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Subject: "It's Just an Enema" say Shelly Author: Susan [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: Friday, April 25, 2025, 04:32: pm That says it all doesn't it Shelly? Well truth serum here! For the birth of our two children my Doula gave me a double enema with two of the Fleets. I begged her like a toddler to not give me that enema for our first birth. But I had not had a bowel movement in over two days and I made the mistake of telling her the truth when asked. Of all the humiliating poking and probing and looking and talking to me about everything down there to a young gal in heavy labor that enema stuck with me for the four years until I went in to labor with our daughter. It was front and center in my thoughts when my doula walked in the door. How many minutes before I get that enema? Like Kitten Paw says I just hated that she was able to make me give her a bowel movement by putting those bottles of Fleet in me. You would think I had a lot more important things to worry about or focus on but I was focused on when she was going to force me on the toilet with that enema. I was always very sensitive and private about someone knowing I was having a bowel movement. So my daughter is just a mini me. The difference is I somehow managed without getting in trouble with soiling but my daughter is going to need help to get past this. My husband is following along with us and he read your post before I did so I'm locked in and I feel like I've been ambushed too. But you are right. If I want to portray to my children that enemas aren't scary then even though they won't get watch, I need to tell them that I have had the large enema too and it isn't so bad. Husband is my nurse tonight to make sure I follow through. I'll let you know if I had an anxiety attack. I'm thinking I will. Enemas are scary to me, giving or taking. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: "It's Just an Enema" say Shelly Author: Bonnie's Kid [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Friday, April 25, 2025, 06:54: pm I've posted before about the negative impact those enemas during/preceding labor had on many women. It's unfortunate because that simple pleasure and procedure can be a very effective treatment under many circumstances. I'd suggest staying away from the Fleet's type chemical enemas. An enema bag with a warm solution is much more comfortable. Kudos to your hubby if he is planning on giving you the enemas. Few things shared between partners can be as intimate and full filling. He should submit to you as well. Enjoy the simple procedure and pleasure! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: "It's Just an Enema" say Shelly Author: Susan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Saturday, April 26, 2025, 11:10: am Well I've lost one of my assistants. Husband has to help with some issues with a truck repair that is not going well at the shop. So it's just my sister and I that will be performing this difficult maneuver. Now I am getting scared. If I fail to pull this off I will never be able to get an enema or anything rectally in her because she will know if she fights she wins Please channel me some strength and guidance. Would it be better to just get her in the bathroom completely naked with absolutely nothing to cover herself with and sit down at the door to block it and calmly wait her out? Tell her she can get dressed and get out of the bathroom when she has had the enemas but we will stay in here, naked, nothing to cover with until the enemas are done. The mom at the Health Food Store told me that's how she helped her neighbor start two of her older children on regular clean outs. Get them naked and wait them out. They hate so bad that they are naked with you that they will eventually cave. I don't know what to do now. She will go off like a bomb when she sees the enema bag. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: "It's Just an Enema" say Shelly Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Saturday, April 26, 2025, 11:58: am Susan, Where will you be hanging the enema bag? Is the toilet close to the tub? Does the tub have a shower rod with curtain? Are you able to hide the bag behind the curtain? That is why mom waited until I did not have clothes on after a bath so she no longer had that fight of taken clothes off. Truth: the awe and shock needs to be just that for her. It should be an unexpected surprise of being pulled over your knee like kitten paw helps her mom. The leg lock and arms held. You know her well. You know if she has any instant she is going to go off. Her resistance needs to be minimum over your knee. Almost like a sneak attack. Do you feel like you need a third person? Is she small in size? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: "It's Just an Enema" say Shelly Author: Susan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Saturday, April 26, 2025, 12:22: pm Thank you so much for your patience with me AV. I'm just bouncing off the walls imagining the scene she is going to create. They have a pretty good size bathroom with full tub and shower with plastic curtain. There is distance between the toilet and tub/shower so the enema bag is going to have to be hung from the cabinet/sink vanity next to the toilet. There is no way to hide the enema bag from her. My concern is not that we might be able to get the shock and awe maneuver done for her soapy enema but then once she is on the toilet and we want to do two more rinse enemas the fight is going to be on. Our nurse really wants a soapsuds enema for this first enema but after we are sure we have eliminated any possible lump of stool in her transverse then we can do just one plain warm water enema each weekend or maybe in the future even letting the two of them go two weeks between clean out enemas. I really would feel so much better having a third person to help us once we are ready to get her off the toilet for the next two rinse enemas. I'm working on it. I left a message at the Health Food Store for her to call me if she can because I am in a pickle and am really stressing about it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: "It's Just an Enema" say Shelly Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Saturday, April 26, 2025, 01:08: pm Susan, I understand. What about placing a towel over the enema bag as it hangs on the vanity? You think she will even know what it is? No other family or in-laws to call? Hopefully that first goat milk enema will wear her down and take some resistance out of her to help you. