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Subject: My teenager is coming back home Author: Shelly [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: Saturday, November 08, 2025, 06:10: am AV and all. My teenager that I boarded last year is home. Her mom got a call two weeks ago telling her that her daughter was in the hospital for a naso-gastric clean out. They went out there and took her out of the hospital and brought her home. I am so upset! They assured mom when they were looking into putting her in their boarding school that they would be on top of her stooling and keep her cleaned out. Those hospital clean outs are so awful! They take several nurses and staff into the child's room and hold them down while they insert a tube up through their nose and down into their stomach, put them in diapers and for about three of four days pump gallons of propylene-glycol through them. I just cried and cried AV. I'm going to get her back to board her. They sold her car when they took her to that school campus so she might not have a car for a while but we will manage until she gets one. I had her broken from holding in her stool and her mom thought she could come up with a better plan and it has blown up in their face. I am so upset, yet hopeful that I can turn things around and get her pooping again. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: My teenager is coming back home Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Saturday, November 08, 2025, 04:41: pm Shelly, I am so sorry to hear this about your sitter. But I am so glad you are getting her back. Love her and let your boys love her. I am expecting a positive story out of all of this. 🙏 [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: My teenager is coming back home Author: Maude [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Saturday, November 08, 2025, 07:26: pm Shelly that is so awful. But you know what. Maybe the experience she got with the hospital clean out will break some resistance to her still holding in her stools. That is an experience no child would ever want to repeat. Sadly too too many kids of all ages are cleaned out this way because the parents refuse to give the child an enema. Is she enrolled back in your local school yet? Have you and mom come to an agreement that you are in fact going to board her again? Get her back on her Metamucil right away and a soapsuds and then rinse enemas every week for a while until you see what she is retaining. I have over forty children grandchildren and greatgrandchildren that receive weekly or bi-weekly clean out enemas and not one of them ever attempted to withhold their stool. They get put on the toilet as soon as legs get crossed and face starts turning red. About 4 out of 10 children the first two years in school will start withholding and poop in their pants at least twice. You aren't letting your boys do that and you can break her of doing it if you get her back. She had bonded on you because you helped her to stay clean and free from the awful accidents. You are not starting from scratch with her so she will do well I'm sure. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: My teenager is coming back home Author: Shelly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Sunday, November 09, 2025, 10:20: am AV and Maude. You know how much I get my strength from your support. She is moving back in this afternoon. I haven't told her yet but I'm going to have to clean her out tonight because her mom says she has caught her trying to hide with legs crossed and locked and face turning red yesterday. And there are two pair of her underwear missing from the last 7 days alone. I've got to get her emptied to send her off to school tomorrow. Mom says she is even more hateful and defiant and tells her that it is none of her business or right to try to make her go to the bathroom. I had to break her of her attitude once and if I have to I will do it again. A shock and awe clean out like you say AV may be just the ticket she needs to get that sassy attitude washed out of her head. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: My teenager is coming back home Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Sunday, November 09, 2025, 04:41: pm Shelly, I am going to just say it, do whatever you have to do. You know it’s for her own good. She doesn’t understand that. But if shock and awe is what is needed, then shock and awe is what is needed. A deep cleansing with your nozzle is what she needs. Make her feel better and get rid of that attitude as well. Wish you the best! Please keep us posted. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: My teenager is coming back home Author: Shelly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, November 10, 2025, 06:40: am An incredible evening. So glad to have her back. She is a bundle of nerves though. She was having minor anxiety episodes the whole evening until we got her clean out started and then she settled down and settled in to what needed to be done. At moments I would see a smile from her and then there were looks of worry or sadness or something. But I could tell she was just so happy to be here and not at that Boarding School. Her friend helped her get moved in. When my young gal was going out to the car for some more stuff her friend told me that she cried and told her about what she has to do here to stay clean and she hates enemas but that she wants to be here after she was in the hospital in pull ups. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: My teenager is coming back home Author: Shelly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, November 10, 2025, 11:15: am She did not sass me at all. I think she felt like she was back in a safe place. Her friend stayed and they ate pizza and watched youtube videos and I finally had to go down and tell them that my teen needs to get ready for tomorrow and she has some things to do. Her friend said "I know and she wants me to stay while she has to get cleaned out". I told her I just didn't think that was a good idea. She said "but I've had suppositories before can I please stay or can I come sometime if I get constipated and I'll have an enema too"? I know she was just trying to support her friend but it caught me off guard and I didn't know what to say. I kind of wish now I had let her stay. Maybe my young lady wants her friend to have enemas too and has talked her into asking to stay and watch her first and then some day talk me into cleaning her out too. I obviously can't give her an enema without talking to her mom but if they wanted to go into the bathroom by themselves I would let them. So anyway when I gave her the suppository to empty her rectum for her soapsuds enema she was packed full, no surprise. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: My teenager is coming back home Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, November 10, 2025, 12:08: pm Shelly, I am sure the boys are happy to see her. They love her so much. