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Date Posted: 12:39:02 05/11/01 Fri
Author: aimee
Author Host/IP: NoHost / 195.92.237.210
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Re: A lecture from me (it's not the first and it certainly won't be the last)
In reply to: Hannah 's message, "A lecture from me (it's not the first and it certainly won't be the last)" on 11:54:04 05/11/01 Fri

Hehe, the sucker thing was funny! But you're a bitch! (Thats a jokey, funny way, not an I hate you way).
As for the warts thing, I've learned. I know exactly what he's like. A lot of people are, it's just there not all so blatent.
Theres no point in me hating him anymore. I never felt that strongly for him as I thought I did (of course we're talking Dave, not Nick here), and so he didn't hurt me as much as he could've done. Not that I'm willing to let myself be hurt.
I love you to pieces Hannah, and the other person in my skitzofrenick (I won't attempt to spell it right!) conversation was losely based on you. So, I recognise my faults, be they past faults or not. I know who I want (Nick) and who I don't (Dave), but I know I'm mature enough to be amicable to Dave.
It'll probably be the last time I see him this summer, so it would be nice if we could get along. Yes, he cheated on me. Yes, he has silly hair, and yes hes a womanizer who uses people, but look, I can SEE that! He's also funny, charming and easy to talk to. I have plenty of friends who I don't want to jump on (well, miss out plenty), and he can be one of those, can't he?

aimee
-xxx-

PS- Nick is the cutest! He sent me a text message today that just said 'Smile XXXMEXXX'. How cute???!!!???

>Aimee, I know you far too well, perhaps even better
>than you know yourself, but I love you, warts and all
>(that's a figure of speech, I'm not trying to say
>you've got warts). The reason I said warts and all is
>because I know all of your bad points, the ones you
>don't like to admit eg. your inability to say no, etc.
>just as well as your good eg. erm....well, can
>somebody help me out here? Only joking. Back to the
>point, I know what you're like and I know that you
>think the most endearing thing about a man is that he
>likes you. You're such a sucker (no puns) for
>flattery (actully, I've just realised that the sucker
>bit is quite funny if you put it in the context of
>outside spiders).
>So I have one (of many probably) piece of advice for
>you to think about :
>No matter how many compliments you are given, or how
>apologetic they (Dave) might seem, or however lonely
>you are feeling, or however much they plead, it's not
>worth being used and getting upset, particularly when
>you bring it on yourself, and you don't owe anybody
>anything.
>Have the confidence to believe that you are worth
>better. You have / had a boyfriend who realised how
>special you are, and we know it too, now we're just
>waiting for you to catch on.....I won't hold my breath.
>You know you don't deserve to be treated like shit,
>and you know you'll get a bollocking off me every time
>you get yourself in such a situation.
>There, I hope I've given you something to think about

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Replies:

Re: A lecture from me (it's not the first and it certainly won't be the last) -- Hannah, 23:54:32 05/11/01 Fri
- Re: A lecture from me (it's not the first and it certainly won't be the last) -- aimee, 01:49:58 05/12/01 Sat
  - Re: A lecture from me (it's not the first and it certainly won't be the last) -- Hannah, 06:16:14 05/12/01 Sat
    - Re: A lecture from me (it's not the first and it certainly won't be the last) -- Sallerina, 02:11:50 05/14/01 Mon

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