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: "It's Just an Enema" say Shelly Author: Shelly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Saturday, April 26, 2025, 01:16: pm Susan, I have a very busy day today but you got this girl. Don't over think it. You and sister get an early start so you have all day. Get her and all things needed in the bathroom and just play it by ear. It's Just an Enema! You got this! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: "It's Just an Enema" say Shelly Author: Susan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Saturday, April 26, 2025, 06:37: pm I was not allowed in the bathroom with our daughter for her enemas. When my sister got here she asked me what was wrong with me. I was a basket case. She said I was so worked up I was going to scare our daughter more than her enema bag will. We prepared the soapsuds enema and she told me to go sit down and calm myself down she's got this. She took her enema bag in the bathroom and went and got our daughter and I sat down in the living room. I would have been able to hear if they made a commotion but I heard nothing. In less than 10 minutes she came out and said that daughter did an awesome job. There was a little fuss and some tears but she did fantastic. I'm sitting there looking at her leg and it is soaking wet. She said "that is not enema water. She emptied her bladder as soon as she felt her warm enema." I had gathered myself up and calmed down and wanted to go help with the two rinses but my sister wouldn't let me. She went back in there and stayed until they were all done. It was almost exactly three hours. Them my daughter went into her room and got in bed. I went in and sat and rubbed her back and told her how proud I was of her for cooperating with Auntie and for being so brave for her enemas. She wouldn't even look at me. I just checked and she is asleep. Sister said she was quiet and wouldn't talk to her or answer questions for her so they just quietly did her enemas and got them expelled and got it over with. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: "It's Just an Enema" say Shelly Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Saturday, April 26, 2025, 07:55: pm Susan, Hope you are ok? So glad your sister was there to help. Seems everything worked out beautifully. Hope all goes well next week with your son. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: "It's Just an Enema" say Shelly Author: Shelly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Sunday, April 27, 2025, 08:55: am Susan, What an amazing Auntie. And what insight she has. She knows the struggles you and daughter have with her defiance and temper tantrums. She knew enough to remove you from the scene and take care of her enemas because they have mutual respect for each other. Can Auntie possibly be involved for a while as your daughter adjusts to her routine? Don't be offended that you were removed. Remember children save their worst behavior for those they love the most because they know that they will put up with it. She was so scared when Auntie started her enemas but you know she was an angel for Auntie because that's the way kids are. Get her started on a low dose Metamucil so stool is delivered to her rectum for a daily bowel movement. No bowel movement until Monday night because her colon will take that long to deliver. Praise her and give her a day off from having to poop for you. She will adjust. My two boys went from cursing at me and hitting and kicking to now looking forward to enema night. That of course is helped immensely because they have a crush on our babysitter whom we now are boarding during the school months who gives them their enemas. They would do enemas every night if I let them have it from her. You daughter likely is never going to beg you for her enema but just know how awesome it is now from this day going forward she will never have to wear and mess in a pull up! Maybe some day at least a few more Doctor's will wake up and stop telling parents to put their adolescent or tween in pull ups and force mag citrate down their throat and then send them to school. And I know you don't want to talk about it but you admittedly don't poop every day and get backed up. You say your husband is following along so here's to husband, "hello. so your wife likes her privacy when pooping but she admits she gets constipated. You have gotten one enema in her. She needs to get some fiber or something going so she has stool to come out every day and I'm calling on you to see to it she poops every day." Sorry Susan, we challenge you because we care. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: "It's Just an Enema" say Shelly Author: Maude [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Sunday, April 27, 2025, 09:26: am Another child rescued from withholding accidents in their pull ups! Nothing more to be said. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]