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Subject: Re: Soiling Solutions and The Clean Kid Manual Author: Shelly [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: Friday, December 12, 2025, 11:05: am In reply to: Shelly 's message, "Soiling Solutions and The Clean Kid Manual" on Tuesday, December 09, 2025, 08:10: pm Well we have another schedule change. Her mom and I agreed that sitter would stay in town every other weekend because I originally planned on cleaning her out every other week and with it taking three hours I didn't want to have to clean her out on a school night. And also since her friend usually came in and hung out with her for a couple of hours when she brought her here I wasn't keen on friend being here for sitter's enemas because I was sure she wouldn't want her here. But now that she needs cleaned out every week I'm going to send her home every weekend and clean her out on Thursdays as soon as she gets here from school. Since her friend is in theatre every day after school I didn't have that concern any more. I didn't tell her yesterday morning because I didn't want to make her think about it all day since she wasn't told yet she will get the enemas every week. So she is pretty pissed off at me. She had a boy drop her off from school yesterday and she took him down to her room. I let him stay for about a half hour but then I needed to get her enemas started so I went down and told her he would have to leave because her and I had some things to do. She said 'what do we need to do?" I said 'I don't think you want him to hear'. So he left and she was pissed off at me and then she got cleaned out. This morning I got the silent treatment and she balked at drinking her Metamucil orange juice and I had to tell her to drop the attitude. I still want to do the boys enemas on Saturdays so I don't know how that is going to work. They willingly go in for their enemas from her and are not going to be happy with me again if they have to have them from me. They say I give mean enemas. I don't know what a mean enema is but I just don't take any delaying or lip service, I get them in there bent over and get it done. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> Subject: Re: Soiling Solutions and The Clean Kid Manual Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Friday, December 12, 2025, 06:15: pm Shelly, Your house seems to be the drama house. ha. Hope everything works itself out and settles down. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Soiling Solutions and The Clean Kid Manual Author: Shelly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Sunday, December 14, 2025, 09:48: am Well she is a puzzle. She sassed me Thursday after school when I made her mad because her guy friend needed to leave. I needed to give her her enemas so she could go home after school Friday for the weekend and then her parents will bring her back here Sunday late afternoon or evening and I will need a bowel movement from her on Sunday eve. Friday morning I had to get stern with her just to get her to drink her Metamucil. I'm starting to see the defiance her mom always tells me about. So anyway, yesterday morning bright and early she shows up with her friend that had asked me about an enema clean out for herself because her mom gives her suppositories sometimes. And they have come to give our little guys their enemas. And everybody is all happy and excited to do the enemas. I had them give both the boys their enemas at the same time, one in the house bathroom and the other in my master bathroom. That worked out well and it didn't take all day. I gave them 30 dollars to go get them something to eat and they were both so talkative and happy and giddy like they had just been to a really nice party and had so much fun. And yet when it is time for her to stool for me or get her enemas she is a totally different personality. Does her brain actually go into a different age similar to like the movie Sybil? I don't know. I think she does disassociate to some degree when I have her on the toilet for me. It's not the suppository or the enema so much that I see a different personality but once she is on the toilet and feels she can't defeat it and is going to have to let it out that she seems she just has turns into some one else. I know that was always the worse part for me after the initial shock of my first few enemas. I'm in my bedroom on the toilet chair and I'm going to be there for a while and my little sister will let someone sweet talk her into letting them in our shared bedroom so they can see that I have had my enema and I'm now sitting trying to get it back out. I know at those moments I wanted so bad to be somewhere else and not there trying to poop it all back out. But I never learned how to actually disassociate or take on another person and not be myself at that moment. I just sat there unable to leave and being visited by other kids in the family or step mom to see if I'm done yet. I to this day feel different when I'm on the toilet to poop or get my enemas back out than I do to pee. Sitting to pee is just so non issue, so normal feeling but sitting to poop is slightly anxiety filled for me. Kitten Paw you are right of course. The friend asked about my text with her mom and again said that her mom won't give her an enema because she doesn't know how to give them but that she gets really uncomfortable sometimes and even the suppository doesn't work to make her feel better. I told her when her mom and I get together we maybe will talk about how I can teach her mom how to clean her out when she gets really plugged up. She said she would like that because she asked her mom to let her go get colonics and her mom said no. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Soiling Solutions and The Clean Kid Manual Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Sunday, December 14, 2025, 01:36: pm Shelly, Here are my flooded thoughts as I was reading your post. First, when its someone else's enema and time on the toilet, sitter is ok, but when it’s her, she has to face her fear, her nastiness, her ugh moment. I don’t know if I would take anything personal, but I might address feelings to sitter. She really needs to understand that you understand her. I am glad she is showing up for the boys, that means a lot. Second, oh my, this statement, “but once she is on the toilet and feels she can't defeat it and is going to have to let it out” hit home to me. You know I was a fighter and holder up to the bitter end of releasing it. I just lost the enema battle having to go over mom’s lap and receive an enema and now I am sitting on the toilet. Still believing I can fight the urges. For me, it was the pain associated with going. I produced 3 feet baseball bats that yes would clog the toilet at times. And now I have soapy water inside of me. At that young age, I didn’t understand the science behind my bowels and soapy water. I thought I could release a little water release a little more water and I could defeat this enema without having a movement, but of course that’s not what happened when I realized I was not gonna win this battle and I was defeated. I lifted my legs, took a deep breath and relaxed. I felt like I was possessed. The enema took over. I was a vessel, a container, to be filled and emptied. Finally, I was thinking about our ole friend Krissy, how she managed to give all those enemas, she had a child in separate bathrooms and giving two to three enemas and rinses. Personally, I wouldn’t teach mom at first, I would ask if you could give her daughter and enema to get her started on her journey and at least be cleaned out properly so her daughter would know how to do it and how it feels than teach the mom if the daughter wants to continue or become an enema family like Krissy and have all the bathrooms filled with those two girls and clean them out together. Crazy thought I know. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]