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Re: Young, Single & Alone

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Melanie

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Date Posted: 12/19/08 2:10am
In reply to: Lucy 's message, "Re: Young, Single & Alone" on 12/16/08 12:21pm

I think things will fall into place somewhat once things don't seem so "up in the air" as to what you are going to do. Fortunately, you do have time to plan before the baby arrives. A good place to start might be with seeing what resources you do have. Even if it doesn't seem like enough, make a list of what you do have and start there and build on it. Do try checking out Crisis Pregnancy Centers and local community resources as one option in finding support.

While there are certainly exceptions, it is rare for parents to be completely unsupportive once a grandchild is in the picture. I don't think this necessarily means they will let you stay, but at least they usually do come to terms with things and love their grandchildren. And if the option is that you will be on the street with their grandchild, they find it a little more difficult to follow through. Right now, they are probably just concerned that it will be tough for you and think they are doing the right thing. Do give time for everyone to adjust. It's amazing how much difference a little time can make.

In the meantime, just begin to make plans the best that you can and find whatever support you can. I know it's a little scary trying to sort through this all, but you can do it.

--Melanie

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