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Subject: Re: Sad, alone, confused and hurt...please help

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Leah

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Date Posted: 02/23/09 4:02pm
In reply to: Melanie 's message, "Re: Sad, alone, confused and hurt...please help" on 02/23/09 12:45am

I get where you are coming from,I really really do.....honestly though it sounds now as you are wanting to have an abortion to get over this guy. You won't you will only think about him even more,because you will be thinking about the baby even more I promise,I have had an abortion.

I feel for you,but is this really what you want to do? You have clearly stated it is not. You see there never is a baby that "could have been" there IS a baby,regardless of what you do that baby will ALWAYS have been here.

I am going to share something that up to this point I have not shared before,I too had an appointment for an abortion,I am 20 weeks now. I went to the appointment I went in the room I got up on the table,I let the doc put in the lameneria tents(something used to dialate the cervix in later abortions) As soon as he did this he left and I broke down I knew then it was not right,his nurse came in and told me he could come back and remove them (they had only been in about 20 minutes) he did and he was angry with me for wasting his time!!!!! Yet he was there to support my right to choose??? I CHOSE to change my mind!

I was lucky because not enough damage was done and my child is ok and so am I. When you go it will be permanent. Please give yourself a bit more time to make sure......I fear for you because of your emotional state right now. Please at least call a center and talk to someone even if you do go please still call! You need an ear who will listen,keep talking ok,keep posting,do what you gotta do....I am worried for you!

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