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: My teenager is coming back home Author: Shelly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, November 10, 2025, 01:05: pm AV they are over the moon. They were a little jealous that she was not spending the evening with them because she had her friend over watching tv videos. I haven't updated on them lately with you all because things have been going so well I didn't want to jinx myself. They give me no trouble on clean out night now though they make it clear it is not something they enjoy. I am just cleaning them out every other week now. They both are on metamucil morning and night doses. They each will poop at least once a day and some times twice. They will poop at school so they say and I don't have any reason to think they are lying because they don't exhibited any withholding. And three series enema clean outs bring out the amount of stool that you would expect a healthy colon to have in it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: My teenager is coming back home Author: Kitten Paw [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, November 10, 2025, 06:01: pm My generation of teen girls is not the same as the ones you grew up with Shelly. We talk a lot about sexual awareness and what we are doing with our bodies on Snapchat and private apps. We send pics in our underwear and bra. My BFF and I have orgasm contests with her vibrator. A couple weeks ago she wanted to shave me and I loved it. Remember when she finally managed to be at my house for a sleep over and convinced my mom she was badly backed up from constipation and wanted the enemas I get regularly to keep me healthy? My enemas have turned sexual for me. I got one Saturday night. Mom told in the morning I had to have my enema before bed. I went to my room late afternoon and masturbated to the thought that I had to get naked for her to put the nozzle in my bare bottom and stand there looking at it and me looking at her while I'm getting my enema. The best and most intense orgasms now are when I fantasize about my next bare bottom spanking from dad or bare bottom for mom while she cleans me out. Your teenager's friend told you she has had suppositories. So she is so curious what it would feel like to have to submit for a huge enema. Like my BFF did she will work on you until you give her what she wants. She wants to watch her BFF get cleaned out and she wants to feel like you are telling her you are sure she is constipated and needs an enema too. You don't need to worry about her mom. If she has had suppositories then even if her mom found out you gave her an enema she would maybe even thank you for cleaning her out. Her daughter will cover for you if she wants that enema!!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: My teenager is coming back home Author: Shelly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Tuesday, November 11, 2025, 11:57: am Kitten Paw, yes you teen girls today are exposed to so much that you have to grow up fast. It's a shame. You are still just a little girl. 16, I know, but that is still just a little girl. Your part of the brain that controls impulsive behavior and maturity thinking experts say is not fully developed until you are 23. And yet some of the young gals these days have already gotten married had two kids and left their husbands by 23. So sad. I'm okay with you having fun with your sexuality with your best friend. I just look at this poor 16 year old that I'm boarding and how she is stuck in a rut from when she was just starting school and started holding in her poop and was never stopped. Some have criticized me for treating her like a little child putting her over my knee and cleaning her out with enemas. But her treatments match her behavior. I'm not faulting her for her behavior but the little girl inside her head needs to know that if she holds in her poop she gets put over my leg for a suppository at minimum but most likely some unpleasant enemas. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: My teenager is coming back home Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Tuesday, November 11, 2025, 04:49: pm Shelly, I am do glad your boys are over the moon and hope they help sitter heal in their own special way. I know you are going to do a great job helping sitter. I think she knows she needs you and is in a better place than that boarding school and hospital. 🙏 [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: My teenager is coming back home Author: Shelly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Wednesday, November 12, 2025, 04:31: pm AV, she is the daughter that I always wanted but didn't have. She seems so relieved to be back here where I know she feels safe. I found a conversation on line a couple of months ago and I wish I remembered where I read it. But this mom was talking about her 17 year old daughter and she was stressing when her daughter would turn 18 and leave home and be out of her control. She was a Psychiatrist with a practice in juvenile and teen therapy. She talked about how a lot of kids start to hold usually from a difficult poop or when confronted with school bathrooms. She said it is not a reflection on the parents which kids can be broken of it and which one go well into adult hood holding in their poop. For those it is as much a phobia as being afraid for examples of mice or snakes. These kids are afraid of their poop, won't look at it, want to never ever have to poop again. She said the best things parents can do for those kids that are headed towards adult hood and still pooping their pants is to stop the pooping in their pants. That success hopefully will inspire them when they are out on their own in the world to dislike pooping in their pants more than disliking that their body makes poop. So.....and I felt this myself all along. Don't let her smear her underwear. Don't give her that opportunity. I Will increase her Metamucil slowly over the next two weeks to where I am getting one or two bowel movements a day from her and in the mean time starting tonight, because it has been three days since I emptied her entire colon, she gets a suppository as soon as she gets here. And she will poop for me soon after getting here from school going forward. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: My teenager is coming back home Author: Shelly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Thursday, November 13, 2025, 07:51: am AV, her friend brings her here after school and she has a rule that she has to let me know when she will be here. On school nights she has to be here by 5:30 at the latest. She got here at 5:00. Her mom told me that her defiance and disrespect was even worse after they brought her home from the hospital clean out. I suppose if I were her I would not be in a cheery mood either if I had just had enema by mouth like Kristy would say. But she is just so calm and collected and doesn't sass me at all. When she got here I let her settle in a little as I was getting dinner ready and then I told her I would need a bowel movement before bed and did she want to go in and try or should we just do the suppository. She said she didn't feel like she needed to go. I told her that's okay but let's just go get it over with so you don't have to fret over it. She was pretty full. I didn't make her show me what I got out of her but I always insert as deep into the rectum as I can to get a good stimulation from the medicine and she had stool right there at the anus. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: My teenager is coming back home Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Friday, November 14, 2025, 04:12: am Shelly, All great news to hear. Her and her mom’s relationship must not be good at all. Rightly so. Thanks for the updates. So glad she is home and the boys are over the moon. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]