subject: Before you bounce on Ashley, she was asked at the last minute to sit with the little stars on the float since there was no adult Author: avalable at the last moment. [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:45:44 06/13/13 Thu >>>Follow the rules.

[> [> [> [> Subject: Sitting on the float with the little stars isn't everyone's complaint. None of the other contestants have the .luxury of a sister nearby all week. Author: Why raise ehebrows? Its nice that she wants to help the organization, but until her sister is done competing she should backoff. It just doesn't look good, plain and simple. [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:26:09 06/14/13 Fri >>>>Follow the rules.

[> Subject: Okay so who is it? first says its a mom and second says a sister! what did we miss? Author: Do tell!!!!! [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:19:14 06/13/13 Thu >Follow the rules.

[> [> Subject: I'm guessing Kaitlyn. Her mother was walking in the parade. Maybe with her dancers but doesn't she have other teachers that could do that. I don't know anything about a sister. Author: Just a guess [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:22:48 06/13/13 Thu >>Follow the rules.

[> Subject: Special rules for special people! If Lou and Sally like you them there are no rules! Author: Some things will never change! Sickening! [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:09:25 06/13/13 Thu >Follow the rules.

[> Subject: Re: Typical rule breakers... Why is it that certain families and local dance co get away with anything they want. Moms are not suppose to march in the parade next to their daughters car. Just like they shouldn't be helpers back stage at the shore pageants to coach their dancers. When will this change? Author: Pageantmom (disgusted) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:41:24 06/13/13 Thu >Follow the rules. Some things just never change, agreed that some people get away with everything. What is the point of rules if people continually break them and nothing is done about it. Miss New Jersey Directors should enforce the rules and there should be consequences. These people give their "daughter's' an unfair advantage.

[> [> Subject: I'm not as concerned about the parade mom as I am about the sister. It's a serious conflict for a sister of a contestant to be participating at the state pageant. We can't take away the fact that she is a former, good for her she deserves to be recognized, but until her sister stops competing she should not be allowed backstage access or be privy to information such as what was posted on Facebook yesterday about EG competition. Clearly she is "in the loop" when other families are not. Author: Sorry, but rules should apply to everyone! [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:50:01 06/13/13 Thu >>Follow the rules. >Some things just never change, agreed that some people >get away with everything. What is the point of rules >if people continually break them and nothing is done >about it. Miss New Jersey Directors should enforce the >rules and there should be consequences. These people >give their "daughter's' an unfair advantage.

[> Subject: I got it.....Fairfields sister and Schoeffels mommy. Author: ughhhhhhh [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:27:55 06/13/13 Thu >Follow the rules.

[> [> Subject: Re: I got it.....Fairfields sister and Schoeffels mommy. Author: no name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:15:24 06/13/13 Thu >>Follow the rules. get over it!

[> [> [> Subject: You want us to get over it because you must be a supporter of these families. I don't understand how the NJ office allows this behavior to continue. NJ org needs a change!!! Author: Not getting over it [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:21:20 06/13/13 Thu >>>Follow the rules. >get over it!

[> [> [> [> Subject: Agree, NJ is always a big mess, same story different year! Author: Sick -n- tired! [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:41:55 06/13/13 Thu >>>>Follow the rules. >>get over it!

[> Subject: The sister bothers me. Cut your sister a break - back off and let her have her own experience! Author: xoxo [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:50:29 06/13/13 Thu >Follow the rules.

[> [> Subject: Schoeffels mom should not of have been allowed to walk in the parade. But the Fairfields have gotton away with alot more. Between the year Ashley was allowed to hosted and give onstage questions when Courtney competed for Miss Columbus day and Atlantic County. Follow the rules people like so many others. Until Courtney ages out Ashley be away from the pageants. Author: Fairfields sister and Schoeffels mommy. [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:43:34 06/13/13 Thu >>Follow the rules.

