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Date Posted: 30/09/14 12:42am
Author: Steve
Author Host/IP: 110.175.43.5
Subject: Re: Post Script
In reply to: TT 's message, "Post Script" on 29/09/14 3:52pm

Even with Hawthorn life isn't good. Very long story short. Lady I was 'with' for 18 years in an 'affair' but couldn't leave kids etc. Got ill, kept away for a bit didn't want to stress her. She moved. Found her a year later (complete accident). She'd left, well..kids grow. She also divorced husband 1. Married husband 2. I wasn't husband at anytime.
Knock door new house. Bloke answers, I ask she live there,he say yes. Goes to see her, comes back tells me she says go away. I want to talk. Lock door on me. 5 minutes later Im arrested. So that wasn't good.



Mum had stroke about same time (five years ago). Also when she had stroke. Ex wife of best friend lived with us for 3/4 years. Had a baby girl, about two when they moved in. father ran off when she wouldn't abort. I more or less raised her. She finds new bloke (at least he follows Hawthorn)the time of mums stroke. She virtually calls me a kiddiefiddler, leaves for new bloke (he's good bloke though). Jade the little girl didn't want to go. Wanted her Grandma (my mum) and Steve (who she endlessly asked me to be her daddy). Week later mother comes back for things. I slam door in her face tell her to ring when convenient. Social workers come, want to talk Mum lets them in. Im in bed, stuff them they want to see me Im not moving where I am for them. They go. Police again. Fat copper throws me in divy van. Locked up psyche ward Royal melb in pajama pants and thin shaving robe for two weeks.

Since then, just taken care of Mum (86 now). Waiting to die myself really. She recovered very well from stroke but has osteo-a and on walker, needs help shower etc.

Crash my car boxing day last year going to buy her big HD tv. Terrific. She has light on in ensuite Jan 5 6am (i check her during night). Still on agian I get up 8am. Go bring washing in. 8.30 still light on ensuite. Call name, no answer. Go in, she's stuck on toilet from 4am. details you can guess. In hospital for most Jan, all feb, mar, and home late april.
I cant find car. Little money. She wont eat unless i cook. Sunbury transport to city each day isnt easy with no car.
So walk to bus, walk to train walk to hospital walk walk walk.

Ankle pain, strain..no.. bone spur.. no. Ahh.. both ankles stress fracture. Ankle boot just come off a few weeks ago.

On 3 depression tables. 1 anxiety. Not allowed steroid (only good thing as they made me fat with water retention). Oh, got irratible bower syndrome, and diverticulitis (look on wiki). Got car, camry with lpg and at least its okay for the money 2003 and rear sensors, mum easy in and out etc.

Was on list for dental implants as they buggered up extractions at dental hospital six years ago. Going well and .. havent heard for a month from them so chase that soon.

Saw GF. thought theres $250 gone. Got refused beer at London as I was walking like a drunk. Tell them plantier facilcus and stress fracture ankle. Eventually have TWO mid strength beers. Get car, two hawk blokes ask for lift some new place past broady. Harmless you can tell. Took home, thanks and all that. Got lost, ended up in Kynten. Home 4am. Awake 7am, mum spine stress fractures, have to massage medical cream in. Washing, cook etc.

Couldnt sleep when I typed message here just to see how you lot were.

Thats it. Having a half a chicken now after being up since 2am.

Hope to blazes that ALL YOUR LIVES are nothing like mine.

Like to be able to lie about it but cant be stuffed with lies and small talk anymore. Coming up to 50 and seeing nothing but misery ahead when mum passes.

just needed something to take my mind of everything Ive written above when replied to your post. Sorry to be a downer could be worse, could support.. saints. and you thought id say tiggers didnt you. :) Live a good life Gav, you deserve it (as do everyone else here). ciao, Steve

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