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Subject: Re: We are stressing Author: Maude [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: Saturday, May 24, 2025, 02:47: pm In reply to: Susan 's message, "We are stressing" on Saturday, May 24, 2025, 02:10: pm Susan we are here for you. Come and vent and get some stress release and talk about how things are going. We don't judge you for admitting you are a closest withholder. Your sister has put her foot down because you opened the door with your daughter's diagnosis of encopresis. She is getting the three of you on a healthy path of colon health because she cares. My oldest granddaughter has five children that get a clean out enema every other Saturday. They have two toilets in the house and she compacts it so she is only doing the enemas for about two hours. No specific order. Her 17 year old daughter may be on a toilet getting the last of her enema back out and mom has 7 year old son sitting on the enema pillow also, sitting there looking at each other. There is no expectation of privacy on enema Saturday. They may see any one of the other four on the toilet or bent over mom's leg. Two of them don't mind their enemas. The middle boy likes his enemas. The youngest still resists and complains about his enemas. She still has a JBL sit on enema pillow but she only uses it for the two youngest. She puts them on it and then with a bandage wrap she wraps their arms together so they can not lift themselves up off of the enema pillow. She then can walk away and tend to another enema while that child sits for about twenty minutes getting the enema in slowly and working it's way up in them. 7 year old boy and 9 year old girl. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: We are stressing Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Saturday, May 24, 2025, 05:27: pm Susan, Here is an idea that may work for the bathroom issue. Get a hospital handicap potty chair for the third person. Rotate it around so a different person uses it. Can be placed in their bedroom given them some privacy. After what your son said in an earlier post about not getting another enema, what are his thoughts now receiving one with the dad and sister combo? Maude is right, no one judges here. Please allows feel free to come and express and release your emotions and feelings. It does help. Good news to hear you and the two are able to have a BM in the evening with assistance. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: We are stressing (typo corrections) Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Saturday, May 24, 2025, 05:32: pm Sorry about the typos. Susan, Correction: Please always feel free. . . Correction: able to have a BM without any assistance. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]