[> [> [> Subject: Both families are a ridiculous amount of favoritism. It's just unreal. It's embarrassing I wonder how many judges Kaitlin knows this year. She made sure she bragged last year knowing them all. Author: Can we find a kind hearted contestant. [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:04:02 06/13/13 Thu >>>Follow the rules.

[> Subject: There is no one and I mean no one more kind hearted than Kaitlyn!! You obviously do not know her at all for you to say that. Big deal if her mom walked during the parade. She had a lot of very young girls from her studio walking. Kaitlyn is a worthy competitor and doesn't need so called favoritism to win Miss NJ! Author: trying to make wine from all these sour grapes [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:33:55 06/14/13 Fri >Follow the rules.

[> Subject: Thinks she is anove all others and very much full of herself. Nothing humble about her Author: Not mentioning any names but many people feel this way about her majesty!!!! ughhhh [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:49:39 06/14/13 Fri >Follow the rules.

[> Subject: She is extremely self entitled and is one of the only contestants who has a hard time playing with the others. Its very obvious that she thinks she is better than everyone else. Author: . [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:26:10 06/14/13 Fri >Follow the rules.

[> [> Subject: Unfortunately I have to agree. Ask anyone who has competed with her and you will be told the same. Fake smile when she thinks the camera is on her, but nasty when she thinks no one of importance is around. Author: Phoney baloney, and her reaction to SS won onstage last night proves it. [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:32:07 06/14/13 Fri >>Follow the rules.

[> Subject: what was her reaction ro swimsuit win? Author: do tell [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:41:15 06/14/13 Fri >Follow the rules.

[> Subject: Re: Typical rule breakers... Why is it that certain families and local dance co get away with anything they want. Moms are not suppose to march in the parade next to their daughters car. Just like they shouldn't be helpers back stage at the shore pageants to coach their dancers. When will this change? Author: Objective Observer (Slightly amused.) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:14:22 06/14/13 Fri How catty of you all. You wonder why people look at pageant moms (and dads) like they are crazy. The dance mom runs a studio and had her dancers in the parade and was supervising them. How neat! The sister was a former Miss New Jersey and the little girls got to hang out with her. What an opportunity for them! It's a sad thing that people have to be jealous or feel that they did not get something that someone else did. It's the entitlement attitude that wrecks other areas of our country. I'm sure if we went down the list every girl in the parade did something somehow that would annoy somebody. I'm sure somebody was offended that there was a giant spinning green head. I know people have their differences with people in the pageant system, but I guess are not mature enough to keep it to themselves OR talk to the people they have differences with. Thus..."catty!" Be careful about what kind of example you give to those little girls from the dance studio. What would the little girls in the float think about all of this? I think the parade was wonderful and thought all the girls looked great. Great job to ALL of you! Good luck to you all!!!

[> [> Subject: Take off your rosé colored glasses! Author: ... [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:59:17 06/14/13 Fri >How catty of you all. You wonder why people look at >pageant moms (and dads) like they are crazy. The dance >mom runs a studio and had her dancers in the parade >and was supervising them. How neat! The sister was a >former Miss New Jersey and the little girls got to >hang out with her. What an opportunity for them! It's >a sad thing that people have to be jealous or feel >that they did not get something that someone else did. >It's the entitlement attitude that wrecks other areas >of our country. I'm sure if we went down the list >every girl in the parade did something somehow that >would annoy somebody. I'm sure somebody was offended >that there was a giant spinning green head. I know >people have their differences with people in the >pageant system, but I guess are not mature enough to >keep it to themselves OR talk to the people they have >differences with. Thus..."catty!" Be careful about >what kind of example you give to those little girls >from the dance studio. What would the little girls in >the float think about all of this? I think the parade >was wonderful and thought all the girls looked great. >Great job to ALL of you! Good luck to you all!!!

[> Subject: Hopefully judges were told to pick a real girl just like our current Miss America. If so then they will see through the plastic personality. Author: New awesome friendly girl for the win!!!!! [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:50:14 06/14/13 Fri >Follow the rules.